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How does a 34 year old manmoder make friends
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>34
i... don't know
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goon out and pretend to be a woman and get adopted into the affirmation cult
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you don't
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>>44095112
stop dressing like an autistic man
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it's so dumb to me how there are apparently so many lonely borderline friendless millenials yet somehow it's not possible for them to just find each other
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>>44095117
I dont feel mentally different than I was when I was like 16. I'm just more responsible now. Aging is horrible and now I'm old and have no friends. I did everything wrong. I just wish I had people to play games with and joke around with like I did when was a teenager.

>>44095129
Where do I find the cult?

>>44095149
I'm wearing jeans and a hoodie...
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>>44095157
>I just wish I had people to play games with and joke around with like I did when was a teenager.
i want this too, what did you do wrong in your 20s that prevented you from having this?
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>>44095167
Isolated myself, dropped out of college more than once all because of dysphoria. Slowly lost old friends who drifted away and never made new ones.
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Either stop manmoding or make friends with other moders. I'm a 35yo moder but lucky enough to know a cult of bpd troons that baby me.
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This thread is depressing. Do you really stop mattering the second you hit 30?
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>>44095112
Maybe stop hanging aroynd with trannys and actually go out and do shit with normal people???? Holy shit are yoy this retarded. If you are then enjoy, youre gonna be 40 and alone and die of aids from tranny prostitutes
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>>44095480
I wish I had trans friends to hang out. I hang out with no one
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>>44095479
Pretty much.
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>>44095480
normal people dont hang around troons
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>>44095112
do you post about being a 34 y/o manmoder every single day? i swear ive seen this same post every time ive looked at the board
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>>44095595
I've posted like 4 times this month im kinda soft crashing out on being alive
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>>44095595
Nta, I think there's just a lot of miserable mid30s moders
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>>44095604
that makes sense. maybe I only noticed because i relate to these posts as a 30y/o manmoder with no friends, constantly dooming about having a man face and man body
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>>44095129
This is what chuds actually believe
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Middle age moders need a general
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I’m 33 do you want to be friends
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>>44095729
Yeah
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>>44095112
>>44095729
36 y o moder here

we are friends now
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>>44095479
If you don't have kids your life literally stops at 30 yes. After that its just work sleep work sleep for 30 or so years the your die. The fun is over, all your friends are working all the time if you have any and if you don't there are no more opportunities to make new ones
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>>44095797
What do you like
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>>44095729
>>44095825
Now what

>>44095859
:(

>>44095896
Video games i guess
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>>44095896
uh idk i guess i like health stuff right now. i dont really do anything but work and garden and diet and think about being a troon while scrolling here. and im kinda cringe dudeweedlmao atm cause i quit all my other habits

>>44095924
>Now what
i think we need a moder discord but i got locked out of my main and never really figured out how to create servers and stuff and the ones that make you do a survey to join always spook me. i dont want to be known that way thats why i post on anon
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I go to local queer stuff like dj sets . I make friends through friends
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>>44095112
adopt me.
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>>44095924
>>44095954
What’s your discord
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>>44095186
hahahaha...
[sobbing]
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yeah life has only been getting worse for me, and at 37 it's reaching the point where the right opportunity can make me hop in front of that train or whatever
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>>44095479
you just instantly become lower priority to your cishet acquaintances who are all starting new families dont really 'hang out' anymore.
if you managed to make it to 30 without knowing any other gay or trans people this meand you now have zero friends and are too unc-coded for 90% of people online
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>>44095112
For real how are there so many lonely single 30-somethings yet they can't just hang out with each other? I feel like I see a post from some lonely millennial like every day
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>>44095954
Ill make a public modercord if anyone actually wants it
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>>44096090
I will post when I'm off work in 2 hours if you're still around
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>>44096212
i would join as long as people are looking for actual friends, and it isnt a circlejerk for people whove already known each other for years
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>>44096320
That better be a pinky promise!
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>>44096405
All the circlejerking moders hate me, so don't worry about that. Not sure how many people will actually join tho!
https://discord.gg/Z6XNU34XC
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>>44096533
Is this a brand new disc for 30+ moders or an old server
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>>44096596
New server
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>>44095186
same
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>>44096212
i would lurk and say something every couple of days. i dont do well when i feel pressure to respond or one on one but i think if we get like a handful of people maybe we can casually penpalmode when im in a good mood that would be nice. but i have work rn g2g bbl
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>>44095112
If you live in a bigger city then it's possible. I live in a red and (comparitively) smaller suburban town. I'm almost 30. All the people that are gay/go to the local support group are either in their late teens or are old 40-60+. Most of the people there are allies too and not queer people which isnt a terrible thing but yeah I cant really relate to either age group so I stopped going
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>>44097082
making friends is stressful
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oh god oh fuck this was an awfuil idea
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>>44097267
it is. i keep saying i promise to make effort but i go flight fight frozen and freeze when i hear the notif sound and then cant think of anything to say and keep typing and backspacing. i just need really low stakes and to be able to come and go. if i think about it too much ill get anxious but in the moment im fine. thats what i mean by penpal and why text board works so well i hope i dont offend anyone or get kicked out for being flakey and non-responsive i cant do this always on thing
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>>44097512
im the same way i literally have to type it out in a notepad first so they dont sit there and watch the typing notification for 10 minutes
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>>44097536
oh that's a good idea
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>>44095112
Discord, unless you’re talking about in real life… shittttt i don’t know,,,, maybe discord… and meet them irl if you’re near or whatever
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>>44095129
Castration movie:
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>join discord
>make 1 post
>instantly have a panic attack
im not cut out for this
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>>44095186
Me too!
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>>44097512
yeah same, this is why i've never been able to make even online friends
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>>44095112
find a local public D&D game
meet people
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wtf is a manmoder?
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>>44098832
a miserable pile of brainworms
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>>44098667
I'm the same way, but if at least two of us feel that way, we can relate and maybe be friends
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>>44095112
join the modercord
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Touch grass
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i touch grass every day
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>>44100037
that'd be cool
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>>44095186
That's a mood
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>>44100156
it's too smoky
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>>44096607
You made it just now?
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>>44100843
Made it earlier today for this thread
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>>44101137
what are the requirements to join
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requirements?
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>>44095479
No, but that's this board's absurd mindset that produces arbitrary limits like that. They make up a bunch of rules like that all the time. Don't listen to this crap, it's insanity.



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