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Im such a sexually and romantically unfulfilled tranny. My girlfriend of many years loves me and supports me but I don’t think she desires me very much. She’s kind of asexual. Meanwhile im on 200mg prog and want to get railed 24/7 and cant think of anything else besides sex.

I keep fantasizing about having a boyfriend who loves me and is super attracted to me and wants to grope and touch my body all of the time. Someone I can fully give myself to, cook for him, play video games with him, suck his cock, get railed while he pins me down and calls me slurs and then cuddle afterwards.

I don’t think it would even be hard for me to find a boyfriend if I was single, I have a nice body and relatively pretty face

My girlfriend knows this and lets me see other people, but I feel like 1 night stands with men are also unfulfilling. I want to do fun sex stuff but it’s really not feasible with someone I barely know and don’t trust. Most of the men I’ve hooked up with only care about their own pleasure and couldn’t care less about getting me off.

I know that most of you might say break up with your girlfriend but I really do deeply love her and she’s given me unconditional support through my hardest times.

Is it possible to have a boyfriend and girlfriend realistically? Would any of you cis chaser be okay sharing your tranny gf with a cis girl?
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>>44407994
>My girlfriend knows this and lets me see other people
I would say you're both going to burn in hell but you're clearly already in a hell of your own making.
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>>44408024
Channers are so funnily prudish about nonmonogamy
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>>44407994
Solution: Get yourself a bisexual couple.
>inb4 but [reasons its hard]
Yes, but it's also a workable solution.
In my case both me [tranny] and my wife [cisf] are bi. And that's how we solved it. We're family friends with a bi couple. It's way safer and more emotionally fulfilling for all 4 of us.
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>>44407994
think you just date men and stay friends with her, that's just not going to work out long term i'm afraid
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girl I've seen this situation so many times. yes break up obv.
you were once suitable at one point in your lives but no longer. you held on because you both needed that safety and comfort. yes the love and care is real, but I don't think continuing this relationship will do EITHER ONE if you favours.
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>>44407994
>Is it possible to have a boyfriend and girlfriend realistically? Would any of you cis chaser be okay sharing your tranny gf with a cis girl?
Yeah I have an enby partner and a trans boyfriend, you can kinda do whatever you want. Poly shit is pretty cool if everyone is chill.
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>>44408183
We are compatible in most ways that matter in life. Although we don’t have sex much anymore we still care deeply for one another and kiss and cuddle and communicate everything. Is it really worth giving that up just because we aren’t sexually compatible?

>>44408150
My girlfriend is a lesbian and doesnt have much attraction to men.
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>>44408280
>My girlfriend is a lesbian and doesnt have much attraction to men
Well then the solution is still to find another couple in which you share the guy. And your gf could get the sexual attention of the other woman (if she chooses to).
The reason is simple: A couple in which you all agree on the boundaries is much more of an effective arrangement than what you're doing now.
>We are compatible in most ways that matter in life
>Is it really worth giving that up just because we aren’t sexually compatible?
NTA but sexual compatibility is an area that matters a lot in life. And it clearly matters to you enough to make this thread and admit you have constant fantasies of having a bf.
Unlike the other anons, I do agree with you that you shouldn't be breaking up. But I'm also telling you that there is a way to fix this at least partially. Especially given that your gf is understanding of the situation.
Rather than waste time looking for hook-ups and also take immense risks, it's better to invest time in finding an arrangement that can actually work.



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