I tried to repress it but the desire to be a housewife has come back again. Being an independent woman is cool, but I just can't stop the need to want to be loved and protected by a husband.The worse part is that unlike tranny repression, I can't crack this one by going to the doctor and getting a husband prescription or getting a DIY husband online. Especially not as an aging millennial tranny. I hate that these desires continue to haunt me.
Same
>>44233236me, too bad im such a weak-witted loser that i just couldn't keep a job either wayhonestly i need a man to push me to go to work
>>44233472willed not witted
>>44233472Hey babe, get a job
Men dont marry trannies
>>44233488thanks, im afraid i just need this daily
do you guys desire the role of housewife because it makes you feel more like a woman? as in, a man could have your day job but couldn't be a housewife without being a woman. gender affirming role
>>44233236yeah...hope you find your loving husband
>>44233558No, I just want the love and protection a man would provide. And the idea of expressing my love and gratitude through house making and emotional care of my husband
>>44233565Don't you have a bf? Just marry him, retard
>>44233570I'm talking to OP hoping that she finds a loving husband!I do have a bf. Not sure if marriage is in the future though. Still early in the relationship.
When a tranny says "housewife" she means "lazy neet leech"
>>44233236It's not realistic to be a housewife like in the stories. Not if you want a decent lifestyle as well. Even rich men are no longer fond of that even for cis women.Best you can do is a good dose of both worlds.I girlboss at work and I'm a submissive housewife at home. We both work but I gladly take more of the homemaker duties because they make me feel better.>expressing my love and gratitude through [...] emotional care of my husbandYou should be doing that either way though.Love is a mutual duty in our home.t. married tranny
>>44233929A lot of jobs pay like shit these days. I'd be happy to have a wife, who only works part time and does more stuff at home. Stuff like cooking and laundry.
>>44233929Eh, I make enough to support a wife and I'd be cool if she didn't want to work
As much as I’d like to be a housewife I am a victim of capitalism and I don’t think my husband would approve how much I like to spend my money on clothes, makeup and anime figures
>>44234154You should encourage your wife to work in the event of death or economic crisis
>>44234154Not realistic for most trannies though
>>44234208You'd be surprised. Lot of lonely nerdy guys with good careers like me who would marry a trans woman.
>>44234140>A lot of jobs pay like shit these daysWhich is one of the reasons I said it's not quite realistic. Also, the social expectations have changed a lot.And with the risk of sounding too fembrained, it's also an insurance policy for her too. Having my own money gives me options, which is nice to have in a climate that doesn't quite like (let alone protect) trannies.>>44234154Eh, you do probably underestimate the costs though.But then again, I also look through the prism of an active functional adult, rather than a shut-in neet.Both of our lives would be harder without my income. And there's no way I would've gotten SRS if we were to both rely on his income. And probably we still wouldn't have been property owners either.
>>44234226I mean right now I'm housing a friend for free and we have plenty of money to live comfortably and go out and have fun. I do make a good amount of money though and I don't live lavishly
Pain
>>44234202I agree. I dropped everything and moved in with my boyfriend, now husband, at 18. I'm 33 now and feel so unfulfilled, I'm completely dependent on my man. Being a loving housewife sounds great but imagine if he leaves you or passes away. I would end up on the street or worse.
>>44234653>or passes awayNTA but if you're legally married, aren't you entitled to at least the house?
>>44234681Yes, but I've never worked a day in my life. Idk what I'd do or how I'd manage to support myself.
>>44234702Is he opposed to you working?If not, what exactly stops you from getting a boring low-paid service job at a supermarket or w/e?Everyone starts from somewhere, yk? The simple routine would do wonders for your mind even if the pay is shit.
>>44234744I mean, I could, but working retail sounds dreadful. It feels like I'd be debasing myself to do so, and I could probably make more money from home if I really cared. Just to have something insignificant to put on my resume?
>>44234865It's not about the money necessarily, nona. It's about getting you into a routine of actually going outside more often and interacting with people.You gotta start addressing that feeling of being unfulfilled. Or else you're going to start projecting it on your husband too and slowly, but surely, you will eventually ruin your marriage as well.For fuck's sake you people looooove to just waste time in arrested development. The more I lurk on this board the more grateful I am for the friends I've acquired who always held me accountable in a loving but also firm way.>It feels like I'd be debasing myself to do soYou are debasing yourself now by being a 33yo neet. And you know it. That's why you feel unfulfilled.t. married straight tranny, but actually functional
For me, I wouldn't be opposed to my potential wife working on college classes or something just so she has a social life and has a backup just in case anything were to happen to me
>>44234941Believe me, I'm not unhappy with my current conditions. I'm incredibly blessed. I'm just fearful because I'm so dependent, and if I could go back knowing what I know now I'd have at least enrolled in higher education. To be honest it feels like my fate is sealed now tho.
>>44235124You can always go back to college
I NEED A TRANS HOUSEWIFE TO COME HOME TO AFTER WORK
>>44233888i do this and say this
I really do just want to dote and take care of my husband when he comes home. I want to feel secure and safe with him. Give him lots of kisses and hugs, make him dinner, clean the house, etc. I make great money now, but I've always wished to care for my man
>>44235977Tell your man this
>>44233236I want to be a housewife too but my husband and I view having children as more important than tradwife roleplay. So, we're both working to save up for surrogacy/adoption.>>44233526>Men dont marry tranniesCool, guess I'm a real woman now and not a tranny :)
>>44233236turning volcel makes me feel like the wise buddhist sage in a crowd of rabid famished monkeys lolei will Never, Ever deal with cissoids or even worse moids let alone date themYou should all worship me as god or something
>>44236673based based based based based based based based based based
>>44236697Cringe
>>44233236Are you willing to get fat? Most of the men who would go for that as someone in your position are probably some form of feeder or chubby chaser
>>44235557Many are saying this
