Well I'm not chasing girls around, I haven't been with many women either and the few that I've dated made the first move.

>>44611848
this feeling of guilt you're experiencing is mostly solved by t4t transbianism (the one true path)
if that's not your thing then maybe therapy will help you get over your internalized phobias

>>44611862
I don't date anyone but I still feel guilty about my sexuality, like I'm fetishizing lesbians.
>>44611867
therapy doesn't help cis therapists see your desire to be a woman as a mental illness to be overcome.

>>44611848
I dated a no-hrt theyfab for a couple months before going I started hrt and she/they were very validating. but she did want me to do piv like on the 2nd date which was whatever but I know some trans girls don't like that. just put yourself out there but I'd definitely try and start with somebody who at least isn't cis just so you can get confidence in yourself sexually

>>44611881
>like I'm fetishizing lesbians
For me it was an acquired taste, so it's not like I'm actively thinking about fucking women, actually it is the opposite, even after having had sex I still can't get used to the thought, even worse now that my libido is gone, but even back then it was difficult to get off.

Now, I came to believe that liking the feminine is hard wired into humans, when it awakened on me it didn't feel like perversion more like a natural feeling.

>>44611884
>nonhrt theyfab
>somebody who at least isn't cis
that's literally a cis woman
>she/they were very validating
>she did want me to do piv on the 2nd date
that's not validating at all that's making you play the role of a man

>>44611924
yeah you're right you were there for all the dates and hangouts so you know more than I do obv

>>44611994
is there any act more male than putting your penis inside a woman's vagina?

>>44612016
Wew, so transphobic

>>44612016
sounds gay
sinking cold brews with the boys and fucking twinks in the ass is as male as it gets