Is it possible to just give up on my hopes of having friends or socializing regularly? I'm unlikeable even among tranny spaces, I'm not a great person, and I pretty much lost my ability to socialize. No one likes me and I don't think they ever will like me, which is understandable.do I just fill my life with nothing but endless distractions or hobbies I can do alone until I die?How can I live the rest of my life normally without socializing or friends?
>>44408540no one cares ig.
>>44408540im 28 and I’ve never had a friend in my lifefrankly it’s a horrible existence and it’s kinda hard to maintain certain hobbies alone and doing stuff alone can be scaryI think I’ll probably end up killing myself tbhon
you get used to it
>>44409552You get used to it. I occasionally message people when I'm not talking to AI. The comvis don't even go anywhere and I don't want them too lol.
>>44408540i have done this but i wouldnt reccomend it.
it does NOT get easier to deal with. i havent had ANY friend in over a decade at this point, and even before that, my friendships were one-sided or fizzled out in a few months.hobbies are pointless when the end product gets dusty on a shelf that nobody else will ever see. social media is a poor substitute for socialization unless youre likable enough for somebody to take initiative and express continued interest in you.im probably some type of narcissist so i have no real chance of making friends, but you dont have to be that way too. you can save yourself from being a 30 year old with no friends, but you have to change to be a fundamentally better person
what's the deal with the "humans are social animals you must have friends and family in your life" thing that normies love to repeat to each other then
you get used to it at a pointbut nowadays better off desu a lot of people are retarded or insane now
>>44409759they are normies, you are broken, autistic and mentally ill
>>44409858i guess it's the rope then
Haven't had "friends" in quite a while, and when I had them I always felt miserable, never managed to fit in properly, guess I am just unlikeable, so I'm kinda better off alone.
>>44408540I just socialize online and if I ever make friends irl I ghost them
genuinely curious, what makes you unlikable? is it just that staunch autism thingy?
>>44408540I can't imagine self harming on the neck??
>>44408540I care because you are like me.I want to start working as a delivery bicycle rider, maybe seeing and interacting with that many people could fix how I speak to people.>>44410090I guess that beats the "just for attention" allegations
>>44409858they should make friends for broken autistic mentally ill people...
>>44409729>>44408540Well for one thing, living as a cis autistic man is pure nightmare fuel, seriously if ur an autistic male just troon out.Secondly even normal people live boring af lives once they get married and have kids. People have kids so they aren't bored for the next 20 years. It's a horrible life having to constantly do shit with your kids lmao. People get so exhausted with social shit the only want to deal with one person, their married partner.
>>44409760Use in point this board.
>>44411324*case in point this board.
Take some time to yourself. You can take the opportunity to detoxify yourself. Social media addiction is real. They wanted you to be addicted to checking for replies, checking for new content, and you are. So it's not a bad idea to reacclimate yourself to not socializing constantly.However, don't think this is some kind of permanent state. As you move through life your interests change and you hang out in different places and there is always the possibility you'll find someone interesting to talk to.
>>44410659that doesnt really make sense, having kids is what destroys your social life, because now you have to orient everything around them, you'll both be tired all the time and will stop doing stuff together. meanwhile if you dont have kids you can both work and have tons of money and go travelling or do whatever.
>>44408540I took a benzo nap. I'm surprised my thread has over 20 replies. thought it would die quicker.
>>44408540im sorry you feel that way nona, im in a similar situation. its hard to make friends these days. i try to distract myself with hobbies and stuff since i gave up on meeting ppl irl after getting ghosted too many times. its alright ig, im not gonna kms over it cause maybe things will get better in the future. so im just kinda coasting til then. i hope someone comes into your life that makes it better for you :)
>>44410483the problem is that they are so insular it is impossible to connect
>>44408540You can get "used to it" by numbing yourself. You are never going to be happy or fulfilled after that but you can be comfortable. Humans genuinely need relationships to be happy. Without relationships, even activities you enjoy alone will become less enjoyable. We often don't even realize how we find things fun because it's in the context of learning or experiencing something which we can later use in an interaction with other people. A coping mechanism you can learn is to sort of trick your brain into feeling there's something social about what you're doing, what I do personally is I imagine one day I will use all of the art and media I have consumed to make a creative masterpiece and everyone will think I am super cool and want to be my friend. It's a complete delusion but it keeps me enjoying my distractions as I wait for the end.
Where do you live OP? I am in the same situation and I keep trying to make new friends even here sometimes but all I meet is massive assholes.It's gotten to the point where I'd rather be alone than have yet another bad experience. I feel s stuck.
>>44408540>>44412889are you the same jaxposter who went on a long rant about how she was never going to make it a few days ago
>>44415435yeah I think so. I didn't draw the Jax pictures in this thread though.
