I think I managed to get a date with a non binary person. They could be amab or afab I'm genuinely unsure and that's part of why I am feeling like is this really happening. I mean I have a guess but I could be wrong. How do I not fuck this up. I assume they are interested in me because I'm a guy and I identified myself as such. If I wear RRAWWW MAAAN fragrance is that bad? Should I wear something neutral in the same vein as CK One but perhaps less obvious? Can I compliment a non binary person without gendering them? How does this work? This could be amazing but I'll probably fumble. Is it ok to be attracted to a person specifically because they are nonbinary and it could go either way? Is that fetishizing?
i wouldn’t call it fetishization to be attracted to a person despite what junk they have, however i think you’re caring too much abt the fact that they’re nonbinary like just be urself. also desu if you meet them irl and can tell what junk they have just compliment them opposite of it; fem=handsome , male=pretty yk, good luck on ur fag date
>>44147235Thanks for the (You). I do plan on being myself but the problem with "opposite" is what if I can't tell, I'm just concerned if I overplay male or female I'm sticking my foot in my mouth. Plus if I do "clock" them then wouldn't it be giving myself away if I complimented the opposite, it seems like hugboxxing. I just hope they don't like me for other reasons so I don't have to hate myself for fucking it up.
>>44147268prolly just tell them they look perfect or breathtaking, if you don’t want to do opposite you could always just use both types of gendered language as well
