Just got a pair of quite beautiful but out there 80s Dior glasses, haven’t worn glasses in a while because my eyesight wasn't ever severe enough to spend the money. but now that I am in a better place financially, I spent the money on a pair that I really wanted, and now I am getting hit on by men regularly. almost every day, even at work where I'm not even putting much effort into how I look because, well its work and I'm gonna look ugly in an oversized t shirt and dress trousers either way. It has even had the effect of women hitting on me too, again, at work?!! I dont exactly know what it is about these glasses but they are rounded and maybe I just seem more approachable now? maybe it hides my male skull better? who knows. I did also cut my bangs quite short at the same time so I guess I look like an art hoe type girl too.Is looksmaxxing genuinely just cutemaxxing till you just look like an approachable bright eyed outgoing weird girl lolI dont think I look especially better with them on, honestly think I look even weirder with them on because of how ridiculous they are ?It does make me feel like i am able to interact with people irl better so maybe its the new strat? sorry for the tangent i am just crazyee
>>44610081you probably just have a face and aesthetic that’s complimented by glasses. i can say glasses make me look worse
>>44610112This may be true. does not stop my mental retardation in conversation from slipping out however. but it is getting me out of my shell. its like a mask I get to wear.
>>44610081Is it ableist to wear glasses when no need?
