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>Be noticeably underweight
>Never eat in front of him
>Wont finish any meal, give the rest to him
>Boyfriend loves it
>Calls me tiny boy
>Picks me up constantly
>"You're so light, I can lift you so easily"
>"Adorable tiny boy"
>He's a gym bro, legit gives me diet tips
>Size difference fetish
>Dating 3 months
>Eventually have unrelated heart to heart
>He shares deeply personal problem
>He feels vulnerable
>Try to break the tension
>Decide to confide in him
>"I'm anorexic"
>Doesn't say anything
>He's uncomfortable
>"That's really serious"
>"I need space"
>Not talking atm
>Feel like shit
>Probably gonna be single now

>Be an adult man who fits in a women's small
>WTF did you think was going on???
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what’s your height and weight
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Date another anorexic. Like me.
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You broke the fantasy dumbass

You don’t wear makeup
You don’t dye hair
You don’t diet
You dont even wear deodorant, sweating is for uggos

You’re just naturally beautiful anything less is disgusting trash to men
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>>44608747
grim
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>>44608729
5"8
120

Not skinny enough for him to be this dramatic. Gained ten pounds over the summer to hide bony man face but now planning on losing it again, cause at least making Foids seethe will be comforting
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>>44608785
im your height and 114lbs 120 isnt that bad, my parents dont even really care but they banned me from drinking fat free milk
im not anorexic either just too depressed and lethargic to eat most of the time
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>>44608785
BUILT FOR SUNDRESSES
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>>44608785
idk 5'8 110 seems pretty normal for a gay boy like you.
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>>44608717
it's your fault for assuming anyone would notice, stop begging for attention faggot
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>>44608717
You should eat and do cardio anon, some fat is healthy and it makes you cuter.
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>>44608717
>>He's uncomfortable
>>"That's really serious"
>>"I need space"
Why is this hypocrisy and not
>I am freaking out because I just discovered something i really like about my partner is actually a symptom of illness and doing a lot of harm to them
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Yeah sometimes admitting a health problem is going to "give your partner the ick". It is sad, and more common than we would like to admit. Men are more likely to abandon ship if they fear they might have to take a caregiver role.
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>>44608717
My interpretation of it is that when you confide in someone with an issue like this, there is almost an unspoken "I expect you to help me". And yes, if you two are in any way serious, he absolutely should if he's not a complete cunt. But it's still a lot of responsibility to put on someone, especially someone who was already burdened by something as you mentioned, so I kinda get his reaction as well.
Further, you say that he liked you being small, so now it's quite possible he feels guilty for implicitly encouraging and feeding (heh) your eating disorder.
Just fucking talk to him man
>>44608785
That's kind of borderline where it starts to get concerning



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