Is there ANY point to transitioning if you're not going to pass? Just curious haha
>>44096968mental health
>>44096983How would that improve my mental healt- I mean one's mental health.
>>44096968because you want to
>>44097049i also want to stuff my face with chocolate every day but i know there would be consequences
>>44096968is there a point to anything if were all gonna die someday? no. so why not do what makes you feel better in life?
>>44096968>is there any point to having a job if your not gonna be richEven if you don't pass, your more closely aligned to your gender so it's a net benefit.
>>44097069bodily autonomy, do what you want lol. weigh ur options like an adult and do whateverr
>>44096968I am a manmoder and three years in I have NEVER malefailedisjt thwt dujny XDDDDD
>>44097009I feel like a worthwhile human being on hrt instead of a worthless ambulatory sack of meatI feel like a 7 or even an 8 instead of a 2 (and here's where dysphoria is the worst because I was objectively a 9 as a guy)I stopped wanting to die every day
it is really hard to understand this when you're pretrans or early trans but the reality is none of you actually know if you will pass or not, and the chance of you passing is much higher than it feels before you get there
>>44097110manmoding as in you are actively trying not to look like a woman>i try not to look like a woman, but people don't think i look like a woman!lol
>>44097215I never malefailed after 3 years of HRT, IDK but it MAY have something to do with the fact that i am a 6'2 chadlite with gender dysphoria. XD
very much soI transitioned knowing it would be hard for me to pass, and now I pass all the timeit's not all pity-passing either. some of it probably is, but I get a lot more of the "cute, helpless girl" treatment from guys than I ever expectedpeople rushing to pick up things I drop in the grocery store, creepy guys hitting on me from their cars, getting called "dear" by cashiers, it's caught me off guard more than once, getting called "she" and "ma'am" people people helping me in storesfor a while dressing room attendants would explicitly point me toward the women's and now they just don't point at all, I assume because they assume I know where I belong. it doesn't even seem to cross their minds to question anythingeven before that started happening, I felt so much better and so much happier on E that it's just crazy. I was never able to be happy sober before and I now I honestly prefer sobriety.yesterday I looked in the mirror and while I'm not perfectly passing yet, I was blown away by how much has changed. I like how I look so much moreyou'll change a lot even if you don't pass, and unless you'll only be happy as a cis-passer (which like no one is unless you started pre-puberty), you'll probably be happier transitioning
>>44097317post selfie or LARP
>>44096968No
>>44098425sure because I'm totally willing to compromise my identity to satisfy a 4chan chud's doubts lol
being able to authentically express yourself in voice, fashion, hair, mannerisms, style etc. is objectively good for your well being
