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>gaming with online friend (male)
>just watching him stream on disc
>been doing this for months
>its just the two of us
>"hey nona, just wanted to tell you that I really care and worry about you"
>"I've enjoyed hanging out with you recently and I think I'm crushing a little bit haha"
>extreme fight or flight kicks in
>leave call instantly and block him on all platforms
why why why do I do this he could have been special he could have loved me and I pushed him away like I push everyone away
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>>44418918
Unblock him and apologize
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lol
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i love the posts where someone is given the world on a silver platter and says "no" for literally zero reason it makes me feel good about my life
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>>44418928
I can't face him again its over
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>>44418918
Unblock him and fix this, you fucking moron
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>>44418960
this was almost a month ago how am i supposed to go back on this without seeming like im some kind of desperate e-whore who ran out of other options?? genuinely
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>>44418958
It's fine he'll understand
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>>44418984
Literally just tell him that you feel the same and got scared. That's literally all you have to do, be honest.
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troon up and be honest and vulnerable then you can both move on and you will laugh about it later
worst that can happen is he tells you to fuck off? you'll get over it.
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>>44418984
why would he think that at all lmao, just apologize & be honest w him you damned bozo
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idk if i could tell him that i might feel something for him too but i might unblock him i need to sober up sorry i get really stupid when im alone
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>>44419068
>>44418984
I’m a cisman and honestly if this happened to me my self-esteem would be so crushed that that’s what I would assume if she came back.
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>>44419133
are you serious rn or are you just fucking with me
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>>44419133
It's still better that she at least tries instead of letting it fester for even longer. Trying is better than doing nothing in this situation
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>>44419158
I am serious. Not trying to discourage you from contacting him. I’m just letting you know that yes, there are consequences for when you hurt people’s feelings and that you should be prepared for not everything to work out.
>>44419171
Yeah I agree.
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>>44418958
Yes you can you idiot
Do it or you’ll regret it on your deathbed
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at least try and make things right
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>>44419183
>>44419192
i hurt him i hurt him i cant let that go i dont know if i can live with that just the fact that i did at all makes me wanna vomit and even if he forgives me for it i dont think i can let that go i shouldnt be around him im bad for him
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>>44419206
>i shouldnt be around him im bad for him
That's for him to decide. You already made a decision for him and fucked things up once. There's still time to possibly fix this. If he wants nothing to do with you because of it, then nothing changes. But maybe you'll be able to fix things and get your bf eventually. Punishing yourself doesn't help anyone
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>>44418958
Its only over if you refuse. If you care for him or hell even yourself you WILL talk to him.pushing him away and cutting himout your life would be a cruelty. Face him and your wrongdoings or you'll never get better. I hope you find the strength and love within yourself and apologize to him.
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>>44419206
Even sending him this thread is better than ghosting
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>>44419206
Stop being a selfish moron. You're more concerned about the fact that you feel guilty than the fact that this guy probably thinks you blocking him was his fault. Something similar happened to me once and I can confirm that nothing is worse than the feeling you get after randomly being blocked by someone you liked. Go talk to him.
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Unblock him and send him a message right fucking now
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ok i messaged him but he needs to re-accept my friend request before I can actually send him anything and it's really late so now I get to stay up all night and obsessively hope he accepts
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>>44419349
please update us as soon as you hear from him nona i'm very invested
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>>44419349
I hope he leaves you on read you schizo cunt
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>>44419537
i agree this level of mental illness needs to be handled before sucking the life force out of this man
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young insecure love
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1 sided love
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help
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>>44419957
carve his name in your skin and send it to him
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>>44419957
This guy is an angel
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>>44419957
Say yes you are ok and that it's not an emergency or anything, and then tell him the truth and then apologize for ghosting him and explain why you did so
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>>44419957
Only took a little over an hour. You better not fuck this up
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>>44419957
just be fucking honest you retard
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calling him gonna try not to make it weird thx for the push maybe i can salvage this
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>>44420168
This man is a fucking saint, holy shit
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>>44420168
you don't deserve that guy but congrats I guess
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>>44420183
Simp*
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Should've been me
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if you were really friends you would not have blocked him for a month you are just emotionally manipulative
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>>44420220
ive never really had friends except for one guy in college but he eventuallu just got me drunk and molested me so since then ive run away from interacting with ppl especially when it gets too much for me emotionally i dont mean to manipulate anyone i just isolate myself



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