>pushing 30>still confused about sexuality and gender identity because every time I think I understand it, someone tells me I'm wrong and a Bad PersonI can't help that I'm weird. If I'm not hurting anyone and want to self-actualize, is it really such a sin to try to have a foundation for understanding myself?
>>44448555You’re fine you’re just honest. Everyone else is the same they are just very protective of their headcanon because it’s integral to their own attempts at self actualisation and they lack the self awareness to be analytical or introspective about it.
>>44448555No, it's not wrong. Don't let others be a barrier to your happiness.
>>44448583That makes sense I suppose, but unfortunately brings me no closer to understanding myself. >>44448610I've done nothing but let that happen, even if unconsciously. Every time I try to pursue my own happiness I wind up being punished for my hubris.
same desu
