Its becoming increasingly apparent that theres not a real community for transsexual peoplemainstream trans discourse is entirely focused on "transgender" people and the difference between the two is increasingly hard to ignoreI never thought I would feel isolated in my own community for having dysphoria and not being a non-dysphoric enby or something(not to say this is a terrible thing its just not trans in the classical sense)
it’s bleak out there. total faketrans death
>>44146588maybe in ftm spacesalong with all of the anti-trans shit coming in mtfs will keep diying all the same, sucks for the ftm guys though
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>>44146588>Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I saw a hecking theyfab foid at my local boomerhon collective, whatever shall I do
>>44146588Most don't even want srs. Most trannies are lookmaxxers
>>44146666Im complaining about how difficult it is to relate to people in my community because of my severe gender dysphoria :((((
>>44146588That shit has been a thing since the early 2010s, especially in ftm spaces
this community sucks
>>44146698>Most trannies are lookmaxxersnot OP but I am one, yeah. Except I had srs too.thing is that "the community" kept on excluding trannies like me and kept on including theyfabs. Well, the community made its bed, now they can lie in it.
>>44146588The transsexual/transgender debate trannies are always the most annoying people ever
>>44146847anything is better than the AGP vs HSTS debate
>>44146588I don't agree with her on a lot of things but Julia Serano called it ages ago
join communities with people above the age of 25
>>44146771you're on the selfhating tranny board on 4chan dot org what did you expect
>>44146588That's the natural progression of things when the idea of transgenderism has been widely idealized while the condition of gender dysphoria is extremely rare in reality. A similar thing occurred for dissociative identity disorder, since there is a large gap between the number of people who think it's cool to roleplay multiple personalities in their head versus the highly rare occurrence where somebody has to go through enough harrowing trauma to develop DID. The people with a true diagnosis have been hugely outnumbered in every mental health communityObviously this is never going to happen, but if I had my way, the non-dysphoric sect should be recategorized as exerting their freedom of gender expression rather than being trans. It's fine if you want to change your pronouns or be a third thing. These people should have just been taught that from the get-go instead of feeling the need to steal the trans label
Bruh here's someone saying they're not only transmasc but trans-amab. Forgetting the rest of those things that somehow make them trans too. Crazy stuff
>>44147032Who cares, allowing them to exist in our community without encouraging them to medicalise prevents detrans cases. You're not being pushed out at all because there's a theyfab at your 99% boomerhon support group
>>44147263When you encounter the mentally ill online you're not supposed to laugh or prod them.
I feel like these exclusionary enbies are mostly a myth cooked up by the feds to keep the trans community divided and even less effective
>>44147032this entire perspective has been obliterated by the mass transition of twinks, desu. it has also been narratively explained by the AGP/HSTS dichotomy and increasing medical articulation of a distinction between neural feminisation and neural cross sex identity generating body image processing (the former generating the HSTS type here complained about, the latter the latter obviously the type to complain here). old transsexuality was as much a product of the ignorance of its time as it was the needs of its people, and now that the TERFs have retroactively canonised the forced transition of gays into women (something which imo is of dubious historical merit at its actual scale but of profound associative power) the category of people who will willingly displace themselves from twink to trans purely for the appearance side of it is only going to grow. we do actually need to hash out the AGP/huss distinction in a way that is non-stigmatising and serves us both, desu.
>>44147332well they certainly are cooked up by feds!
>>44147401This entire thread is federal, theyfabs are not a real problem
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>>44147460Do you want to live with transphobic people or something? They're giving you the signal to exclude them from your local community on a silver platter.
>>44147460Also, queer people includes trans women regardless, all that is, is just code word for anyone they see as a woman. If you're a trans woman that's passes they'll probably let you in
>>44147465>>44147475
>>44147482>taking "people" on twitter seriously
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>>44147499Reina is a radical feminist terf, whos been my friends personal lolcow for 3 years, that's also not her main rn so god knows how long ago that screenshot was taken
>>44147507She's never been a theyfab>>44147509Okay? Do you want to live with a dog that wants to murder you 24/7. I had to live with one and it was not pleasant
>>44147523Afab only = anyone I see as a woman
>>44147482>>44147499
>>44147537>>44147531None of these say Afab only, just Afab preferred which means they will accept a passing tw
>>44146829Whatever will we do without you
>>44147482>>44147499>>44147509>>44147517>>44147523>>44147531>>44147537man just let the AFABs have their polycules, its pretty obvious what their intentions are.
