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Is there any hope of an autistic 30 year old kissless dateless virgin man ever attracting a trans girlfriend?
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>>44401343
You could attract another khhv tranny, there's plenty of them but they look repulsive :)
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>>44401343
Yes
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Yes you actually have to try approaching people and being proactive
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>>44401365
No one else is a kissless dateless handholdless virgin like I am.

I have never, not even once in my life, experienced a woman expressing romantic interest in me of any kind... I am so sad and pathetic.

>>44401418
I cannot approach women if they never express interest in me first. I do not want to be accused of being a rapist or a sexual harasser.
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>>44401378
So, let's exchange discords?
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>>44401437
If a woman expressed interest in you right now, would you play along or would you make an excuse to leave while stuttering something pathetic?
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>>44401502
I'd most probably do the latter. I don't want to make women feel uncomfortable.
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Damn... Did I do something wrong? I used to be able to make one post and have the whole host of /lgbt/ girls show up to converse with me.... Where are you all??
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>>44401343
cook dino nuggies
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>>44401524
>I don't want to make women feel uncomfortable
Good news, you are the tranny gf.
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>>44401618
I'd cook dino nuggies for my beloved girlfriend... If she were here...
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Bump…
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>>44401592
i mean it was mostly just me and i was having to clean a deep fryer for my bf but what do you want to know
>>44401524
this is why you will never get a gf
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>>44401732
I can’t get a GF because I don’t want to make women uncomfortable?

It just doesn’t make sense. I think you’re trying to torture me.
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>>44401592
Might be a bad time. Many people are falling asleep anon.
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>>44401742
because you are scared of talking to us
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>>44401748
Yeah, I’m extremely scared. I don’t want you to judge me in a negative way.
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>>44401766
you're going to have to make a move if you want any chance at creating a girl friend
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>>44401343
Dude what the fuck is this thread. Pick yourself up. If you want to be dateable be interesting, dress well, speak well, hit the gym, do fucking something. Begging like this will never work.
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>>44401814
I just can’t do it. I am so petrified of having a girl reject me and humiliate me.

I also don’t have the slightest clue on how to do anything physical. I don’t even know how to kiss. I literally don’t know the motion to make with my lips.

>>44401828
I literally did every single thing you stated and yet I have never have had even one instance of a woman expressing romantic interest in me, not ever.

There is something uniquely wrong with mr which means that no woman on Earth has ever considered me as a potential romantic partner. Maybe it’s my autism.
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>>44401828
he's been begging for years
once he admitted he slept next to a girl naked but was too scared to actually try and have sex and then she got mad the morning next
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>>44401842
you've had lots of girls express interest you just are too autistic to know what it means
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>>44401842
women aren't supposed to be the one expressing romantic interest, you are, you're the man, you want a relationship you need to do the expression, also you may be gay if you find women like having to put on a performance, it doesn't have to be like that, it should be natural
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>>44401853
Literally not a single woman in my entire life has ever indicated a clear desire to date me, not ever. It just hasn’t ever happened for me.

I don’t know who you think I am. But these are the facts.
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>>44401870
except for the one who invited you into her bed naked who you somehow think didn't want to have sex with or date you
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>>44401868
What exactly do you expect me to do?

I don’t want to be accused of being a creep, a pervert, a rapist, etc. I can’t chance the idea of making a move on a girl who has not expressed clear and obvious romantic interest in me. If I fail, it would ruin me and demolish my entire life.
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>>44401883
She never, not once, said in exact words that she wanted to date me nor that she found me attractive.
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>>44401892
>. If I fail, it would ruin me and demolish my entire life.
What is there to demolish? If you did fail and lost everything you wouldn't have anything to lose and could try again, do the first step is to try. Losing everything just frees your dumb ass.
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>>44401940
I just can’t fathom the idea of ever being negatively judged by a woman. It’s something that is really terrifying and dangerous for me. I don’t want girls to ever look upon me and think “he’s pathetic”, “he’s undesirable”, “he’s not someone I would ever accept a date from”. I just can’t take it, as a 30 year old kissless dateless handholdless virgin who has never experienced romantic attraction from a woman… I’m not prepared for it.
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couldn't you just transition? can't get the girlfriend, be the girlfriend
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>>44402001
I am not a feminine guy. I’m secure in my gender identity.
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>>44401970
>never experienced
You mean never noticed. Also all that other stuff they already do. You're like my half brother in law who went to school every year and reminded his bullies to not make fun of him for not having a dad because it was hurtful and then couldn't figure out why they bullied him about it.
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>>44402012
If girls had ever had any interest in dating, or having relations, with me, I would not be a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old.

