>30 y/o MtF tranny>stealth to most people and post-op>started dating an online friend irl a few months before my SRS>now we've been dating almost four years>lived together for two years so far>know he's planning to propose soon (we've talked a lot more seriously about marriage recently and he's been "secretly" saving for a ring)On the one hand I feel extremely lucky and ecstatic that the guy I love seems willing to do this. On the other hand it feels like I've not done my due diligence as a woman because he's the only person who's ever given me romantic attention, the only guy I've ever kissed or slept with. Feels like most cis women would say I'm making a mistake by giving myself to the first guy who'll have me.Am I overthinking things, /tttt/? If I had cis women friends I'd ask them about it but I'm kind of autistic and don't know how to make friends so I don't have any cis women friends.
its fine considering you started dating extremely late 26 is like near marrying age idk how you went so long T. ranny, first relationship at 16
>>44584485No. My uncle and aunt were each others firsts for everything.
>>44584485If you love eachother, values/plans align, and he's succesful, of course! Happy for you. <3
>>44584565>idk how you went so long Probably because I couldn't transition until I was 24
>>44584565im an incel and if it wasnt for my bf i would have never had anything at 30
>>44584603You're an incel with a bf?
>>44584965Where did she say anything about being an incel? I think that's just your rude interpretation
>should I ride the cock carousel before having to settle when I hit the wall.>everyone else is doing it.
>>44584485>Am I overthinking things, /tttt/?yes>Feels like most cis women would say I'm making a mistake by giving myself to the first guy who'll have meWhores will say that. Normal people won't.You love the guy and you are already building a life together. Don't be an idiot and marry the boy.I wish I could've married my first bf and his stupid family hadn't separated us. Took a long time to find another relationship.Please, don't be your own worst enemy. Perfect is the enemy of good.t. married tranny
>>44584998>>44584603>Where did she say anything about being an incel?>im an incel
>>44584485I got married after one year of dating, we also had a baby very soon after. Been together now for 13 years. It can work out !
>>44584998Reported for stupidity
>>44584485does weird mean cute? if so then yes
>>44585571W-why's it cute?
>>44585491I'm guessing you're a transbian?
>>44584485I think you should do it if you love him I’m same age but I’ve dated more I’m hoping current bf will be the one but if you have the chance take it and don’t ruin the special thing you have
>>44584485second thoughts about marriage in this dating economy is crazy OP. you got a real one right off the bat, cherish him and embrace it. i'm in a somewhat similar boat as you except pre-op still, my partner and I have been discussing marriage openly and I genuinely see no reason not to. I love my partner and i'm genuinely the most happy in a relationship i've ever been, i'm not going to play the field for the sake of some one night stands and 6 month toxic relationships
>>44584485I mean my mom married the first guy she ever kissed and the only thing that went wrong is they raised a /tttt/ user
>>44586460Better or worse than raising a reddithon?
>>44584565im 28 and still never been on an actual date :(
>>44584590>>44585216>>44586305>>44586401Thanks Nonas. I'll be saying yes to him when he asks now, I think.
>>44586918good for you, i'm happy for ya :) are you gonna want the full wedding experience? wedding lite? or courthouse express lol. we didn't wanna make a big deal out of it so we're going to the courthouse when we get married, but still will wear some dresses but nothing gaudy
>>44586979I definitely want the full wedding experience, minus the having it at a church thing obviously. Big motivation for FFS was so that I could look pretty in a wedding dress (I already passed before FFS)
reading about the lives of stealthoids is so depressing
>>44587160one day xister...
>>44587168i'm way older than you, it's not going to happen
>>44587178how old?
>>44587160Why?
>>44587148Getting ffs so I'm happy for wedding photos makes me want ffs more than any other reason I've thought of after tibs I think I will try for it
>>4458718935>>44587217because i'll always look like a man
>>44587232>tibsWhat's that?
>>44584485it just means you're not a whorewhich IS weird, but in a good way
>>44584485most cis women would say you're making a mistake because most cis women have the liberty to pick and choose. you are 30 so even if you were cis, time's already up
>>44587253Lots of women find a partner at 35 or older, Nona.
>>44584485The first guy you dated? VeryThe guy you're dating at 30 when you've been together for 4 years and were friends before then? Not one bitA guy who knows you're trans and can never give birth but wants to be with you anyway? Anon, why are you thinking about throwing all of this away on a presumption that somewhere out there is a man who will make you somewhat happier? Is there some way your bf is lacking?
>>44587645Ribs i mistyped
>>44589571Can something actually be done about ribs, though?
>>44584485Some get lucky, most don't.Everyone was sure they were the exception until they weren't.So sure, you can go for it, but temper your expectations. Being blindsided will make things x20 worse.
>>44590457It's not like I'm going to say no to him. I just want to know whether normal people are gonna judge us for it.
>>44590434Bump
>>44590434Yeah leif rogers goes up to rib 3 rn and is working on 2 i had my consult im working on insurance stuff rn so I can get it
>>44590916Who gives a shit?
>>445940813 as in they move them or 3 as in they remove them?
