>18 trans girl>download grindr bc i need to find people who are ok with my identity>assumed it was a normal lgbt dating app.>99% of ppl on there are not only perverted but also fat>right before deleting it, receive a message from a tall blonde guy around my age>add him on snap and talk for a while>he wants to do things to me but is hesitant bc of his gf>he wont stop bringing up how he wants to take my virginity>fast forward to the first day of college>sit down in class and he walks in>heart stops>try to walk next to him for as long as possible until i cant anymore without ending up too far from my next class, hoping hell notice mehes blocked and added me back three times since we met on grindr. i guess hes really scared of ppl discovering his sexuality but is still interested. im hesitant tho because a lot of the other girls in class are prettier than me in comparison, and id look like an idiot for even thinking i had a chance. i also feel bad bc of his gf, but i can get past it, i think.
>>44598992do you just want to get fucked or?
>>44598992Play hard to get right now, Anne Boleyn style. Guys like that go after MTFs because they think they're easy. Remind him you're a woman and he should be the one chasing you. Treating you like a guilty pleasure is intolerable manchild behavior.
>>44599324>Remind him you're a woman and he should be the one chasing youor, you know, she could just act like a normal human being
>>44599339So cut him off completely? There's no reality where sitting around being the "usable tranny" is the right choice.
>>44599108i want to love.
>he wants to do things to me but is hesitant bc of his gfwhat makes you think he wont cheat on you if you end up getting with him?
>>44598992Also so ugly and fat
>>44599510hes on grindr why are you comparing yourself to other girls? he wants your gock
>>44598992you deserve better than someone who is ashamed of you. men are a dime a dozen and if you connected with him in an evening you can do the same again with a better man who is proud to be seen with you.
>>44599510a guy looking to cheat on his girlfriend (probably already has with having grindr installed), who keeps pussying out and blocking you, will not get into a long term relationship with you
at most you could be in a fwb/sneaky link sort of situation with him but a man who's going on grindr to cheat on his gf and clearly does not want to be associated with you irl is not going to love youthe biggest mistake you made was going on grindr to find love grindr is a hookup appyou should try a normal dating app like tinder or hinge which are honestly way worse than grindr imo but will at least give you some options of people who are looking for something serioushonestly though you would probably have more fun/get experience out of trying something with the blonde guy will prob break your heart but you will also grow as a person
>>44599324I agree with this. Show some self respect, troons.