>>44147263lol first mistake was going into a radqueer space
>>44147576noo it’s ok that you wanna look like a girl but like why can’t you just like stay where u belong ^^; noo i don’t hate trans women i just think they should stay in amab spaces ^^; trans women are women! (as long as i cant tell,,)
>>44147584pure fucking retardation lol i need to be around afabs cuz we all know trans women are rapemachines that wanna steal our vaginasas someone who’s not even a transsexual (transmasc, nonbinary, don’t think im a theyfab but whatever) it’s just so obvious that they don’t see themselves as actual men, they’re actually just trending, binding (occasionally) and getting a fucking ugly haircut so they can live out their yaoi fantasies
>>44147633as long as you don't weaponize your agab against trans women or whatever i dont really care if youre not a Traditional TruTranssexual. my bestie rn is some ftm who isnt the most masculine man in the world or whatever. but the truth is the vast majority of ppl who are all nonbinary gender freaky agab terminology users are just terfs in disguise.
>>44147609that's absolutely true tho look at actuallesbians>>44147625literally nothing wrong with this>>44147630waow whoda thunk it people who wanna be men are jealous of AMABs. I went through a period of wanting to be able to describe myself as transmasc because I was like an enbycoping boymoder and was jealous of random transmascs who weren't on T. Window dressing aside that is basically just wanting to be a woman who gets slightly fruity with it.>>44147617you found an insane person. good work. get a life holy shit
fleshy afab need for book clubs free from amab influence
>>44147668the pharoahs curse of people believing that understanding gender and gender roles as made up makes you non-binary is a swarm of locusts upon the plight of the transsexual
>>44147658it’s refreshing to hear that from someone especially on 4tran loli do genuinely struggle a lot with my gender and it rlly pisses me off when “trans guy” friends i have try to talk to me abt their period or like the fact that they’re trans, honestly i feel like most of the time all they do is mention that they aren’t trans, they’re worst part is they lump me in with them as a tranny friend, like yea i guess but why do u need to announce it to the whole group when im just trying my best not to speak at all because u hate how high my voice is???i honestly don’t care if people are transsexual or not, i don’t think people’s gender or sex identities r really my business, and im one of those people who think you can be whatever as long as you feel that way, but theyfabs REALLY piss me off because they will never hate their body as much as i do, let alone a true transsexual
i dont want to talk to you if you're male
>>44147703yeah gotta suck to be lumped in with and assumed to be one of these people because of being a trans guy like they've kind of completely ruined most trans women's ability to trust you. i do feel bad for that fact. not really fair. these people invading trans spaces seems to more violently target trans women but i dont envy your position due to them either.
this one i cant even keep a straight face posting.
>>44147733>unexercised t gutlol
>>44147703>>44147724not to mention ppl who try to shove you into their definition of lesbianism must be very uncomfortable and dysphoria inducing.
>>44147724i am grateful that the attacks on my kind aren’t as egregious, but they are a bit more insidious (hate to put it this way, but they rlly bully like girls yk, pretending to be nice just to be a total fag toward u)one of my best friends is a trans girl and i’m helping her transition, so at least we know we have each other in our corners? idk :P
>>44147746>imagelol
>>44147746god it is so disgustingi already tend to “play-female” when i have sex with my boyfriend just because i need him to like me or ill kms , but the idea of a lesbian liking me even when ive stated that im not a chick or ANY female aligning gender is so weird and disgusting>>44147668also, this is so wild to me cuz if it was up to me i’d be the flattest guy with the most based dick anyone has ever seen? lol
>>44147776(boyfriend is genuinely bisexual with a history of liking cis men, i’m not in that deep guys.)
you can still be a straight guy and fuck my poon
>>44147770Not even trans or detrans, thats just a cis woman who shoved a cucumber up her pussyLook up "mary cate cucumber"
>>44147790SNCA
>>44147796i know this is a cis terf, she's coddled up to and agreed with by theyfabs and hefabs though cause they share the same wombynist ideology.
>>44147796obviously just her way of expressing her gender identity, don’t be so bigoted!!! lul
ywnbaw wokely
>>44147804There are 0 theyfabs in that screenshot, Shes responding to a pro medical separatism take from a trans woman because shes (the trans woman) is a dummy who fell for a literal terf psyop
dood is a braphog
>>44147821TDLR two retards fighting
ok enough proving we have a theyfab/hefab problem I need to go draw (i know youre shocked i could have such an afab coded hobby)
>>44147850>i know youre shocked i could have such an afab coded hobbyDrawing is malebrained because most top artists are men
>>44147772is he ok
>>44147885no he died
>>44147905:(
>>44147850Struggling to find where the theyfab/hefab problem is
>>44147913its ok, hell be reincarnated as a beautiful bird of song
>>44147884but i draw afab coded stuff like low quality fanart