Except instead of being a dad I'm going to be an uncle because I'm a cowardManmoders that have nieces/nephews how do you explain yourself around them?
I'm going to be an aunt. Unless my sisters just hate me and will teach their kids that i'm a tranny and not a real woman. Atleast I'll look pretty.
>>44436033as you can see by the font size mismatch, the original said "mom" and had a few more cute pics around this scenario, but this feels more accurate and brutali like the artstyle
>>44436033Depends on the age of the kid. In my experience they don't have hella baggage and will shamelessly ask if you're a boy or a girl.
>>44436176Well I'm too much of a coward to tell either of my brothers and hrt isn't obvious for anyone to question me so I'm just going to be the weird uncle I guess
>>44436033this is gonna be me in like 4 years when my niece is a child and not just an infant
>>44436274My niece isn't even born yet but I'm probably just going to rep to save her the shame of having a tranny uncle
>>44436347She literally will not care. Stop rationalizing your self-loathing by projecting it onto others. Textbook internalized transphobia. Get over it you miserable creature.
>>44436445I can't get over being something as shameful as being Trans. I'll always be an embarrassment to be around for her and everyone else I can already see her being bullied for having a Trans freak as an uncle in the future
>>44436682First it is not true that you can't get over it. You just haven't gotten over it. Realistically you can. So many people do it.Second shame is contextual to social norms and not essential to any act or feeling. It is not an inherently shameful thing to be a tranny rather it is shameful within your personal beliefs.Stop wallowing. t. shameless tranny
>>44436682Also if I ever meet your niece I'll bully her for having a spineless repper for an uncle.
>>44437059Being Trans is a failing on my behalf so I have no choice but to feel shame over it, also I'm boymoding not repping. My plan is just to be on hrt but manmode
>>44437890Yea it is boymoding but you're still being miserable >Being Trans is a failing on my behalf1. Explain how this is a failing2. Even if it is a failing explain how the shame is usefulShame is only good if it drives you to do a good action. For example being ashamed about your body might encourage you to exercise more and eat better. Otherwise let it go.Hiding the fact that you are trans is not good so the shame is not good.You should honestly be ashamed of your self-loathing and act on that.
>>44438059My brain doesn't agree with me being born in a male body how is it not a failure on my behalf Nothing good can come from me being out as Trans and girlmoding that path will only lead to pain. So at least I have permanent manmoding while on hrt I'm not truly living but at least I'm not getting worse while bringing no shame with my presence in the world
I functionally have no family
well I won't ever have any kids, I don't think so.
>>44438192I honestly wish I didn't have any family at least I'd have zero expectations to fail. I think life would be vastly improved if I could isolate
>>44438220being isolated really sucks
>>44438239I'd rather live in isolation than have anyone suffer my existence i just want to fade away
>>44438169>My brain doesn't agree with me being born in a male body how is it not a failure on my behalfYea see the way psychiatry works is that you're not a failure for having a brain problem. You're a failure if you fail to treat your brain problem. And guess what the recommended treatment is for gender dysphoria?Fucking transitioning. Medically. Socially. Doctor's orders.https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/gender-dysphoria/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20475262The only bad things are put on you by shitheads who get triggered when they look at trannies. And you are one of those shitheads right now.
>>44438309I don't deserve to live as a woman because I'm sad that I wasn't born one... I should just be beaten on the head and told i need to be a man. I'm a failure because I couldn't do the bare minimum of being a man when I was born one
>>44438333Hold up let me call all my cisf friends and see if they deserve their femininity. What bullshit. You are just afraid of disappointment and want to wallow instead of doing the thing that is medically advised for you to fucking do.If I catch you outside I'll beat you on the head and tell you that you need to be a woman jfc you absolute spineless loser.Self-hating trannies are the real optics nuke.
>>44438419I still don't deserve to live as a woman just because I wish I was born one. Call me a coward all you want but why should get to girlmode? No one's obligated to respect my feelings or desires. I'm just a freak for wanting what I want and an embarrassment
>>44438464Cis or trans it doesn't matter gender is not a thing to be deserved by anybody. Leave the gatekeeping shithole that is /tttt/ until you learn that.Like at the bare minimum you can tell your family that you're trans and that you're boymoding because that's what's comfortable for you.
>>44438543My family doesn't need the burden of having a tranny as a family member that's why I'm manmoding
>>44438570Literally the only reason my family was against my transition was because I would become a self-hating loser with no friends. Jokes on them I have more confidence and more friends than my brothers and parents all combined.Your misery is the burden not your gender.
>>44438621My gender is a burden what are you even talking about... if I were born right I wouldn't need to feel shame, have to hide, or be a failure. Instead I'm destined for a life of pain and failure forever
>>44438663I literally have the same gender as you and I am not a burden and I am not ashamed so stop gaslighting yourself.Consider this. If being trans is the cause of your problems then all you have to do is sit inside and wallow. But if refusing to accept being trans is the cause of your problems then you have to go out and have hard conversations and actually improve your life and that's scary.Coming out to your family fuckin sucks. But you only have to do it once. Then it's done. But you're too scared to do it so you gaslight yourself into thinking that inaction is the right thing to do.
