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>thinks he might be trans
How the fuck did you just now find out? Are you sure your gf isn't just grooming you?

>>44648758
lets say i had a "trans phase" before i met her that lasted like 1,5 years (she knows about this)

i chalked it up mental health issues and not having a life and being online way too much i managed to "get out of it" and i kinda tuned into a chud trying to become more masculine

now i think the "phase" is back

it just hit me at one point

talk to her about it
please don't "ease her into it" i'm assuming she's a human not a dog

honestly just ask indirect questions like would she like to be in a relationship with a trans women or would she still like you if you were trans etc stuff, and it all just depends on u, does ur identity or gender expression is more important than ur current relationship or nah

>>44648844
>honestly just ask indirect questions like would she like to be in a relationship with a trans women or would she still like you if you were trans
that's not really indirect

>>44648837
This: she is an adult have a direct conversation.

>>44648711
If she turns out not to like you being trans, leave and find a girlfriend who isn't evil. Repressing doesn't work forever and will only make you miserable later.

If she is cool, stay and there is no problem!

Whatever happens, it will be best for both do you in the long run.

>>44648837
shes kinda a puppygirl

>>44648711
>should i knock her up and start hrt after?
You could always sperm bank before starting hrt if that's something you're concerned about and if you have the money to spare
>>44648789
>lets say i had a "trans phase" before i met her that lasted like 1,5 years (she knows about this)
How did she react to finding out about that? If she had a notable reaction to that it seems like that would be a pretty good indicator about how she'd feel about you being trans.
Also, is she bi herself? Seems like she'd be more likely to be ok with it if that's the case
Either way if its something you're serious about you should probably just talk to her about it.

just tell her right away and let things work themselves out. if the both of you want to make it work, it will work. trust the process

>>44648711
>>shes really into crossdressers and androgynous bi men
>>she wants kids
yikes

>>44648711
Repressing never works forever

Since she has a crossdressing fetish, she may or may not be outwardly supportive of you being trans, but she will definitely weird about it and push you towards her tastes

Also, don't have kids just because she wants them. I feel like that's really something you have to want yourself

>>44648919
shes not bi, and from what i can tell trans women are "too much" women for her

also she didnt really had a dramatic reaction when i told her about my "phase" as a matter of fact i cant even really remember it fully, she kind of just shrugged it off, we still talk about it casually from time to time

she might have said something along the lines of it being "too much" for her, but to be honest i dont really feel that its a definite no

i mean im sitting here typing this in a sports bra and woman briefs she gave me to wear this morning

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>>44648711

Why not just be an androgynous bi guy and crossdress in the bedroom?

>>44648964
I think about having kids on and off, i met her around the very end of my "phase" and i was generally in favor of it, we even had a pregnancy scare and i was like "ok thats it its time for this"

then it ended up being just a scare

at my repressing phase (which is kinda ending now) i was like hell no it would feel like prison

now that this thing is on the plate again i kinda feel im getting more open to it again

>>44649025
Why not shut the fuck up and stop grooming trans girls into pretending to be guys for longer?

>>44649040
why don't you shut the fuck up and stop trying to groom people into irreversible decisions without the proper considerations of all options. It's a big problem on this board where people can only feel validated in their identity if they try to force others to be exactly like them. the culture of 'cracking eggs' is fucking cancer.

>>44649027
If that's the case, I would say to come out to her and start transitioning first, before anything kid-related. You don't want to have a baby while you're early in transition and your wife is realizing she isn't attracted to you.
You need time to transition, and time to see if this girl is properly supportive and that this relationship is stable

>>44648789
Dude you're either a woman or you're not, what the fuck are you doing?
"Trans phase"
WTF
>I became a masculine chud
Good, that's the right way to be

>>44649067
OP already said what they are, groomer. You are the one trying to change them. Fuck off.