>at work on break>ldr relationship so were just talking about what were gonna get up to when i see him again>hes the top & were just talking about what we wanna do (mostly sex stuff)>drop that i have some more insane stuff i havent told him about that im into but i dont wanna explain it over text>he presses>finally let it drop that i have a thing for getting cut during sex but ive never actually done it b4 cuz it sounds insane to normal people>says hes totally ok with doing it, isnt really weirded out, i tell him why i enjoy it & whatnot, he makes a joke about it which tells me hes actually fine w/ it>ff a few hours & i call him, were talking about random stuff & it comes up again, i tell him specifics about it like him putting tally marks on me whenever we have sex blah blah blah>"can i ask if we dont do this all the time" which like yeah obviously besides the tally mark thing>then it turns into "idk we can try this once and ill see if im ok with it"am i insane if i get a little upset with him if he doesnt wanna do it more than once? ive been dreaming about doing this for almost 5 years & now that i finally get my chance suddenly i have to worry about getting it & never having it again????? also i guess ama
>>44144747It’s okay to be disappointed but this is something most people won’t do. I think knife play where it’s just threatening and not actual cutting is more palatable to most people. Don’t break up with him over it if he doesn’t like it, you’ll probably regret it. He is trying it for you!
>>44144771oh trust me i wasnt planning on doing anything to damage the relationship if he isnt willing and i can understand the reluctance to do it all & i appreciate it a lot that he didnt just call me a freak or say its fucked or whatever. i think id just be really sad about it for a few days then go back to indulging it on my own like i have been. i just wanted to include him in it cuz (for example) the idea of him putting his name on me makes my head spin
>>44144845I get it then, I really wish my bf would hit me and choke me but he just won’t. Kinda makes me sad.
>>44144996>I really wish my bf would hit me and choke memines done that b4, hes been reluctant to do any hitting cuz he slapped me one time out of anger but i cant think of a single time since i told him i wanted to be choked he hasnt done that unless i was on top of him. hes quite perfect. i think you can get what u want if you just explain how to do it right & do it when its not time to actually have sex yk (unless youve done that b4 then idk what to say im sorry)
>>44145082What do you mean how to do it right and when it’s not time to have sex? Sorry I don’t get it
>>44145098i just meant like, maybe he'll be more receptive if you just explain how to do it & not do it right before sex so maybe it doesnt come off as desperate and he can actually think about it clearly? idrk i kinda just say shit for no reason sometimes sorry :<
why are all these guys who date trannies scared of choking?
>>44145131were both <6 months on hrt which is funny
i hate knowing how much i lucked out with my ex being 100% compatible with literally every extreme fetish i have
>>44145247lucky but theyre your ex for a reason.....
>>44145131Especially with such big necks you have
>>44145515theyre my ex because i wasnt good enough lolholding out hope for more decent guys into weird stuff being out there tho
>>44145586oh sorry :/there are but they usually come with their own issues, def sounds like u kinda got lucky last time.
Seems like he agreed with it before he truly processed all of his feelings about it. It’s kind of something you can only understand whether you like after you’ve actually done it… Sorry Nona. Maybe drop it for a while and then try it and he’ll learn if he likes it? Context is everything. The abstract idea of it is very different than the actual dynamics that might be possible before and after the cutting, being horny can change a lot. What is your sex usually like, if you don’t mind me asking? Is he ok with spanking and choking at all? Lots of guys will avoid it because their urge to nurture you is way too strong.
>>44145529I would bet money my neck is the size of your forearm lol
>>44146519very chokeable. please post more
