guys I've thought I was straight all my life, but its becoming very clear that I have very strong sexual urges for guys, and i don't know how to feel about it. Like I love the idea of a woman being my partner but I don't ever feel horny when texting girls, or talking to them. What the fuq man. what the fuck do I do I feel so confused. What if I take it up the butt and i don't like it!?
>>44611930also I don't have a problem with being gay or bi, or whatever its just that the sexual urges are so fucking strong that it makes me into a total whore for men, and I hate that part of me because I've never been like that. I don't even like watching gay porn because it kinda grosses me out but in real life i get really horny for guys its stupid. SO STUPIIID ITS FRUSTRATES ME
>>44611930Try a toy and see how you feel.
>woman stares at me>>eh, she's cute>man glances at me>*get really nervous and drop all my spaghetti*If I weren't deathly aftaid of them I am afraid I would have been a huge slut for them, it's the only thing my mother taught me, men are dangerous, but damn they are hot.
>>44611954I get the part of men being really hot, but I also sort of feel attraction for women its just different and not as "primal" idk dude i'm fucking weird, and I hate it. Now I get why dudes act all thirsty for chicks sometimes they just can't control themselves, just like I can't control myself around men.
>>44611930Congrats! I hear being straight is pretty rough these days, so welcome to "easy" mode. Anal is pretty great but you dont HAVE to like it, in fact you'll have an easier time dating if you dont. From my experience it works like this:You'll like anal if you like the idea of getting fucked in general, especially if you're submissive and want to be used to make your partner feel better. That is the motivation to get good at anal, and once you do it feels good because its good. If you dont have the motivation to get throat fucked you probably will never like anal, and thats okay because...MOST guys are more bottoms than tops. If you're masculine and a top (and especially if you're white) you are S+ tier in the gay dating game and can pull pretty much anyone. The only challenge is avoiding BPD manwhores and aids, but most guys hook up on tinder these days so you'll get a lot of "sex on the first date" situations. Worst case scenario you might date a vers bottom who wants to fuck you like once every few months or so, but its really not that big of a deal
>>44612092Will guys talk shit to me if I don't want to put out right away? Like I get I have these urges but I'd rather control myself and get to know them better. What is that like on Tinder?
>>44612138>Will guys talk shit to me if I don't want to put out right away?Maybe, but who cares? The power dynamic here is the complete opposite of what you're used to - THEY want your dick, and YOU gatekeep that. They can bitch and moan all they want, but you can afford to wait for someone better and they're the ones missing out. You set the bar based on what you can pull. If they cant pull you then tough shit for them. >Like I get I have these urges but I'd rather control myself and get to know them better. What is that like on Tinder?I dont know because i fuck on the first date and ive personally never used tinder. Im shy and lucky that guys i already liked have hit on me. Dating apps are always shit so you'll have to do a lot of swiping no matter what, but thats just life.
