>be me, 18 year old passoid (according to others), kinda luckshit sub1yr hrt>college freshman year, yearning to meet any trans girls irl, lonely>one day, one of my friends suggests i should talk to her transfem roommate who also wants to meet other trannies>excited yay>connect over discord and have some nice conversation, follow each other on ig, and make plans to meet up in person>i show up in a cute outfit (picrel), outdress oops...>we meet up, unfortunate big passing gap, i try not to acknowledge it or let it change anything about our dynamic doe>feel genuine maternal instinct to help her pass better with all my years of experience of social transition, not in a patronizing way>we get in her car as we planned her to drive us to our location, she seems quiet and oddly cold but i keep on a friendly optimistic demeanor anyways>i try to be wholeheartedly kind but she seems upset, feeling really guilty and trying to cheer her up> i really really want to make the friendship work but my presence seems to be enough to make her feel worse>she confides in me that today was her first time going out in fem>i do what i can to hype her up, it makes me happy to know she chose me for that first moment, but it is obvious something changed in her motivation>we get there, she ends up zipping up her hoodie and hiding her crop top, i try my best to get her not to rep to no avail>i try to distract her with our itinerary of planned activities, get boba, check out this geek collection store i like, walk around downtown, and hang out at my dorm to do her makeup etc.>we get boba, but most of the conversation i tried to have with her was one-sided.>we finish, and she abruptly tells me she "remembered she had something to do" doesnt even say bye>she leaves in her car>i have to walk back to my dorms in the dark by myself>day passes by, reach out but no answer>she stops following me on instagram and unfriends medid i do something wrong? i hate being a nuisance! adv?
>>44257158probably just really defeated
>>44257184i hate making others feel bad, i hope it isn't coming across like I was being patronizing to her or anything nor even overly positive. I've been in her place before, I know the pain. I just wish I didn't end up leaving a net-negative impact on her transition
>>44257158You didn’t do anything wrong nona. She had the social awareness to hide. She was probably just frustrated with herself and likely didn’t want to bother you
>>44258510i do this but inside the computer
>>44257158i cannot wear clothes like this or have friends in college because i am 25
>>44257158You're too kind nona, please, harden your heart and feel no guilt nor shame. All you did was be a loving soul, there's nothing wrong in that.
>>44257158Unfortunately, miserable people are really not fun to be around. This is one of the reasons why I choose to not bother people and just be alone, but I don't like it
You mogged her OP that’s very cruel. You can’t go around mogging babytrannies
>>44257158>adv?no offense, but when i was babytrans the idea of going out with someone in public who's dressed like it's a halloween costume party would have been extremely stressful. she's already super self conscious and you're drawing a ton of attention to yourselves for no reasonalso assuming that the problem was about how you pass so much better than her is pretty arrogant. you look decently clocky especially dressed like that
>>44261093TRVKE, I didn’t even see the outfit that is clocky baby trans stuff. Maybe OP didn’t mog anyone and just made some random boymoder extremely uncomfortable by being a honfident hon…
>>44261093>>44261102nah fuck that. The person she's refering to was hurt by being mogged but I know what ur doing You gotta baby babytrans they're called babies for a reason
>>44257158I think I would kill myself if I got mogged that hard on my first try girlmodingthankfully I have avoided this fate by deciding never to ever girlmode
