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what are your thoughts on husbands who troon out and the wives who stay by their side?

>picrel, Jo Ellis, 6ft4 former black hawk pilot
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>>44479929
The men are evil, the women are misguided and try to make the best of a horrible situation.
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>>44479929
The 2026 pic is AI
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>>44479940
can verify. i trapped my wife in our marriage. she rlly hates my tits so much
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>>44479929
based if theyre happy. even better if the wife transitions to be a st4t couple
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Life is short, im glad they're happy
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>>44479943
you're AI
Jo Ellis is a hottie and a T-MILF
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>>44479971
I hope she starts putting DHT powder on your food and T gel in your shampoo.
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>>44479929
>>44480001
Imagine being a cissoid and getting mogged by your boomerhon husband. Fucking relentless, id rope
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>>44480001
What does it mean if I genuinely think the tranny is hotter?
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>>44480032
It means you have good taste, older women are exquisite.
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>>44480032
It’s cause she’s blonde. Blondes are always hotter
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>>44480007
hey nice thats how my dad used to threaten me
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>>44480032
>that's so nice of a young man like you to go on a date with me anon, younger girls must hound you all day
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>>44479929
My wife is still with me. Started transitioning at 32 on Jan. 2025. She's been very supportive. She's the love of my life :)
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>>44479929
kinda based ngl, esp if u end up hot and not a hon.
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Incredibly evil. She loved you and you withheld such a crucial part of yourself. She was lied to for years. And now she's trapped dealing with it.
She married a man, not a tranny.
Suicide is the honorable option
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>>44479929
personally I would rather just kill myself than be either person in that relationship
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>>44480326
when i was at that point i got on viagra and took good care of her
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>>44480315
You all sound like kids. When you get older, you stop caring so much what others think of you. I've known I was trans since I was very young, but repressed because I grew up in bumfuck nowhere and didn't have a way to get care. Even when I got out, I repressed because I didn't want to cause trouble for my parents (grandfather was very racist, homophobic, and transphobic).

Finally, repressing became too much in my early 30s. By that time, it was much easier to transition. My wife and I have a very loving relationship--she knew I was bi and dated a man before meeting her; she never expected me to be terribly masculine. We also never wanted kids.

Sounds like you both put too much importance in society's expectations for you, and not your own needs and wants. We're just animals. We live on a rock floating in a vacuum. There is no inherent meaning to any of this. You don't have to follow something just because its what everyone else is doing.
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>>44480183
>hot tranny le good
>ugly tranny le bad
least shallow cisoid
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>>44480398
based and correct
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>>44480398
Fake and gay
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>>44479929
>>44480001
>>44480065
>>44480101
Okay she actually looks so good though. Like you can tell she's trans and kind of a hon, but like, she looks so good at the same time. She's hopefuel. Like, she's the perfect example of how you can be not passing and still be attractive.

