>Be cis lesbian who is a strict touch me not and only tops >Never want to receive oral, be touched or fingered around my private area and only want to be a service top by giving oral and using my strap Would this be a deal breaker for most bi or lesbian trans girls? I’ve only dated cis girls before but have had bad luck in relationships because my partners keep trying to get to me do things I don’t want to do. I would rather have no one than do that stuff and I’m starting to think I’ll never find anyone.
>>44375429Probably not for the trans girls with really strong bottom dysphoria, I'm sure they'd be happy with a partner who doesn't want PIV and is happy to peg them
>>44375429>partner who will never, EVER ask me to pivwhat more could i ask for
>>44375429Where r u from
>>44375429I’m personally kinda anti sex myself like I’ll perform and bottom so w/e it’s more like acting , just personally I don’t like to be touched so like a little bit of me dies inside so I get where you’re coming from unfortunately
>>44375429>most bi or lesbian trans girls?considering how likely they are to be autistic, as long as you're up front from the start it probably won't bother much as long as you're fw adults. Lots of girls might think you're "too good to be real" or something, and even waking up the morning after they'll be worried there's some kind of trick or problem they're missing. Like most kinds of people, you're still going to have to do some searching to figure out if they're actually okay with that, but I'd guess if you could find a girl with enough personal compatibility she'll be a least a little more understanding than many cis people, considering dysphoria and all.It's definitely possible you're going to run into a little bit more insecurity than usual, partners of any kind are going to tend to feel like they're doing something wrong because they're not "returning the favor" or whatever, and trans girls are always more likely to assume everyone thinks they could be doing more and better. However, I kind of assume that fear will exist regardless of the person's input, so maybe it's not exactly a comfort to imagine having the same concern except less genital focused on your potential partners part.
you sound black, OP
>>44375429youre telling me youre having trouble finding a partner who would be ok with the arrangement of you pleasuring them endlessly with them never having to return the favor? it sounds like the pillow princess dream. i like returning the favor, i love giving oral to men and women, but id totally fw an arrangement like that, it honestly sounds really hot. wake up in the morning and first thing your partner just gets you off like a servant and then go on with your day...but why is it so common specifically in lesbians to be like this where some of them dont want to be touched? where does that come from? do you have bottom dysphoria? i cant think of another reason why youd not wanna cum yourself and only service your partner. i dont judge and id be fine dating someone like you but i also dont understand itgreat pic btw i love seagulls :)
>>44375429You sound amazing, actually!I'm a bisexual transgender girl and I have absolutely no desire to do PIV so you not wanting that would be a huge relief, the very opposite of a dealbreaker. As to oral or using with my fingers, it's something I'd definitely do if my girlfriend wanted it, but I don't need it, it's something I'd do for her rather than for myself, so I'd be completely OK with you not wanting it. I don't know about "most" and I don't know how many tops and many bottoms there are, but you can definitely find a girl for whom this is a either a positive or neutral! Good luck, nona <3
>>44375698>I don't know how many tops and many bottoms there arei dont have numbers but my experience trying to date transbians says that it is VERY common for trans girls to be exclusively bottoms. bad for me, probably good for OP
>>44375429For me personally being with someone who will give me 0 pressure to top or try to pleasure her would be nice, but I'd prefer if she was at least ok with being touched so I could try it sometimes
>>44375737>>44375746Great news OP
>>44375429idk what it even means
