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Why don't transwomen wanna accept that some straight men can be attracted to them?

Is it self-hatred? Is it a shit test? Is it chaserphobia? Heterophobia?
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>>44402927
I want to know
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>>44402927
For me. it's two-fold. I am suspicious of any man who is attracted to me, because my experience has shown me that this is mostly lust and that men who find trannies attractive rarely want to actually be in a relationship.

In the case that straight men have wanted relationships with me, I've felt a mixture of guilt and fear. Guilt that I'm stopping him from being with a normal woman and that he's going to secretly be putting up with me, and fear that this will eventually get too much for him and he will leave.

I struggle to believe that any normal, sane guy would truly want to spend his life with a woman who used to be a man, irregardless of how well she might pass.
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Cus they're delusional foids and brainwormed
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>>44403065
Men into you are not straight, they have gamp. If you want straight men, get srs, more female sex characteristics you have, the more straight men like you
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>>44403065
this, anon pretty much summed it up. id also add that most self proclaimed hetero men who are into trannies turn out to be reppers themselves and as a tranny who cant feel attraction to any type of woman its just another disappointment
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>>44403083
I'm aware. I have srs and pass well, and get lots of straight, male attention. I've kind of closed myself off from dating because it's just too full of heartbreak. It comes with the territory of being trans, and I'd love to have someone change my outlook, but it feels like a one-in-a-million chance that I find the right person.
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>>44403083
gamp is a type of heterosexuality
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>>44403083
>Men into you are not straight, they have gamp
You can be straight and a GAMP. Just because Chaser Pride Month is over now, doesn't mean you can be chaserphobic
>If you want straight men, get srs,
Ignore this retard. Nobody wants an srsoid
>more female sex characteristics you have, the more straight men like you
Apart from SRS, this is true.
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>>44402927
>Why don't transwomen wanna accept that some straight men can be attracted to them?
I mostly only see trans women deny that straight men can be attracted to trans women if the trans woman doesn't have SRS. Feels like insecurity desperately trying to justify it.
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>>44403152
srsoids with buyers remorse
no guy is falling for that fake shit
misery loves company
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It’s part of their emulation of female behavior. They want to have attention seeking meltdowns about the male gaze jus like real women do
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>>44403191
No, they look good if you get a good surgeon and guys seem to like them. It's just games that will be offput, which is sort of the point.
Trans women with SRS overwhelmingly seem happy. Even more than FFS.
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>>44403203
show me a good one
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>>44403296
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>>44403243
I don't go around looking at them for fun.

>>44403296
I know what vaginas look like. I think they're gross, but that's just me.
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OP is a faggot
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>>44403313
They're beautiful, but so is feminine penis.
Haters gonna hate.
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>>44403191
as a pooner, neovaginas look and are legit. Pussies have alot of variety, you might think you could “tell” because you fuck around alot or watch too much porn but you really can’t unless it’s botched
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>>44403330
Post a good one. I have never seen one that didn't look disgusting.
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>>44403336
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/s/Je756t8ib4
looked like mine before hrt, cant even tell besides some of the scarring but even then you could chalk that up to natural discolouration if you were going in with the assumption that she’s cis
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>>44403395
Where is even the clit
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>>44403395
Catbox it I'm not signing up.
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>>44403406
>thinks most women have visible clits
kek
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>>44403395
I should not have looked at that. Fuck I hate having my stupid fucking rape stick so much
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>>44402927
>straight men can be attracted to them
I wish so badly that this were true
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>>44403109
Nope, they have way higher base attraction to gay sex
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>>44403132
>Apart from SRS, this is true
False, srs is needed
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36801358/
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>some straight men
oh, you mean...
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>>44404004
Apart from the whole like

male skeleton thing, which repulses trve heteros
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>>44402927
What about straight women?
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>>44403107

learn to qualify quickly and aggressively, but do so in a more basal way than simply ignoring anyone who admits that you being trans is attractive. there are good men out there who probably will make a great partner for you who will admit that, and how that admission is delivered is more important than the admission itself.

I'm definitely not a normal dude in the sense of what my abilities are, what I prefer and what I know, but i'm not really depraved and I'm certainly not insensitive or unloving. I'm off in the fat tails of the distribution and it can get lonely.

