Because a lot of us have dated a guy who then trooned out or asked us to top. If a tranny does this multiple times they’re probably crazy but personally I try to weed out reppers and bottoms bc I don’t want to go through that again. I also tell reppers that I wish I never transitioned and hate it before I’m done talking to them to discourage them from trooning in the future.

and what's with the fuckin ghosting? trannies will ghost you for weeks or months then come back like "heeyyy sorry i was like super depressed" and expect you to just be like "oh that's fine don't worry i just put my entire life on hold waiting for you :)"

>>44320594
Maybe you should just accept to top

>>44320594
it would be fine if they accepted "no i'm not a bottom chaser" as an answer but they fuckin don't. i've literally said those exact words to a tranny and her response was "that's what a bottom chaser would say lol". instead you have to navigate their gauntlet of shit tests giving the exact answers they want (no clear denials because then you're being defensive just like a bottom would be!)
like i get it, that sucks. i've had shitty relationships too. but if you treat every future prospect like shit because of it, you're just shooting yourself in the foot. this is why you motherfuckers are all crying about not having a boyfriend on this website, because you scared them all off with your battery of shit tests.

>>44320617
Yeah that’s dumb. I typically just ask on are you a bottom or have you bottomed before? And take no as a good answer. The repper thing is harder though it’s vibes.

>>44320596
>and what's with the fuckin ghosting? trannies will ghost you for weeks or months then come back like "heeyyy sorry i was like super depressed" and expect you to just be like "oh that's fine don't worry i just put my entire life on hold waiting for you :)"
Why do people get so fuckin mad at this? You arent that important dude. People go through stuff they can't control, and then want to give love and attention to the people the like, when they can. Have some empathy and don't feel so entitled dude.

>>44320635
do you have any idea what the response would be if i asked a cis woman "hey have you ever been fucked in the ass before?" during our first time talking? like do you not realize how insane that is to ask someone

>>44320655
oh fuck off with the therapy speak you dumb cunt. this ain't my first rodeo, i know what really happened is you met someone and then they ditched your ass.

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>>44320655
this post is bait

>>44320673
What part of that insinuates therapy? People go through shit and feel the need to isolate themselves. Look up avoidant personality. There's forums full of people who date avoidant people and have the same feelings you do about them.

I just don't understand how you could like someone so much, and then hate them when they're going through shit they don't want to burden you with or are embarrassed about. Don't take it so personally, you aren't the most important person and should feel happy to there when they feel comfortable coming back

>>44320715
No. I got depressed right after high school, and completely isolated myself from all of my friends. I understand how this hurts them, but it's just insane to me how personally all of them took it. Like, I'm going through shit that I am desperately trying to fix but couldn't, why do you think your feelings of not being able to.. hang out with me are more important? I would be as patient as possible for my friends if they needed to take a break from me because I know it's not about me

>>44320538
all of these are perfectly reasonable for figuring out compatibility? except maybe the last one, idgaf if youre a little bi if you can love me. saying you like "femboys" (pedo porn term) and equate them to trannies is an instant ick though

imagine how horrible it would feel as a straight tranny to invest years of your life into a boyfriend and then discover that the whole time they were just a repper wanting to skinwalk you. we have to be incredibly dilligent about who we partner with so we dont ruin our lives

>>44320617
as long as we established that i wouldn't press it further. but yeah most of us have some bottom dysphoria and hate topping and our dicks and need to make absolutely sure thats not what you want from us. if a man asked me to top him in person i would probably slit my wrists in front of him

>>44320746
listen. trust is a two way street. if you freely advertise that you don't trust someone, then they have no reason to trust you either. i have also had long relationships that didn't work out. i got dumped over text after 6 years of dating someone. they lived like 8 minute drive away, and they dump me over text. only showed up after the fact to pick up their shit from my house. that felt fuckin terrible and i did everything i could to avoid getting hurt like that again.
and you know what it did? it pushed people away. they could feel i didn't trust them and it made them feel like shit.

>>44320735
>I understand how this hurts them, but it's just insane to me how personally all of them took it.
Lmfao. You narcissistic retard.

>>44320790
You're blinded by your own narcissism. Sorry you dont get everything you want, immediately when you want it. Human beings aren't your personal toys you shit head

>>44320735
You clearly don't care all that much about your friends if you're so easily willing to leave them in the dark. "It's not about you" is not a valid response to people concerned about why you're unavailable on all levels, and that only serves to push people away more. Thus, you spiral further into loneliness and depression.

>>44320815
>continued deranged narcissism

>>44320538
Don't date trannies then retard

>>44320860
>You clearly don't care all that much about your friends if you're so easily willing to leave them in the dark.
I actually cared about my friends more and than anything in the world. They're the reason why I didn't just commit to hanging myself on my doorknob, I didn't want to put anyone through that and wanted to make it out alive and to see them again, which I did.

