her mental breakdowns are ruining my physical and mental health
>>44604696Don't?Not tranny specific advice. Don't date anybody who puts their shit on their partner.
this is why its important to first be in a position where relationships are possible before rushing into them.
>>44604729speaking about the tranny here and of people with mental problems generally and also autists
break up
>>44604722>>44604760i love her though
>>44604696what happens when she has a mental breakdown if you don't mind me asking? i've been on both sides of this dynamic so i may be able to help.
>>44604852Textbook codependencyI've honestly never seen a codependent relationship turn into a healthy one. You both have stuff to work out and you probably won't be able to achieve that as long as you are together.
>>44604921the only problem in my life is her physical/mental health problems. if they went away just a bit i'd be so much better off
>>44604869uncontrollable sobbing, thrashing around, screaming about how much life sucks.
>>44604945Yes but you also picked up a partner who is bad for your health and you're not ready to walk away from her. Fixer behavior is not healthy either. Is she doing work on her issues? I.e. therapy with real goals and progress?
You were told getting a tranny was a big responsibility!Seriously speaking you really do need to put yourself first. You can kill yourself if you think sacrificing yourself will impress them enough to match your efforts.
>>44604966She is a mental infant throwing a temper tantrum. She is at the emotional maturity level of crying it out in a crib. She is not partner material and may not be until multiple decades of therapy and growing up on her own. There is a 99% chance she develops BPD and a diaper fetish with 5 years of this being untreated.
>>44604696how is her living situation, is she going to therapy?
>>44604978This, basically. OP probably got into this relationship out of some misguided sense of altruism.>>44604696She'll never give you a good opportunity to leave; if she senses you getting distant, her mental health is just gonna get worse. You'll have to warn anyone that'll be affected, try to let her down easy, and then run and block. If you keep trying to be her friend post-relationship she's not going to make it possible.Or you can stay in that relationship. You made your bed, you might as well sleep with it.
>>44604696I ended up marrying mine and she got better
>>44605644I worked on mine for 10 years and she never got better. I was enabling her the entire time.
>>44604966>>44605682corrective rape whenever she starts crying or being mean to herself
>>44604696What are you?
>>44605682Yea imo the enabling is the worst part. Like the best thing you can do to fix her is to stop trying to fix her and leave.
