how do i get out of an abusive relationship if im doing all of the abusing
you could still leave a relationship even if you're abusive
>>44221980ooh ooh! I've been in this exact situation before. What will happen is, they will leave you first. Then, you'll have time to ponder. Lots of time. Most of your time, is going to be spent in total solitude. Everyone else you know is going to leave you one by one.For a while, you'll feel incomplete. Like something is completely missing, because you'll be missing the power dynamic you once had with the other person. But eventually, if you take the steps, you'll find out that all that lashing out you're doing, involuntary or not, is hurting everyone. Because when you self hate, it festers inside of you and it affects the way you treat everybody else.Throughout a year, you'll seek all the help you can get. You can try medicine and talk therapy, maybe see inpatient help, go through a lot of work. So much that it feels like a waste of time. But you'll see that in solitude you can be honest. And soon you'll learn to like the peace. You learn to stop abusing everybody else in your life, and you feel good about yourself.A year later you'll try to apologize. Instead, she will get all her underage buddies, and write another document against you, publish it online for the world to see. You'll lose your job and your family won't look you in the eye anymore, and it will be really hard to believe in your own change when no one else will give you that chance.But basically, you'll be ejected first. And no matter what you'll never get that change back.
>>44222015bold of you to assume i have anyone else in my life rn. they don't have any place to leave to. i'm all they have. what will happen either way is that one of us will kill ourselves and that's how it comes to and end as it is right now, for both of us.i want to know if there could ever be a way to leave eachother without any of us dying but im not sure i should even try to believe in that. so instead i keep lashing out to the single last person who doesn't leave me
