Any nonas doing a long distance thing right now? Either just dating or in a serious relationship, I would like to know your experiences. I feel like my local options as a mid tranny are grim so I'm thinking about branching out to people farther away.
>>44141768Snoymoder is a long distance relationship with me.
>>44141768LDR is okay, I've done it before. But it will take a lot of time effort to find people and weed out the unimaginable amount of catfishes.
yeah and i'm going to meet her soon. you can't go looking for it. you have to just develop a relationship with someone you meet organically doing something else. don't tell someone in your phone that you love them until you meet them.
>>44141789You are her cuck bf?
>>44141768ive been long distance dating my bf for 3yrs now. we're going to meet for the first time in a couple weeks. we're both autistic and schizoid-like so we dont talk to anyone else outside of our relationship and we get along very well and talk daily for hours. i hope our irl meet goes well (we're both virgins too)im still in school and he lives taking care of his semi-abusive family so thats why we cant see each other more often. once i finish school and get a good job we'll likely move in together
>>44141972>more oftenbruh you haven't seen each other at all. wishing you luck on the first meeting tho
I started talking to a very sweet girl I met from here. This is my first time doing something long-term. I do find it a bit frustrating that I can't really take her on dates and progress the relationship because I really like her. My hope is to visit her or have her visit me, whichever comes first.
>>44142265Fuck I meant long distance, not long term
>>44142265i hope your relationship with the very sweet girl progresses when you see her (giwtwm)
>>44142260idk i feel like facetiming everyday is near that, but yeah lol. idk i hope it goes well he means the world to me and helped me reach grad school n stuff
>>44141768LDR's arent real lmaounless you were dating irl before going ldr
>>44141925do not call me or her a cuck. fuck you.
>>44142528She said you are okay with her whoring herself to be some dude's sex slave maid so.....
>>44141768>Any nonas doing a long distance thing right now?I am, I have been in a long distance relationship for three years now. What would you like to know?
>>44141905what do you mean by catfishes?
>>44142602obviously depends on where you're looking but i assume OP wants to try e-dating, where a lot of people are just fake or scamming and will especially love to go after trannies because they're desperate and naive
>>44142597How did you start it? When did you decide it was a serious relationship,?
>>44142825We started it a month after I broke up with my ex bf. And we knew it was serious right off the bat. We both don't do unserious relationship stuff. About a year lr so into the relationship my partner told me she was trans and I helped and fully loved her for it. It has been very difficult. But I hope to get married to her this year and get our life started.
>>44142871Sounds lovely
>>44143270It has been both lovely and terrible. But, at the end of the day love my fiancée.
>>44141768about 2 years in, it's miserable because if we want to see eachother for a week we've gotta spend a combined thousand just to book shit each time.
>>44143379>a combined thousandEspecially after Spirit airlines shut down. ~$500 just for a 7 day hotel stay and it's the bare minimum clean/no bugs.
>>44143408im sorry to tell you anon but i'm a yurofag. it's not looking good here either.
>>44143408At this point you gotta start thinking about moving in together
>>44143449We're too early in for that (only 4 months)>>44143432I'm sorry euroanon
>>44141768he's my first love but it's so horrible and tricky to sustain at times. i can't move in with him because he is constantly moving about for school and complications with family attachment i won't get into. we were friends online to start with for about five years and have been "dating" for a little over two. neither of us have jobs so it's all day talking and any time not together over call feels wasted. there's little respite or variation in my life because of this. i just wish i could bring him something to eat or shout from another room but these things aren't possible yet. regardless i hope i can marry him and i think i will get to but i foresee it taking some time to heal from this when something does eventually happen. we have met each other in secret once and it was the loveliest day of my life. you should avoid getting into an ldr on purpose if possible.
>>44141768i've done it way too many times. it fucking sucks. last time i was completely in love with this one tranner and she started VRchatting with a bunch of transbians and dumped me stone cold afterwards. "i realized i was a lesbian the entire time sorry." i think getting emotionally invested in someone that you can't actually get close enough to generate human-contact-pheromone-bonding-stuff with is a bad idea.
i'm american, my not-bf is french ; we met on a french minecraft server and started talking , video calling , sending each other emails after realizing we have a lot in common . we're both pretty independent bc of the 6 hour décalage , but i think about him a lot , i wonder how my head would feel in the crook of his shoulder , i wonder how he smells , i wonder what his cooking tastes like , i wonder how his lips taste after he chain smokes winstons . i wonder what he wonders about me . i sent him a package the other month and it was cathartic to watch him open it and hold in his hands parts of my world made real , parts of my world , of my quotidien that have crossed the sea and made it between his hands , proof that i exist . i'm finally visiting him at the start of next month .i want to second that one nona's remark about how you can't look for someone to love at a distance , you need to let it happeni'm flying out to france at the end of the month
>>44142310Thanks, I am so excited to have her over
>When everyone on dating apps isn't looking for anything serious or ghosts>When you percieve irl interaction as negative so meeting someone randomly never happens>When everyone in your city is either too old or too young>When there's no where to hang out nearby>when you're trans so meeting just anybody isn't going to workI'm tired bitch
>>44142602faking gender to get incriminating texts/pix/vids which can devolved in blackmail and revenge porn (always ask for face-time etc), and/or faking emotions to get incriminating texts/pix/vids etc. Take the blackpill and get over it as there's always a risk: it's kinda worth it tho bc you'll certainly find lonely people online.spoiler alert: it always ends with broken hearts bc it never works but it's worth it.
Met a guy from here and he moved me into his home and made me his gf after a month. I am in bliss
>>44146014a month?? doesn't that seem a bit risky?
>>44141768I did for years, we're currently married and living together
>>44146053Life is full of risks, sometimes you just gotta jump
>>44141768I met my bf through frengen! We were friends for about half a year, then he visited me for a few weeks and things organically turned into a LDR. About a year in, we closed the distance and moved in together, and now we're closing in on 4yr anniversary. He's lovely, like just a total sweetheart, and I don't think I would've had even close to the same fortune if I had limited myself to local dating. Catfishes and asshole people are annoying to get through but I think it's worth the hassle. But I would only consider it if moving in together in 1-2 years was realistic. Relationships that are like 2+ years in, where they haven't met in person or have no pathway to closing the distance permanently, are kinda sad and seem like a waste of time for everyone involved. Not to gatekeep LDRs or anything.
