identifying as nonbinary literally means you feel outside the gender binary. that’s the entire definition. if i, as an afab person, can dress masculine and pass as a man and still be nonbinary, why is my partner not allowed to do the same just bc they have a dick?gender identity ≠ gender expression ≠ pronounsnone of those need to be connected in any way to be a real trans identity/expression
>>44214364kill yourself
>>44214364Kill yourself OP
>>44214374>>44214382i’m not acting like it’s not confusing. i’m simply saying that something being confusing to a stranger doesn’t mean i or anyone else needs to change anything about how they live or talk about themselves. life is confusing. that’s okay.do you truly expect my partner to pass as nonbinary? how is that possible? we live in a red county in a red state. we have to pick male or female to pass as for our own safety. it’s much safer and easier for them to pass as a man. they do not dress the same as they do pre-coming out, they dress much more androgynous/gay man fashion style. they have multiple piercings, long styled hair, and don’t use he/him. that’s all they can do in our circumstances. they would love to present more “nonbinary” but literally cannot do that safely in public. what you pass as is a perception of others. it can often be completely unrelated to what you personally feel inside, not everyone gets the opportunity to look like how they want all the time. even when i was 2 years on hormones and trying to be stealth as a man, it didn’t always work. not due to my lack of care or trying, but because i cannot control the thoughts and opinions of other people. it is not always a choice you can work with. if we lived in a queer friendly area it would be different but they do not have that privilege.they do not need a reason to identify as nonbinary. they feel how they feel, and have discovered that using that term helps explain to other people what they mean and also find people who feel similarly. there’s no reason to do literally anything in life if we’re supposed to live around what makes sense to others. that’s a horrible way to live
>>44214364>gender identity ≠ gender expression ≠ pronounsYour bait won't work on me because this is literally true THOUGH
>>44214364Have you considered killing yourself, OP?
>>44214364Kill yourself, retardAlso it’s funny how the retarded tumblrina presents the two stereotypes about nbs as if their ridiculous when both (theyfabs are attention-seeking morons and theymabs are predatory creeps) are nearly always true, the only exceptions are when a trans man or woman is using nb as a soft launch for their transition, which is still stupid but that person is at least actually queer unlike those fucking larpers
