how do you learn to act feminine?
Reroll, be assigned female, learn to move, think, and talk like a female because you'd be assigned female and thus taught how to behave at age 0
Why not just be yourself?
>>44450856I don't have a personality
>>44450837befriend cisfs and try to immitate some of their behaviors (not all at once and not all of them since not everything they do necessarily fits you).oh and learn how women use language. that's 50% of soulpassing.>>44450847this woe is me'ism will always be a terrible idea.terfs and autistic trannies are simply wrong. yes, cisfs learn how to be feminine from a young age, but that doesn't mean trannies can't catch up. it's merely an excuse not to even try and thus making things far worse long term
>>44450896its not soulpassing if it doesnt come naturally to you >but that doesn't mean trannies can't catch upyes it does, not to be a doomer but there are 100000 imperceptible things that make up female behavior, some learned some genetic some from their physical traits. you can and should try but you will never get close
>>44450867i doubt that, has someone told you that you're boring or weird?
>>44451208No, but I'm invisible and "blank"
>>44451215do you feel like you're holding back? or do you really feel totally blank, like no thoughts?
>>44451248>or do you really feel totally blank, like no thoughts?Yeah, with no hobbies as well.
Read books. Not anything high brow, but rather trashy romance novels.
>>44451193>not to be a doomer>proceeds to be a doomer>and intentionally exaggerate too (100000 things? really?)just say you're undisciplined and don't want to put in any effort.
>>44450896>this woe is me'ism will always be a terrible idea.I agree, if you're self aware enough you can intentionally observe and learn. It's literally just an deliberate and accelerated version of what cis women went through. Literal cis male theater actors playing a female character do the same thing.
>>44453024>Literal cis male theater actors playing a female character do the same thingnta but yes.I went one step further and paid for theater classes to get taught this. It fucking works.if a retarded incel trannymaxxer could do it, anyone can.
>>44450856how do i know i'm being myself
>observe and learn>It'll never happen, yngmiCan one of you actually give a list of things to do to be more feminine in behavior.Stuff like:>Use pinterest and learn what styles of clothing you like, how they fit different frames, and what works for you!>Try branching out of stereotypically moidbrained media (shonen, action movies, gritty explody movies) and more into emotionally driven media and movies (bones and all, eeaao, interview with the vampire ((the show)))>Focus more on growing your internal perception, allow yourself to feel emotions more deeply, allow yourself to get giddy about things, focus on what its literally like to have flesh that responds to emotions like grief and love.>Groom yourself!! Learn to take care of your hair!! Argan oil!! Biotin!! Learn what your hair texture is and how often/what kind of showering/shampooing cycle it needs!!>Pluck your eyebrows!! The worst hons dont touch their eyebrows!!! Style them!! Bangs are fine but never slack on your eyebrows!!>Learn makeup, easier said than done I know but, genuinely, literally, pick a makeup tutorial video, buy the products, and follow it!!!>Voice train!!! Voice is like 90% of it!!>We've been argued against on this one, but, supposedly women walk with their hip muscles to balance and men walk with their shoulders to balance, I've also heard about how men use their ankles to pivot weight and women use their hips to pivot weight, idk if that's real, but nevertheless, focus on the way you stand, walk, and act!! This of all things truly is an observe others thing, the worst thing you can do as a trans woman is come across as flamboyant.Idk!!! Idk what I'm doing!!! We came to this thread for advice!! So I guess I'll share /~\
>>44453617That's very cool, was it offered with a class or one on one tutoring? I want to try this once I'm happy with my voice training.
>>444539901-on-1 tutoring with the exception of the introduction (the first 4 classes iirc) which were with a class.it's not like it's an officially advertised thing. I just went to the theater and asked which older/more experienced actors are known to do private classes. Then went to the ones most likely to be queer-adjacent. Got pointed out in the correct direction as soon as I plainly said what I wanted. I didn't beat around the bush either. I simply said: "I'm a tranny and I want to learn how to feminine IRL"
>>44451257nta but i relate to you too. it's like thinking youre a blank canvas until you realize that it's actually just painted all the same monotone grey, so you cant really add to it or change it without starting over from scratch.
>>44450847Exactly how I learned female behavior but some of it is genetic
>>44450837if only there were some kind of helpful reading on this subject...
