I was shy and meek but I was forced to become more assertive because life isn't forgiving if you're weak
>>44146926isn’t that a good thing
transfoid?
>>44146939No, it's exhaustingbeing made to fake your way through things that don't come naturally to you harm both you and the people who rely on you to fill a role you're uncomfortable inand that "honorable king" shit about the best leader being the person who doesn't want it is mental retardation, it does not work this way
>>44146939Imagine just wanting to be a low stress housewife at heart but being forced to try really hard and always take initiative and volunteer to take on tough tasks so you can get promotions and recognition and make it in lifeIt's very tiring
>>44146956>>44146977but shyness is a terrible trait to have no matter what you do in life
>>44147026shyness is cute in girls though. shyness in guys however is looked down upon
>>44146926I can't be assertive it doesn't matter how many blue collar jobs I take
>>44147026shyness is only a terrible trait in males