Passing or not passing is not nearly as important as if you are attractive or not. Attractiveness is in my opinion one of the largest factors towards having successful human interactions, in a variety of metrics. Yes, this is me coping that things did not work out and blaming it on me not being attractive enough rather than my abhorrent personality.
>>44296763Passing is the most important thing, if you want to live in normal society, in a small town, in the rural area in a conservative state.
>>44296763its not just if you are attractive, its if you look happy, fun, warm, easygoing. way too many people "looksmax" and look technically good but have a perma meanmug look thats just offputting and intense
>>44296815Meanmug filters superficial npc normies
>>44296815pretending to be happy is too much work when ur perma depresssed
Fuck normies, I'm gonna neet forever and avoid getting perceived. It's not my fault my parents were shit and didn't bother to check if I'm trans
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>>44296994I don't personally think it is limited to normies at all, it is in all walks of life and not just romantic contexts. The halo effect is real, it goes into every aspect of life.
>>44297011The Koreans were right in being the most superficial country...lookism to the max
It's true, I pass without ever being clocked but I look like a medium ugly woman who never gets attention and is ignored in large groups
>>44297036Highest rate of autism worldwide too