>go to the movies with some cisf friends>get catcalled walking out of the theater>friend immediately yells "I HAVE A DICK AND BALLS" at themI wish my existence wasn't what others found to be the most repulsive thing imaginable. I hate that my existence that came to be as it did for reasons out of my control was not a subject of disgust, and it saddens me that the people I trust and care about seem to agree that it is. All I want is to be loved, but because of these circumstances, it seems extremely unlikely.
>>44399331Get over yourself, it's not the most repulsive thing imaginable. Just really gross
>>44399331idgi did she tell the guy you have a dick or did she claim to have a dick herself
>>44399343You really think that was the best thing to reply, huh?
>>44399331wait did your cisf friend lie about having a dick and balls to stop you from being catcalled or did they basically out you to a stranger to stop you from being catcalled
>>44399353She (falsely, to be clear) claimed that she has a dick. It wasn't just me who got catcalled, it was comments towards the group as a whole.
>>44399357The funniest
>>44399331good friends you have!
>>44399331if only you knew how many cis women genuinely seem to think that being trans makes you avoid sexul abuse, there was also a whole trend on tiktok/instagram about them joking how they make their voice deeper when they're taking a uber alone to make the driver think they're trans
>>44399440thing is, she really is most of the time! she's gone clothes shopping with me a ton and gives great advice, she's helped me with makeup, she treats me very kindly; this comment was really a shock
>>44399550congratulations, you're a funny gay man to her
>>44399560good chance you're right, i'm afraid. maybe i just need to talk more with people i've only known posttransition. doesn't stop them making comments like that, even if they aren't thinking about me
>>44399331This is like when women go on about body positivity or how everyone should be vulnerable and unashamed of their insecurities but when a man pisses them off their go to first insult is to say he has a little dick and can’t get laid
>>44399331>get catcalledObviously they were joking retardCalm down
>>44399560oh my god how long is it gonna take for trannies to realize this is it. this is what you are. your cis friends can be sooo nice to you but i promise you none of them are capable of putting you anywhere past this point (unless they're detrans ig but even that's debatable)
this one's always an odd one. like obv rooted in their own transmysogny, and I get that they are "showing solidarity" by essentially saying "trannies can be pretty too", but they are enacting their revenge fantasy on cat calling men by appropriating our "disgusting" bodies. sorry that happened to you Nona.
>>44399814i don't think this is true for everyone. i've had a few friends who didn't realize i was trans until i brought it up in conversation (i assumed they clocked me) and they've treated me the same way since. plus we talked about transgender people before then and all of what they said was very kind.
>>44399331>thread #193821 explaining why stealth is ALWAYS the goal and to NEVER disclosetsk tsk when will they learn
>>44399900what were their identies
>>44399911all three were cishet women. one was briefly a theyfab back in like 2020 though but the other two are not and never have been queer at all
>>44399550>she's gone clothes shopping with me a ton and gives great advice, she's helped me with makeupthats pathetic
>>44399926>normies force other normies to be nice to trannies even though they both dont like themnow thats funny
>>44399951it's pathetic to go to the mall with your friends and shop for clothes? she's tried on plenty of clothes too, fwiw, it's not like charity work from her or anything
>>44399900yeah, because progressive women are big fans of gay men, so of course they'd be very kind toward the super special feminine variant of gay men. assuming they genuinely didn't clock you it really just means they only ever interacted with you in ways that would seem equal to how they'd interact with both feminine gay men and women
>>44400022i guess it's autism because i really don't see what you're getting at here
>>44399331You should probably talk to your friend about that comment. Like, she probably didn't mean it to hurtful but it was and I think talking about it with her would be helpful.
>>44399331If you don't have a cock anymore this kind of stuff stops bothering you.
>>44400029i guess that maybe could be what happened. but i've seen one of them interact with a (moderately feminine) gay man before and i feel there were some differences in the way they talked vs. how they talk to me
>>44400054maybe. i kinda froze up immediately and she did apologize in a way (though with a crude sexual joke that didn't help much at all) so i guess she did see the problem but idk if that fixes much or what more talking would do.
>>44400100believe me i would love to get SRS. i do think it'd help a lot but i think my heart would still break for other transfems hearing such comments
>>44400131honestly to me it sounds like your friends are at the point where it's the best a tranny can possibly hope for, a dynamic where a normal feminine tranny and a cis woman happen to receive nearly identical treatment so their true thoughts don't actually matter that much. but if you actually think they see you as a woman in a way even close to what they are then i'm sorry but you've lost the plot
>>44400161yeah that wouldn't surprise me, and i am very grateful for all of my friends, i know i have it better than any of the other trans girls i know and i am extremely grateful for that. but also god i need to go fully stealth like yesterday
>>44400157>my heart would still break for other transfems hearing such commentsWhy?The fact is that the average guy gets the ick from a woman with a penis. If anything this kind of comment is more a critique of them than of MtFs with a penis.
>>44400337Yeah but reminding anon that most straight men get the ick from trans women isn't helping. Its true but kind of upsetting
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>>44399331Nice friends you got there, anon
>>44400378ok i get that. but why must it be that? i think it's perfectly plausible that she just wanted to go to the mall with a friend, even if that type of stuff does happen sometimes.
>>44399331ur very fembrained nona, it was a stupid joke, the suicide reaction image is a bit much for something your friend thought a whole 5 seconds about and then forgot.
>>44399372ooooh okso it probably wasn't aimed at you
>>443993721) bitch move on her part to say that2) bitch move on your part not toit's not about being repulsive, it's just about making moids uncomfortable. i'll bet she thought you would think it's based
>>44404031>i'll bet she thought you would think it's basedthis is an odd thread i hadnt considered but youre probably right desu. its obviously fucked up what she said but i feel like it happens more often than u expect that they actually go out of their way to say weird shit bc they think theyre doing something woke. maybe its cope but i think its less bad that way, cause its like a conscious mistake rather than an indictment of her subconscious biases or whatever
>>44404680it's a very cishet tumblr-using foid thing to do. she is obviously a person of such privilege that she doesn't realize how much danger she would be putting herself in by doing that if she were actually mtf. many such cases of blind foid privilege unfortunately. it's why i don't ass-ociate with eem
>>44399331if she's comfortable enough to casually say something like that around you it means she doesn't actively think of you as having a dick and balls at least