Again, I understand how it hurts them immensely. But the people who developed lifelong chips on their shoulders about it, are just insane. I'm glad none of my friends did that

>>44320922
Get a job little bro

>>44321089
>I understand how it hurts them immensely.
>but I don't really care, and the only thing I care about is that they took it personally when I hurt them immensely
>ugh, why is it such a big deal I hurt you?
lol lmao

>>44321089
>Get a job
Salaried at six figures, brother. Taking a shit in my one of three bathrooms rn.

>>44321089
Hopefully one day you will grow up to not be a neurotic narcissist. Bet you wonder why your friends leave you behind too.

>>44321126
>"but I don't really care"
>Didn't read the whole post award

>>44321172
Well my dad is Mr. Nintendo so...

>>44321547
No one left me because they're not insanely selfish lmfao

>>44320538
>i've tried dating a few trannies
Chaser :P

>>44320538
>why would i ever date a trans girl over a cis woman
Cause you have a gamp perversion and need that tranny cock. No girl will want you

>>44320657
Thats how amabs who date other amabs talk. If you want to date an amab woman, prepare to answer these things. Its important to know that do you like to pitch or catch

>>44321787
>trans women are women but if you ever ever ever ever date one you are a fetishist faggot
this is exactly what i mean

>>44320612
maybe you should just accept that you're a faggot

>>44321787
>chaser because he dated a few trannies
And it's that a bad thing?

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What if I am a bottom repper chaser

>>44321622
Kek cope poorfag.

I'll be 100% honest, poors aren't people. You need to make at MINIMUM $30/hr to be a human.

>>44322755
>/hour
Poorfag…

>>44322035

This is frankly, online computerbrain nonsense. Transwomen who aren’t irony poisoned are not like this and if you’re normal will date you.

If you engage with communication, good faith and earnestness, it will terrify some people and they wont know what to do

>>44322774
I'm salary. But you can easily convert salary to what the hourly wage is. On your paystub it probably even says what the hourly wage is.

>>44322925
I "work" remote about 4 hours a week
rest is jerking off and browsing 4chan

>>44321906
>No girl will want you
unironically i get game much easier from cis women than trannies. plenty of lonely single mothers out there and you don't have to navigate their labyrinth of brainworms first
>>44321927
i like to smell buttholes and then put my penis in them should i just lead with that from now on when talking to trannies
>>44322817
i honestly think i am too normal to date trannies. i'm not a drug addict or alcoholic, i'm not a twinkish repper, i'm not balding, i'm employed, i don't want to beat someone to death. i've met a few i really liked but just like you said, when i treated them with good faith and earnestness (the same way i treated anyone else) they still managed to convince themselves i was actually Evil Super Hitler and schizo'd out eventually. one actually cut herself and sent me photos because i said she looks cute in a picture and she was convinced i was just trying to... do something idk

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so did you top her?

t. troon who was once a "cis" chaser

>>44320538
why does it make you so nervous to talk about past relationships? do you think trannies should just give fuck without ever learning anyone's name to make sure their fuck friend isn't uncomfortable?

>>44323953
every tranny i've ever been with i topped and i'm not a chaser

>>44323973
it makes me annoyed when i'm treated guilty before proven innocent by literally every single tranny i've ever spoken to. its like having to do a QTE before every interaction

>>44323974

how does it feel knowing you're a gay faggot who has buttsex with men?

>>44324092
how about you quit running your mouth and show me your hole, you'll figure it out

>>44323997
what is a qte

>>44324149
quick time event...?

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>>44322674
Transition and if you are cute I will touch your bum

>>44320538
just find someone that's normal not easy

>>44324169
okay

>>44320617
If accused, don't outright deny the accusation, instead affirm negation of it. Works generally and especially in this case, eg. I am not a bottom chaser vs I am a top

>>44320594
I refuse to believe that. I moved out recently and finally decided to get on grindr and fucked multiple femboys and trannies. I'm just a sex addict, I hate women, but I'm not gay. And I never had a bottom approach me online, only tops are chasing, so why do you even worry? I only got asked out twice by a bottom and that was IRL in a bar.

>>44320538
>it feels like you're constantly being interrogated and there's no correct answer
this is just what it feels like to date women in general tbf
>t. prison straight

>>44326448
>this is just what it feels like to date women in general tbf
no the fuck it doesn't

>>44326675
Former woman dater here, yes it does

>>44326696
current cis woman dater here, no the fuck it doesn't. a cis woman has never asked me whether or not i've been fucked up my ass or tried to interrogate me to see if i'm gay or not on our first time speaking. or ever, really. they have basic trust and decency

>>44326722
This is not my experience, but in their defence I did end up trooning out so maybe they were on to something

>>44326755
well i have literally never once had a cis woman accuse me, directly or indirectly, of being anything other than a man. trannies, however, do it constantly

yeah you know what i may as well just throw in the towel and give up on dating trannies. i didn't want to believe that they're just all fucked up and weird like this but i guess it's obvious in hindsight that this is gonna be the case. i don't usually like to make sweeping generalizations against entire groups of people but god damn. i'm still like cool with em if they wanna be friends or whatever, i'm not an asshole. but never attempting to date a tranny again.