How do you cope with realizing your friends only tolerate you and not like you? Nobody ever messages me first or engages or ever wants to hang. I want to kill myself.
>>44240704Don’t have friends.Simple as.
maybe learning to be alone,or find other friends.in the same situation lol
>>44240704its possible your friends who wont message you first are thinking the same thing as you or are getting the impression that you are aloof and don't want to talk to them. You may also not like your friends but are unaware and are expressing that to them without realizing it.not trying to turn it around on you, I suffer from similar issues and it's just another perspective I think about a lot.>>44240728seconding finding other friends to see if the issue persists. I've been in social groups before where i've felt in tune with everyone and other groups where I haven't. some things really are just trial and error desu.