I want you to understand how peculiar this really is. I know men who are significantly uglier than I am, and yet they have never once had trouble attracting romantic partners. I knew a guy who was balding, fat, with rotting teeth, and regularly had violent autistic meltdowns where he would throw shit all around the room and threaten to kill himself, and yet he still had an extremely cute girlfriend who stuck by him for several years. I also knew a guy who was fat, stunk of BO 24/7, didn’t do anything except laze about listening to music all day, and yet he had a very cute girlfriend who never ever considered leaving him over multiple years.

I don’t know what I ever did wrong to end up as a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old. In fact it felt like I did everything right, and yet I was still punished. It doesn’t seem fair.
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I wish the girls on this board cared about me or expressed even the slightest amount of interest in me… But just like everywhere in this world, they treat me as a leper and a demon. It is cruel.
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>>44401343
if you live in southern California and don't mind dating a 43 year old trans woman I'd give you a shot and at least be direct with you if I didnt think it'd work out
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>>44401343
Probably not, and I'm saying that as a hopeless virgin tranny in my 30's. I'm not as anxious as you about it, but only because I've dehumanized myself enough to be convinced I just never deserved to feel love or connection or experience sex to begin with, so that's why I don't have them. Honestly the worst part isn't the times that facade cracks and all the pain and desire to feel human come back for a while, because I learned how to turn that into art that I'll never share years ago, but how much people like ITT will gaslight you about it.
It's like everyone suddenly becomes a deranged conspiracy theorist, except you're the heart of the conspiracy, and everyone on earth who's actually super into you and wants to know you or fuck you all got together in a meeting and decided to just never tell you as some kind of cosmic shit test they thought was funny. It's verifiably untrue bullshit and you have the lived experience of silence and disinterest and quiet nights of being the only one not invited or asked out, but they insist it's all just a joke you aren't in on, furthering that sense of otherness and disconnection you already felt.
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Soulful woman. How have you not been loved?
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>>44402538
>>44402554
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>>44402554
>>44402556
?
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>>44402581
>>44402554
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>>44402624
I don't get it...
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>>44402644
Give me your discord
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>>44402150
this board isn't where you find a girl friend
you need to meet girls in real life
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>>44401343
there's literally no chance of you attracting anything else
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>>44401343
how do you look, what do you do
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>>44401343
r u over 6'0
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>>44401343
>>44402538
you all never rejected anyone? I'm also a virgin tranny approaching my 30s but by choice, after I had my first kiss I saw that it changed nothing so I never got the rush to have sex and because of that just rejected the few who had interest in me because they weren't hot enough.
Seriously, being a virgin of kisses or sex doesn't change anything, it's only your mind making you act like it does, and so you never get anything.
I still don't care because if I ever get desperate I just have to find someone uglier.
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>>44401365
Can I boyremove them and also make her more feminine?
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>>44401524
Literally me-before-HRT coded reply.
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>>44401343
Have you thought about instead of publicly humiliate yourself in a lgbt forum it would be better to download Tinder and just flirt with the women you desire?
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>>44401892
Ok, I take it back, that is not me-before-HRT coded. This is... weird logic.

Asking a woman out will literally never blow up your life unless you are persistent about it and ask the same woman out 27 times or something.

I was afraid of making women feel uncomfortable before transition because I cares about them, I know nothing bad was ever going to happen to me.

It's literally like "Hay, you seem cool, would you like to go on a date?". And if she sais no, just say "ok". That's it, the whole interaction.

May help making friends with some women with no intent of being romantic or sexual towards them. That should help tech you want women are not alien beings who can destroy your life for annoying us.
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>>44401343
Women don't generally approach men, you will need to make the first move.
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Unreal. This guy has been making these same threads across this website for years. I haven't been on this board in probably over half a year and when I was he was doing the same song & dance.