I personally HATE hearing about transwomen who get married and have kids then transition. I think it's gross and upsetting. Especially because they almost always go through this "I need men to fuck me and want me to feel like a woman" phase and just drag out the humiliation ritual for that poor woman. Some women stay because they love the person regardless of gender, and that's nice and all, but at the same time I'm sure deep down that's not what they wanted and there's some cope to it. I want to tell transwomen to transition and then find a cis woman to be with, but to be honest, most cis women are NOT going to go for it. They only stay because they are in love and hooked.
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>>44479929
Pretty sweet as long as no SRS or cheating with men are involved
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>>44479929
Tbh I think its cruel for them to stay if they dont like trans women. I also just hate transbians so im biased
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>>44480315
I'll never understand how could anyone hide this from someone they plan sharing their life with, only had one relationship my entire life and I told her right away, that allowed me to express myself without any fear, well, that was also the reason it ended so catastrophically, guess the novelty passed but I couldn't be blamed
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>>44481360
>I'll never understand how could anyone hide this from someone they plan sharing their life with
Never thought I would transition. I had managed to rep for so long, I didn't bank on my dysphoria getting worse or my gender envy going into overdrive. Didn't seem like something I needed to voice when we got together, and of course, I still felt a lot of shame around being trans. I never told anyone save other trannies online.
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>>44479929
i feel like 90% of the time they stay it's for the sake of the kids
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I wonder how many children she had to slaughter for pedo elite to afford it all
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>>44480001
Face is mad filtered to fuck and back but ok
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>>44483358
Don't see it.
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>>44483366
Run it through a filter detection app boss
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if no children: cute, heartwarming story of enduring love
if children: highly contemptible, despicable, etc
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>>44483469
>if children: highly contemptible, despicable, etc
Why? There is nothing wrong with being trans.
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>>44480065
>be tall lateshit repper
>wanna see the tall lateshit hon to feel better about myself
>she's a tall lateshit milf
>she looks more like a woman than I do, will ever or could ever
Why do I bother doing anything?
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>>44479929
Dead eyes.
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>>44479929
well, I did tell my now wife that I will want to troon so it's not like she was surprised or anything.
I'm also 175cm tall so not being a gigaheighthon helps, lol.
>>44480398
correct. Thank fuck my generation wasn't like that. I was making the arrangements to start transition when I met my wife. I started younger than you but with the same mentality: who gives a shit what others think?
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>>44484526
probably due to being an idiot who joined the military
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>>44484614
>175cm
>96th percentile
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>>44484670
In my country, that's fine for a woman. I wish I was that short. I would trooner years ago. Maybe.
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>>44479929
why do so many veterans troon out?
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>>44480080
disagree black hair with pale skin is better
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>>44484747
Were people just ugly back then? This is some 1940s anglefraud shit
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>>44480001
Is no one here going to point out that this is only acceptable because the husband mogs the fuck out of his/her wife?
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>>44484670
>96th percentile
consider that other countries exist, anon.
in my country at least 1/3 of cis women are taller than me.
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>>44484970
>taller than 2/3s of cis women
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>>44484977
yep. and shorter than most men. not ideal, but far from 96th percentile and very far from a heighthon.
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>>44484747
War trauma probably makes them functionally impotent or uncomfortable with manhood & with access to modern internet tr00ning out is one of the last ways in the 21st century you can truly reinvent yourself and leave your past behind (IDEALLY)
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>>44484747
Part of basic training is to take a sledgehammer to your identity so you can be turned into an effective part of a unit. Add in what >>44485037 said and you get vets trooning out because they've been promised it's a solution to all your identity crisis issues.
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>>44486086
>it's a solution to all your identity crisis issues
who the hell says that? lol imagine if anyone thought that was true.
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>>44486527
90% of this board believes that to be true
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>>44479929
I would love it if my husband trooned out, easier to control "him"
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>>44487505
you will never have a trans wife, lol
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>>44487540
I will
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>>44480080
>>44484750
>Blondes are always hotter
>black hair with pale skin is better
pale skin and brown hair is the default white cis woman archetype, right?
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>>44479929
i will tell you a secret about this kind of relationship dynamic that nobody has ever addressed:

repping pooners and repping tranners are drawn to each other. if they stay together after the tranner comes out it's because the pooner is still in the closet. that's all there is to it.
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>>44479929
How could I be mad, they're me
>be out bifag
>date bi girl
>she knows I'm extremely not straight
>she even jokes about it "I found the gayest guy possible that still likes women"
>a few weeks before the wedding she realizes I'm trans and I go into denial mode
>a few weeks after the wedding realiye how bad I fucked up
>come out offer to anul, move out and pay her rent for a year
>she asks that we try
>couples counseling and personal therapy
>troon out
>get her pregnant
>its about to be our 7th anniversary and we have an almost 4 year old as married moms
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>>44488837
So happy to read that, nona.
Kids are amazing and you were lucky.
Wish you and your wife a long life <3
t. >>44484614
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>>44487497
And over 90% of the wider TQ+ community.
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>>44484747
Well for what it's worth, Christine Jorgensen wasn't a soldier, she was like some kind of physician's assistant and was an autistic fag her whole life. She got turned down by doctors and psychs so many times that she eventually fucked off to Copenhagen to be a guinea pig for a sexologist.
Besides, most fighting age men during that era were in the military in some form.
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>>44488792
>Uh I need to tell you something
>I was born male and I got surgery when I was young
>*teehee*well let's go watch the movie then
That's what my friend told me on our "first date", I was so confused, I came to think my cover was blown and I told them about myseñf a few days later, turned out they were afab but "always wanted to be a boy" but I had already told them so we bonded quite hard over this, tho the relationship never worked we kinda get along when no romance is involved.
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>>44480398
i am in my early 30s and care more than i ever have about what others think of me. it's why i'm a permamanmoder.



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