>>44438736My family has suffered a lot this year I'm not going to add to that suffering by opening up about me being a tranny while we're all mourning the lost of my aunt,father, and grandfather that all happened within the first 6 months of this year. My selfish gender identity is just another burden and doesn't deserve the light of day
>>44436033That will not be me because I didn't troon out or remain in a relationship long enough to start a family. So I get to be the sad lonely man I was born to be.
>>44438789Ya that's rough ngl. My condolences.But you're going to be an aunt so there's clearly good stuff happening too.Honestly the fact that you're finally treating your gender dysphoria is good thing too. The existence of it has always sucked and been a burden. Have you ever considered that your family might understand how it's difficult for you and support you doing the best thing for yourself to be happier and healthier?
>>44438845I'm an uncle because no one would ever see me as a woman. Why should anyone want to support me when I'm being a selfish asshole for choosing to be Trans? Also i have to live with knowing I never had the courage to come out to my father so I really don't feel like I deserve to be happy
>>44438419>self-hating trannies are the real optics nukegenuinely such a moronic thing to say. self hating trannies are the most likely to never interact with the public (thus negating the optics part)
>>44438893So you're gonna not have the courage to come out to your other family members and repeat the pain when they pass? On ya dead dad nona please do better.It is not selfish to suffer from gender dysphoria.It is not selfish to follow medical standards to treat your gender dysphoria.It honestly isn't even selfish to not want to come out to your family.It is however very selfish to convince yourself that not coming out is the right thing to do just because it is difficult and momentarily inconvenient.It is selfish to convince yourself that being trans is selfish like you could just stop it or something.It is selfish to ignore all the nonas who have hrtrepped and deeply regretted it.You will be an aunt no matter what anybody calls you. We both know it.
>>44439038I don't even care anymore I'm honestly thinking of packing whatever shit I can and leaving on my birthday without a single mention. They all deserve better than having a selfish creature like me around them. I just need to be alone and isolated it's the only way I can make things right for being what I am
>>44439103If you're ready to give it all up and run then you're ready to try. That's the worst case scenario after all.I'm confident that they'd all rather have a happy tranny in the family than another hole where a person used to be. Or a bitter estranged person who lies and hides. You certainly won't fool them.If you come out then you can stop being selfish and start healing into a normal well-adjusted tranny.
>>44439169I could never be normal or well adjusted just a broken freak that made things worse by being Trans. Which is why I'd be better off alone and away from everyone
>>44439215Can you at least try first? Why skip over trying and go straight to the worst case scenario?That's not fair to you or them.
>>44439288Because there is no world where I'm accepted and embraced as trans. The only outcome I'll experience is rejection so no point in bothering
>>44438913yeah they're projecting per usual. they know their sneedish galavanting has consequences, they just pretend to not understand
>>44439322Then try, get rejected, and do whatever you're planning to do. There's literally no reason not to try besides the fact that you don't want to.Your despair clouds your mind. A lot changes in a year or five or ten. It's a long game. Know hope even if you don't feel it.Healing inherently takes time. Sometimes acceptance takes time too. Many nonas have their family come around even if they are initially uncomfortable. If your family knew what you say here maybe they would be sympathetic. That transitioning is such a difficult and painful thing for you but you still believe that it is the right thing to do. So how would it be selfish?
>>44439404Again why should anyone show any sympathy to me because I'm miserable because I wasn't born a girl? There is no accepting this I'm not strong and I won't be able to handle rejection. I'm selfish because me coming out as a tranny is forcing people to take someone they knew and loved away and demanding they call me a woman all of a sudden
>>44439460Don't make them call you anything. You're clearly at least somewhat okay with the idea of boymoding around your family so just keep doing that, but be open with them about it. Explain to them that you're transitioning because you genuinely believe it is the best path forward for your mental health. Explain to them that gender dysphoria causes you so much distress that you'd throw your entire life away to transition.Literally millions of trannies have come out to their families. It's difficult, but you're not an exceptional case. You can do it.
>>44436682>everyone at school will know she has a tranny unclehow. you people all make these ridiculous excuses like muh blood clots or muh niece it's so clearly motivated reasoning you just are afraid to do it and don't have a legitimate reason why and you understand intuitively that you should be infinitely more afraid of not doing it
>>44439688nvm didn't realize you were boymodingyou're still retarded just not fatally so
i will be killing myself before my niece and nephew get a chance to know me so it's okay
>>44436033i'm a passing tranny with a big brother, when I started trooning i told him, and he said "i had these thoughts when i was your age".he had a daughter recently and i'm scared he passed the tranny gene on to her
>>44441624Reppers really shouldn't be allowed to have children passing down this curse to a child is evil
>>44436347I have an infant daughter and I'm trooning out. Teach your niece that it's okay to be whoever you want to be, because it's nobody else's business.
>>44442066I won't because I know that who I am isn't okay. I'm someone to be ashamed of and I should probably avoid connecting with herI just need to build enough savings to dissappear from these people's lives
