for the rare happy person here, how do you find a partner you can be your absolute true self around?especially if you have a bunch of shit that limits your options (like being asexual, on estrogen, short, mildly androgynous, etc.)?or for the lonely people, what have you tried that doesn't work? feel free to complain too ig.
1. Accept yourself fully.2. Accept any potential or current partner fully.Not an exhaustive list tho.
Hmm, well I can't say that I found the perfect partner as this "relationship" is weird as fuck and no one knows how to describe it. We aren't perfectly fine all the time, actually we discuss a lot but we always go back to normal and I think that's the "secret", enduring abuse and staying where you feel like shit for those sporadic moments of happiness.I am unsure if it's worth it, this worked for me because I am used to being mistreated.
>>44612043As a lonely person I tried this and it didn't work, it's just the best you can do.
if you like ops comics you should rope fuck zedkat
>>44612212why whatd she do???? :(
>>44612014Honestly found someone who is my best friend. I really do feel I can be my true self around them and he is my favourite person in the whole world. We met in university so I suppose I would say that meeting people while going for your own goals is the best way to do it. We weren't looking for a relationship but really hit it off as friends and then it developed from there.
