Why do so many bi men end up re-coming out as "I'm gayyyyy af yas queen!! or "I'm totally 100% straight bro"? Is it that bad being bisexual that so many end up monosexual?
>>44224997Being a bi man is like being gay but with none of the benefits.
because monosexuals can't understand liking both men and women you HAVE to like one or the other, women will hate you because they think you're gay and gay men will hate you because they think you're straight so it's better to just pick the one you like more and just larp
>>44225315the only bisexuals that can get away with it are really ugly ones or really hot ones. because ugly people will fuck anything, and anyone will fuck hot people no matter what.
>>44225315Most "bisexuals" don't like men and women though. It's mostly a fake identity. This is how 99% of them are:>I'm bi like uh women are like so beautiful hehe I'm attracted to all women and only like 2 men even though all my exes were generic frat bros and I've never tried to date or have sex with a woman in my life and the thought of eating pussy disgusts me>I'm bisexual but I only like penis, femboys, and being a sissy slut humiliated by chads, but the male body and face repulses me, if any faggot tried to kiss me after I sucked his dick I would punch him in the face and break his nose, dirty faggot queer! ugh men make me sick!I realized this as one of the very few actually bisexual people alive and how alien and foreign my experiences of just normally dating other men and women was to other "bi" identifying people. I think we're no more than 1% of the population at the absolute most. The bi label is just meaningless at this point.
>>44224997i think it has to do with us not having a strong identity of our own so many will just say fuck it and pick a side to fit int. bi dude
>>44224997this never happens, the bi hate on this board is gay and cringe
Because if you don't do that, whichever "side" your feet are on at any given moment will accuse you of being secretly on the other side
>>44225315It’s this, straight women (including the women who pretend to be bi but aren’t) fucking hate it when a guy is bisexual. While I would hate to be DL instead of out, I totally understand why lots (most if we’re honest) bi guys are DL or at least minimise talking about their attraction to one of the sexes, it tends to mostly dependant on which way their friend group skews as to which they’re likely to pick.Actual bi women are cool with it in my experience, in fact they often prefer it.>>44225352You can also get away with it socially if you’re kind of androgynous. By which I mean androgynous, not just butch as a woman and femme as a man, you actually have to combine traits. I’m pretty mid but I’ve never gotten shit for being bi socially (that wasn’t just more general homophobia, not bi erasure, just getting called a faggot for not being straight) or from any gay men I’ve been with. I could tell some of the straight women I’ve been with didn’t like it very much and I know other straight women who have outright said they won’t date bi men (but they’re totally not homophobic, honest).>>44225726This is embarrassing copium. Not only are bisexuals not rare, they are by far the biggest cohort of not-straight people. If this is your experience with bisexual men in particular it probably means you’re ugly.I’ve known so many “gay” guys who later re-came out as bisexual lmaoYou’re more right about bi women but a lot of them are still real.
>>44225855>they are by far the biggest cohort of not-straight peopleOnly because of this weird sexual gerrymandering where anyone whose dick even twitches slightly when looking at femboys is counted as bi as much as someone like me. Isn't that what the cringy community says, that it's all a spectrum and if you're only 1% attracted to another sex you're bisexiual? Oh I'm sorry "bi+". Defined a word to be so broad and inclusive that it doesn't mean anything anymore.
>>44225855>Not only are bisexuals not rare, they are by far the biggest cohort of not-straight peopleOh wow mantranny, there are so many jokes there. Biscum being striggers, bishits either calling themselves bi if they liked one boy or one girl or any kind of tranny in their whole life for points, biggers caliing themselves that while not attracted to the opposite sex more than an opportunity to hook up rarely.
>>44225953>it's gerrymandering when someone has attraction to amabs and afabsumyeahthat's the idea
>>44225953>waaaah I got called bi because I’m attracted to both men and womenYes, you are, that’s what being bi is, cope. Glad I’m so middle of the road that I don’t have your embarrassing insecurity.>>44225988>seething at lower level bisexualityCouldn’t make any more out, nearly incomprehensible. I’m glad we upset you.
>>44225998That is what gerrymandering is if you look at the maps they make. The real world and sciences work on statistics and probabilities, not absolutes. The definition of bi has been broadened and perverted so much to try and include anyone and everyone that honestly shouldn't be, and since being a sexual minority is considered desirable in certain circles (progressives) it gives them an incentive to just run with it.
>>44226077Whatever makes you cope at night. You're a straggot invader and I'm not gonna waste time on entertaining you. You're unlikeable, as a person and a member of a certain "group" for many reasons. Seethe. End your life.
>>44226077I think you misunderstood what I'm saying because of your evident low IQ, me being bisexual and very middle of the road and equal opportunity about it was obvious to anyone with reading comprehension from what I wrote >>44225726
>>44226114I’m going to keep fucking both men and women and there’s nothing you can do to stop me.>>44226129Then you’re my exact inverse by seething at people not being bi enough, fucking grow up.
>>44226146I won't even need to try. Why would I waste my time on a bishit that will be a straggot in about few years at max? You're not important, just ACK already.
>>44226207you sound agitated, go sniff some poppers in your leather dog mask, maybe drink daddy's piss and rape some kids or whatever it is you fags do
>>44226207Being in relationships with women or men has never stopped me seeing men or women on the side in the past, why would it now?>>44226234Kek
>>44226251were they ok with it or are you a cheating piece of trash?
>>44226234I'm quite calm, just being honest. I'm sorry that you had to resort to projection, confessions and satire and struggled to get anything else out. I'm sorry you are the pedophile one and your favorite lolishota futa vtuber is taking a break from you and you have nothing to else to say. I'm not sorry you have the false sense of superiority about yourself tho, maybe one day it will cause bodily harm :(>>44226251Don't care, you being an unhappy degenerate was never in the question.
>>44226234>>44226251Don’t bully him, he’s probably bi but prison gay because he’s too ugly for girls to fuck.
>>44226271It was a swinging thing, the guys and most of the women were just ok with it, some of the women (also bi) were turned on by it.>>44226279>”sorry you had to resort to projection”>immediately starts projectingYou’re probably an actual retard.
>>44226314that's kind of hot but I'd be too paranoid of STDs, how did you get involved with this?
>>44226279>monkeypox infected fag calling other people degenerateslol I can't
>>44226314I'm doing what you're doing and you started it. Now you know what you looked like. You're a literal retard bereft of depth and irony. Please kill yourself you daft cunt. My point still stand btw.
>>44226362>I can'tMost certaintly. I can see that by the lack of any thought. Kill yourself.
>>44226333>that's kind of hot but I'd be too paranoid of STDs, Obviously protection is a must, I’ve only gotten an STD once and it was from an orgy, and treated easily. You also need to be really consistent with getting tested.>how did you get involved with this?Started around the time I turned 20 because I mentioned to a dilf I was seeing that I had fantasies of being in a threeway with a MF couple and he told me about a swingers site he used. I started using that to meet couples. With subsequent relationships a lot has been because they never got that serious, so other people were never off the table explicitly. Otherwise it’s because they also happen to be involved in stuff like that. I mentioned my history to my current gf early on and she thought it was excited and wanted to swing too, naturally she is also bi, as were most of the other men and women before.
>>44226366I’m not the one who said that homophobic stuff (though it was funny given how butthurt you are), it was just funny and suspicious how immediately you pivoted to stuff that’s way more specific than the very generic gay stereotype stuff he said.>nuh uh you did it firstAre you a child?