can you ask a trans girl if she uses her penis? or do you just have to find out firsthand for each individual trans girl you get intimate with? what would be the most normal way to ask how she would like her penis to be treated during sex (like if touching it is good at all or if she'd rather it be ignored completely)?
>>44599669assume she doesn't want it unless she explicitly says otherwise
>>44599669It's normal to ask about it if you are flirting or in any stage of becoming intimate, as long as you are not weird about it and can accept if she doesn't want it used in any way.t. t4t transbian
>>44599669ask if bottom or top its not that hard anon..if pursuing a deeper relationship, dysphoria will come up anyway.
if having or planing to have intercouse, ask her if she's dysphoric about it, I'm sure she would appreciate you being cautious about it and wanting her to be comfortable.
