lowkey starting to wonder if my ex was right about me, that i was obsessed with them. that there is something wrong with me for it. we’ve been broken up for 9 months, one month in they filed a restraining order because i kept reaching out but they had texted me to test if i had blocked them the day after they filed. i just can’t let go. i have a best friend babytran who would gladly give me the world and has wanted me for months, but i can’t let go of my ex to be with her.i can’t shake the idea that someday they’ll come back… that if i write enough unset letters on my socials they’ll see one and cave… we’ve broken up for a year before and gotten back together, it wouldn’t necessarily be out of the question… i know im just delusional but i can’t drop it. i loved them so much and ofc took them for granted and let things fall apart. i miss them every day.i don’t know what’s wrong with me. on paper they sucked, very cruel and controlling, aggressive, lazy… not the most conventionally attractive… but i just can’t let go. holy fuck i’m such a chud
>>44620065>they filed a restraining order because i kept reaching outlarpYou don't get a restraining order for it,
>>44620097i didn’t contest it so it was granted, not sure what you are on about.
>>44620189A judge needs a reason to grant the restraining order. Reaching out to someone continuously, isn't a valid reason for a restraining order. Either you're larping, or they lied to you about having a restraining order against you.
>>44620374Women regularly gets restraining orders because an ugly guy gave her the 'ick
>>44620374>Reaching out to someone continuously, isn't a valid reason for a restraining order.uhhh yeah it can be watch thisher: "JUDGE, this man is stalking me, we're no longer dating and I told him I don't want to have anything to do with my ex any more, but he JUST wont stop contacting me. He repeatedly tries to call my phone and shows up in front of my workplace and he's even called friends of mine to ask about how i'm doing and possibly track my movements. I'm worried he's stalking me, can you do something about him?"Literally all a woman has to do is embellish the story with believable sounding shit that adds to the story that he's stalking her. If he didn't challenge it then it seems even more likely
>>44620065>i can’t shake the idea that someday they’ll come back...I went through the same thing. There's a very small chance they could come back, but if you're anything like me, one day, this belief will become a demon you'll have to slay. It took me many years to feel like I'm finally over my Doro.
>>44621130That's a lie. >>44621289Lie. Please stop reading incel fan fiction. It's rotting your mind. t. relative of several divorce attorneys. Getting a restraining order needs proof and has a high threshold.
>>44621548i wish i was amerikkkan
>>44621548>Lie.>Please stop reading incel fan fiction. It's rotting your mind.You can literally just google this, you're retarded or really thinking the judge is going to apply this high standard to every situation, its the opposite
>>44621703Sworn testimony. About you being in danger of getting hurt by another person. Not about you getting the ick. Or about you getting called over and over. You're such a Chud, that you can't even interpret things without the Chud point of view.
>Restraining orderWhatever happened to cause this, it was cooked as soon as it did. Sorry.>babytran wants me insteadNot worth it, even if theyre cute.>Maybe they'll come backThe only way this could have happened is if you had *not* written unsent letters or done whatever else to show you were still interested.>They were cruel, controlling, aggressive, lazyYou were in an abusive relationship which was exacerbated by the one year apart and you now see whats going on now as a continuation of that relationship.
>>44621753Women LITERALLY fear for their life whenever they are alone with ugly guy, chud
>>44622183That doesn't mean the judge will agree and issue a restraining order. You're a special kind of stupid.
>>44620065this is probably bad advice tbdesu but i'd keep holding out love is precious
>>44622597most judges these days are women so yes they will