Which gets to why I actually love my tranner gf. I'd love her no differently if she were cis, and I'd love her if she got SRS. We've been together for over 2 years at this point, and she said she felt more reassured in dating me once I told her I pretty much exclusively watched trans women getting topped in porn. She was initially really concerned she was keeping me from having a relationship with a cis woman.

on tranners at large I'm really more attracted to the effort and sacrifice (the pain involved in radically choosing one's own true path) than anything else, as I have typically been a high-effort and high-sacrifice person myself.

When she's gone for work I miss her company more than anything else. Sex is nice and all but I know that one day I'll be old and it won't matter as much. I want a partner who I actually like being around and who likes me who I can relate to.

I'm not into men, but I never cared about the form the woman took too much. ymmv depending on your behavior but someone who will love you for you is probably out there
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>>44404181
GRIM
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>>44403430
They all have a hood and no srsussy does among other things it never looks right
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>>44404193
Fellow man and I sense you're a good one. I relate, but they're hyper vigilant and think someone who looks like me is going to hatecrime them and someone who talks like me is a chaser. Maybe I am but why should it matter if I'd treat them well
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>>44406333
i have a hood but my clit is extra big like a ftm
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>>44406390
Big clit isn't a crime you might have the first decent srsussy ever
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>>44403067
you were bragging about being an oldfag yesterday. now you're using little sissy zoomer DEI words like "brainwormed". Get the hell out of here, Shlomo.
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>>44403065
Being in a traditional boy-girl relationship and then getting plowd by gock in private is peak and idk why most people don't do it.
T. Cistwink bottomchaser.
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>>44406561
This but taking turns is true peak
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>>44403993
And their female attraction is in heterosexual levels. Meanwhile their male attraction is way lower than gay men's
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>>44406633
don't bother arguing with these autistic retards
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>>44406408
does it need to be so big? i just wanted a cute little pussy not a bunch of extra labias
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>>44403296
>>44403303
lol noice
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>>44404181
when you see cis foids
avoid!
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>>44406376
you probably already intuited this but my best advice is to be very public when dating, to take it slow so it's obvious you're there to date long term, and to show who you are rather than let any words hold much weight. words are important but they have to follow action, especially in this context.
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>>44402927
I want Zhenechka be my gf so much
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>>44403132
>>If you want straight men, get srs,
>Ignore this retard. Nobody wants an srsoid
>>more female sex characteristics you have, the more straight men like you
>Apart from SRS, this is true.
So you are saying you want your partner to have a cock?
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men who have sex with or date "trans women" are gay men without exception
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>>44408161
>So you are saying you want your partner to have a cock?
Vagina's just as good. The real kind though, not an SRS wound of course. That shit's uncanny valley. Of course, looking like a woman is even more important
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>>44408161
nta but bussy>pussy>gock>>>srs
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>>44406633
yet
they have histories of AMaB sex so
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>>44404181
how do you get in a relationship like this and not feel immense soul electrocuting dysphoria. she put her head on your shoulder like you're "her man" and im sure she's coerced into piv
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>>44410743
you can't change a girls past it is what it is
i'd rather a loyal amab girl than some roastie with over 9000 body count
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>>44410902
True, you cannot change a transgirl's past.
Nor the AMaB-fucking chasers... (who may easily become transbians!! soon!)
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>>44402927
I've accepted that, it's another thing to reciprocate lol. Even if I werent with my partner rn, im veryyy picky when it comes to boys. Guys are just gross 95% of the time. But that 5% is like, marry me and my gf and try to impregnate us type shit ykwis
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>>44410932
Who hurt you
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>>44411000
They're not... straight
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there's always something fucking Queer about em
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>>44403430
most retards have never seen a real pussy. much less one that wasn't on porn
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>>44411037
yeah their gfs are whats queer about em
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it is over
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>>44406561
I don’t have a penis and the concept of topping my boyfriend makes me feel nauseous
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>>44411329
unsurprising, 2 years max before you dump him for a woman
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>>44402927
98% of cishet men won't bother with a tranny when they can just date a cis woman
the only ones who do are just DL weirdos who are closeted bisexuals
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>>44411392
How do they not understand it? Straight men are only interested in cis women.
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>>44411329
That's normal. Well, the not wanting to fuck your bf part at least. Becoming an srsoid certainly isn't
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>>44411392
>>44411426
At the risk of repeating myself, straight men like me can be into trans women if we only like the passing ones.
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>>44408201
not supported by any data on male androphilia and does not whatsoever apply to celibate relationships btw
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>>44404004
SRS isn't mentioned at all here. Did you just spam an article without reading it



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