Never quit making these threads bro, they always cheer me up
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>>44408554
>It's only one person doing it
Anon, I....
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>>44408664
No it literally is the same guy. I would never forget his bitchy, aggrieved, passive-aggressive posting style. The way he always has an excuse and is offended at advice. This dude has been at it for years, maybe even a decade at this point. I first encountered his threads on /b/. Might all be a ragebait larp, who knows.
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>>44408554
Really? You would think he would have found a girlfriend by now.
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>>44409733
Every time multitudes of tgirls offer he finds an excuse to reject them the absolute bastard. Some men drowning while others die of thirst.
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>>44408458
And yet making the first move comes with endless possible negative outcomes leading up to complete and total ruination of my life.

>>44408699
I don't see how living a life where no woman has ever expressed romantic interest in me is "ragebait".

>>44409836
They wouldn't like me if they knew who I really was. I am a demon, a monster.
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>>44409733
I am the one man on Earth who is fated to never ever be able to get a girlfriend.

99.9% of men don't even try, they don't do anything at all, they don't even shower or groom themselves, they walk around in shitty clothes and just magically get dates, GFs, and sex without even trying.

But for me, it's a monumentous and epic task, I have to do everything imaginable to even be granted basic respect by women. I have to pay meticulous attention to my appearance, my personal style and clothing, my public behavior, absolutely everything has to be orchestrated in a particular way. But despite doing all of that I live 3 decades of life without any woman having ever been interested in even going on a first date with me, let alone having a relationship with me.

It's just not fair. It's never been fair. The entire game has been rigged against me from the start. Rigged against me and ONLY me.
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>>44409867
And they'd love me if they only got to know me but I'm completely invisible to them.
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>>44409944
man the last relationship I had I didn't even try. It's more like you're in the right place at the right time. she came up to me. I think you're giving out some weird vibes cuz the way you think is definitely fucking nuts dude it is not that complicated
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>>44408664
>>44408699
he has a consistent posting style but also as i have pointed out many times he has told stories on his life and he has definitely slept naked with a woman... and was too scared to have sex
he thinks his problem is that women are not attracted to him but really the problem is his mindset
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>>44409967
>man the last relationship I had I didn't even try. It's more like you're in the right place at the right time. she came up to me.
Exactly. That's the way it always is.

/r9k/tards and incels have it all wrong. Getting a woman as a man is not hard. 99.9% of men can achieve it without even trying. They just exist in any social space and they magically have a girl express interest in them for no reason at all.

I asked all my male friends "What did you do? How did you get your girlfriend? What's the secret?" and every one of them replied something to the effect of "I dunno bro, I was just at *insert social event here* and Things Just Happened."

It begs the question of why don't "Things Just Happen" for me? Why am I the one and only man on this Earth who can do every single thing right and yet still be treated as a sexually repulsive leper by 100% of women?
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>>44410004
autism...but you should still be able to find an autistic woman to date
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>>44410004
what do you have to offer? are you hot rich etc.
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>>44408356
No, I've been the onebto start all of my friendships/relationships. I either get hard rejected when I show interest and it ends instantly, or I get soft rejected where they're too nice to say no and then lead me on with promises of intimacy and closeness that they never actually let me take part in and I'm forced to wisen up to the game being played and leave myself.
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>>44410928
this is more than autism

this guy has a humiliation fetish, he makes these threads because he wants people to argue with him and make fun of him. there's no other explanation since he rejects all advice, even the most reasonable. he wants to wallow in misery
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>>44412250
What if he's just venting about how he sees the world due to his autism?
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>>44401343
When I met my bf he didn’t have much experience at all but I didn’t care. The fact that he was so kind and understanding was what attracted me to him, I think I see some of the same good intentions on you by the way you say you don’t wanna be a creep but please listen to me when I say too much doomerism is unattractive, your obsession with it is almost chris-chan like, you can be respectful of peoples boundaries by being communicative, I’m sure most transgirls would appreciate you asking for consent

The way you think about things becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where you go “no one will ever want me” and when someone eventually does become attracted to you, you won’t believe it or you might even self sabotage.
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>>44413619
You're very sweet but i don't agree with your conclusion. A lot of people act like OP and others like him just aren't aware of the people becoming attracted to them all the time, but we know firsthand that just doesn't happen. Nobody is interested in us, that's why we have no experience, or bad experience.
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>>44411731
yeah like that girl who took you into her bed without her clothes on and then you were scared to kiss her
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>>44409944
>>44410004
well you are on the gay board lol



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