okay so first things first do i call a repper by the pronouns they use now or do i say fuck you and use the right ones??? anyways my friend is a repper and i wanna know how to make them stop or something i mean they wouldnt be the prettiest but they would pass if they shaved and voice trained they alr have a very feminine build so like idk what do i do??? get them to diy and tell them boymoding is the way if theyre not ready?? some stupid fugly cisfoid they was dating totally scared them out of coming out and i thought i had that covered until randomly their mom said some fucked shit like "please dont ever be girl" or smth along those lines it wasnt terrible like violent terrible like emotional manipulation that only mothers do but i digress i cant stand seeing my friend rot away in her bed smoking weed all day or atleast i can but not while she pretends to be something shes not please help me save her from herself shes literally admitted it multiple times but will pretend those convos never happened any other time P.S sorry for stupid image i didnt have any cool or fitting ones
>>44223266I advise sensually boyremoval.Worst case scenario the two of you can have a wholesome homoerotic moment between bros.
>>44223291i cant do this i have a girlfriend and so does my friend but maybe i will converse with their gf she can probably do that thank you
>>44223299Y'all don't have to go all the way. Just a gentle touch, direct eye contact, confidently assert that they'd be hot if they were a girl.The cisfoids will only be upset if you don't let em watch. Have you never read a romance novel? Or BL manga?You'll need a mop fr.
>>44223266We are reppers for a reason. If you don't want to respect our choice you're no better than this persons transphobic mom. If they wanna transition they'll do it when they're ready. All you can do is be supportive.
>>44223453that would only be non-retarded if there wasn't the ticking timebomb of heightening sexual dimorphism at play. Better a slightly estrogenized recovering angry dude than a forever sad tranny.
>>44223453repper either die, live miserably, or transition at a point its way harder than if they did earlier you keep your issues to yourself i care about my friend and im not gonna sit around and watch this playout YOU are a repper for your reasons there is no one single reason and you dont know my friend this advice is akin to telling someone their friend is anorexic for a reason so you should just hope they get off of edtwt before their stomach ruptures from bp
>>44223453You're turborepping if you think talking to a friend about gender is just as bad as the "I hope you're not trans" nvke.Sounds like you could use a friend like OP desu.
>>44223494as an EDchad what's BP.
>>44223513It'd be really funny if that's OP's friend and she's getting a taste of the reptermination at play.
>>44223518binge purge basically eating insane amounts in a short period then throwing it all up more deadly than normal restriction
>>44223409oohh well then see i have tried this by commenting on her figure a few times its like an active choice for her to rep atp also whenever i say shed be a cute girl she goes like "idkkk" maybe i just have to try harder
>>44223453Trvke>>44223266As a repper I'd prefer if you just treated me like any other cis male with a mental disorder.
>>44223592concerning.....
>>44223600Why's that?
>>44223606be yourself
>>44223625Can't be anyone else unfortunately.
>>44223266You don’t have to be pushy in order to argue against these negative influences. I recommend that you keep trying to invalidate what they have told them to clear that smoke.>>44223494This. When someone starts actively repressing gender stuff they begin to hollow out, and a clock starts ticking. The difficulties of starting hrt older totally aside, there is a major psychological toll from repping. Eventually THE moment will come, the last call when the Grim Trooner arrives. If someone refuses that last call and continues to rep, the decay escalates to their brain soupifying.Letting someone determine gender for themselves is entirely different from enabling self harm. You have to intervene against the bad influences before it becomes objective
>>44223762so embrace yourself you dont have to like yourself but embrace yourself so its easier to be a you that you like, think of yourself as a run down house, clearly youre still standing so its not over yet you can fix yourself up and if its hard im sure you have atleast someone who can help
>>44223790i can definitely keep trying esp since some of the bigger reasons are dealt with but im at a loss for what exactly to do or say its hard to get her to talk about that stuff so maybe ill try to get my gf to help me since they are kinda friends too and once i get a good grasp of her gf's personality maybe she will help too she seems sweet
>>44223860does she know about john 50? she has to know how stupid she's being especially if she could pass jfc. ask her to imagine having to live the rest of her life looking like her dad. would she be able to deal with it? with looking in the mirror every day and seeing that THING
>>44224332https://www.avitale.com/essays-details/?name=the-gender-variant-phenomenon--a-developmental-review-5>John, a 50 year-old genetic male, medical research scientist, married (23 years), father of three children aged 20, 17 and 7, phoned me after experiencing a panic attack severe enough to require emergency attention from paramedics at the airport on his way to give a presentation at a conference. John gave me only his first name and informed me that I was the first to be told what he was about to tell me. He said he was "gender dysphoric" and that he was "desperate." Feelings that were once "controllable through sheer force of will," had increased to where he now was having protracted periods where he would close his office door, lie on the floor and weep quietly while curled up in the fetal position, holding his genitals in pain. Other than intrusive and repeated fantasies of being female, he had refused to allow himself any overt form of female gender expression. He reported feeling that if he was to cross-dress and be caught, he would dishonor his wife and family. Having attained international recognition for his work, he was also concerned about his professional reputation. The only other form of temporary relief came through masturbating, often up to five times a day.it isn't exactly news that repping is a slow suicide
>>44223266i've heard of a process called forced feminization
>>44224332no and she doesnt know how stupid bcz she thinks its alr too late she also doesnt really interact w any trans people besides me and my gf
>44223266>i mean they wouldnt be the prettiest but they would pass if they shaved and voice trained they alr have a very feminine build so like idk what do i dotell her she has potential. tell her shes pretty. over and over. idk everyone is different and im really sad right now but i just found a pic of me like 10 years ago when i thought i had no chance and i kinda wanna kms for being so fucking stupid. >shes literally admitted it multiple times but will pretend those convos never happenedi did this soooooooooo much "as a joke". just tell her it will work out and be worth
