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>Have a cis female friend.
>Genuinely get along so well.
>Hang out with our group of friends regularly and plays vidya with us.
>She starts dating this cis guy, dont really care as long as hes nice to and good to her.
>Find out that he thinks im a disgusting moid trying to swoop in the moment that they have issues and steal her from him.
>He has conversations to her about this and hanging out with us in general.
>Suddenly we aren't playing vidya as much anymore and we barely talk now.

Has this happen to anyone else? I genuinely couldn't even understand how a cis white man could even be the littlest bit jealous or afraid of a fucking niggerhon like me. It sucks because she was cool to talk to.
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moids are subhuman cattle that ruin everything good in the world
what else is new
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>>44229288
happens a lot
>>44229661
disregarding the trans element, i think inverse happens more
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>>44229661
Agreed, nothing good comes from moid intervention tmd
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>>44229875
I don't really understand why. I have am twinkish and black and fag looking already. How am i of any threat. I look like i take cock twice a day.
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>>44229875
i think (in my experience) men tend to be a lot more sensitive about their gfs having male friends
ive heard plenty of guys say that they would never even consider dating a woman with a male best friend and conversely i've heard like one woman say she would be a bit paranoid if her bf had a female best friend
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>>44229949
i wish i didnt like moids because the good ones are really so few and far between….
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>>44229963
you clearly don't look and act gay enough
something like your story has NEVER happened to me
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>>44229288
has he met you?
the thing is there are a lot of men who would do what he probably thinks you're doing
if you're actually a massive fag or something it might help a lot if he met you and realized you weren't actually into her
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My friend’s theory about why this is a thing is that a lot of men arent used to being emotionally open with anyone other than their partners, so if they see people acting like that, they assume it’s a “serious” relationship
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>>44229288
>have cisf local nightclub scene friend
>young, pretty, chats with lots of different people
>gets boyfriend, introduces us, she’s so happy
>machine gun Kelly looking kid who can’t even be fucked to look up from his phone as he’s being introduced
>many such cases
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>>44230030
Your friend is wrong this happens because men don't want other people to have sex with their women
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>>44229963
well it's really about him, there's just a ton of people who feel in the right to be as controlling as they want about opposite sex friends whether it's out of paranoia, prior experiences, or because they they think it reduces risk by a lot, or maybe not even by that much yet they still feel justified and they don't like making exceptions.
>>44229981
i mean i'd agree that i see more of those sentiments cropping up lately, so maybe it's becoming more of an issue and i guess guys might factor in someones friend group when deciding whether or not to date someone or at least i've heard of that. now we're talking people who aren't even dating though, most guys i'm friends with personally are dating/married... out of those there's really only one who has a girlfriend who doesn't have reservations about them being friends with women and literally none of the guys do any of the weird and i would say way over the line some of these girlfriends/wives do. so i'm thinking maybe there's some stated vs revealed preference thing going on.
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>>44229288
lol are you kidding? flamboyant blacks are the most sexually threatening kind, much more than thugs who are easy enough to keep out of normie spaces. it's definitely a race thing, he wouldn't be afraid of a white nerd on E.
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>>44230013
Ive been told by almost every person that I meet that I am probably the biggest faggot they've ever met...
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>>44230016
Not met but we played vidya together a couple times, i have like the biggest fagcent ever and I remember having a conversation about being with men like while he was there
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>>44230016
>the thing is there are a lot of men who would do what he probably thinks you're doing
see transbians
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>>44229288
Cis white male tourist here doing the rounds out of morbid interest, what that guy’s doing is actually the default position and it’s considered masculine and/or the safe play. By far most normgroids genuinely can’t do male/female friendships without someone eventually feeling some sorta way, and as he sounds like a normgroid, he just sees you as a beta man waiting to simp your way into a relationship with a female friend. For most they can’t imagine others being able to do platonics because they can’t themselves, for the rest it’s that while they can do it themselves they’ve seen how most can’t and might have personal experience (baggage) driving a hard line-in-the-sand approach. For what it’s worth it’s not an exclusively cis thing, just more likely as relationship structures are more rigid there.



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