First things first I dont think theyd ever kick me out or fuck me over monetarily. So ig context my dad is more so the issue. he used to be vaguely transphobic but I got the vibe that if you acted trans in a "respectable" way he'd be fine mostly. idk if thats rly true anymore cus my brother told me that he said he doesnt want to use pronouns for trans people because it feeds into the mental illness. Its prob cus all he watches is ben shaprio and joe rogan or whatever.My mom is less outwardly rude about trans people but has never said anything positive and makes some shitty remarks like saying hrt should be only after ur 18 or that pronouns are hard for her.They suspected I was trans once at least. (i ordered my auto injector and they found it and ofc it wasnt desecrate so they asked a lot of questions (mostly if i was trans) and i just said it was for a trans friend of mine and they moved on) They seemed scared but not angry. more like they were worried i was ruining my body or smth.I expect my mom to react by crying cus im her little boy (yuck) and my dad to be kinda yucked out and disappointed his son is a fagWhat I feel like id benefit from with coming out is being able to put on make up or dressing up without needing to hide it + I dont need to pretend anymoreWhat Im dreading is them being really weird about it + will feel wayy more dysphoric now when they misgender me cus they know what they are doingalso im worried estrogen will become an issue cus me being trans is already on the radarI live with them rn but I will probably be able to move out in the next 2-4 years (ideally)
You don't. Rep while taking HRT until you can move out.
>>44287101im worried further E will make my boobs harder to hide + im worried ill be caught at some point. do u think itll be that much of a shitshow to come out before hand to make it a deff no
>>44287133better not to risk it desu. transphobic parents will do insane shit because they feel entitled to control your life. hiding sucks but its preferable to having your transition sabotaged by retards. safety always comes first.
>>44286995Turn back. You're a man. A man is a sailor in time, a chrononaut. You were born a man, and it was meant to be. Your parents worked hard, for years, to launch you. As their parents worked to launch them. If you do this thing, if you pretend to be what you are not, the mission fails. Turn back. Be the man you were born to be. Make your parents proud in their old age.
>>44287451reppings bad for u nona
>>44286995You don't owe anyone an explanation ever. If they won't be supportive, don't come out to them. If you are still dependent on them, find a way to not be. This is a trial you will have to overcome. It sucks, but you will just have to decide if you really want to transition badly enough. >what if they notice changesHave a backup plan or just tell them to fuck off.as >>44287277 says>transphobic parents will do insane shit because they feel entitled to control your lifethis will never ever change until you can take charge of your own life. Even into your 30s and 40s they will still control you if you let them.
>>44287465Someone needs to tell the truth here
>>44286995Gender reveal with planes and a cloud of balloons
>>44288795okay ill get on that
>>44287451>Make your parents proud in their old agenta but this is by far the most retarded thing to say.if parents do not make you proud in your young age, you don't owe them anything in their old age.way too much consideration is given to a bunch of people whose sole merit is that they forgot their condom one night.
also heres an example of how my parents treat people who are kinda family and trans My childhood friend (our moms are friends) stayed over at our place for the summer and he is ftm and has been on T for a year and is mostly passing besides being kinda faggy and fembrained. My parents have known he was trans since we were freshmen (he was out as genderfluid w any pronouns tho).I had to repeatedly correct them with his pronouns and name but they didnt like crash out on me they just got frustrated cus ig they find it annoying. by the time he was staying with us they mostly used his pronouns and almost always use his name. near the end they started misgendering more often (ig to see how far they can go). However they were very nice to him and didnt treat him like any less of a person cus he is trans.
bump
>>44287451You sound like a faggot who thinks he's a chrononaut. Your probably a chomonaut sailing the seas of pedophilia toward prison rape island.
>>44290666Your literal existence and survival to adulthood would have been impossible without them. So yes, you do owe your parents a debt of gratitude. They repaid that debt to their own parents, by following in their footsteps. The payment you owe them, is to do the same. A civilization without filial piety dies.
>>44291960man you are so autistic
>>44287133I have been taking hrt for 8 months and have no problem hiding it. My nipples became erect and got slight growth but nothing that you can't hide.
>>44291982yeah true im just worried they will get big
>>44286995>When/how should I come out to my parents?I don't know, because now i have the same problem and i don't have a way to follow. But if will come out to my parents, i will do it out of the house. It's more safe than say living here. >I expect my mom to react by crying cus im her little boy (yuck) and my dad to be kinda yucked out and disappointed his son is a fagSad, just sad.
>>44294363r u esl or smth?
>>44286995You watch anime. They already know.
>>44295744its 2026 its okay to like anime now, we dont need to hide anymore
>>44295786Maybe shonenshit or whatever the flavor of the month is, but Serial Experiments Lain is a red flag.
>>44294819Yes, spic. I don't speak English and some time I do mistakes. Learning.
>>44286995don't risk your access to hrt under any circumstances, especially not for a slim chance of being allowed to girlmode (which is highly unlikely anyway, conservative parents are super particular about even that). jell, disclosing to parents is a bad idea even if they're supportive because it increase the chance they'd suspect you of diy and even liberal parents would be spooked by the thought of you doing that. you'll have to hide it until you're independent of them no matter what. hiding boobs is a matter of not being fat, wearing baggy clothes and slouching a lot, and luck. so good luckalso i recommend getting to know trannies who live near you so they can help you out with hrt or accommodation in case shit hits the fan
hell not jell. ffs
>>44286995Now's as bad a time as any
