Womanmoders, do you use the women's restroom? Are people okay with it or have you gotten shit for it?
Use the women's room. No one has ever said anything or misgendered me or caused a fuss.
>>44675276I meant *I* use it sorry
>>44675280all good nona
Not yet, been stared at. No ones attacked me yet
>>44675299Do you consider yourself a hon or juzt clocky?
>>44675308Im a beautiful non passing trans woman. Its very dangerous
>>44675317I see
>>44675268Nothing happened
>>44675268I’m 21. I was 19 when i started. I started being identifiably a woman relatively quickly, so i felt I should start using the women’s bathroom.Like 11 months on HRT i got an xray at a hospital. On my way out, I used the women’s bathroom. As I was leaving the women’s bathroom, an old man entered the bathroom. He looked at me and asked “why are you in here? Did they lock the women’s bathroom?” I said “This is the women’s bathroom” and he said “Oh oops”. It’s crazy that only 10.5 months in i was passing so well that that literally happened. I have since not used the men’s bathroom unless the women’s room is far away and I am lazy out of reasoning that i’ll probably cause societal confusion like with that guy.
>>44675326I would assume i’m a clocky sub5 trans woman, attached is a more recent photo of me. Maybe the old man was just nearly blind and only saw my long hair and heard my feminine voice, evidenced by how he entered the wrong bathroom.
>>44675268yes i use the women's, nobody ever said anything. i was insecure at first but people started freaking out about me using the mens so i had no choice
>>44675386What was happening in the men's?
>>44675354cant tell if ur clockable or im brainwormed but I've definitely seen women like this ig
>>44675268i have never been bothered in there but im very selective about using the restroom in public. Usually i do not use public restrooms unless o have to..
>>44675268>gotten shit for itjust pass, it's not difficult
>>44675438Some people are natural born ogrehons
>>44675268I've been full time for 20 years, never had one incident in the women's restroom.
>>44675481>>44675431>>44675386>>44675276The real question is whether you passed or women are just polite enough to tolerate you in their space.
>>44675516Probably a mixture. I don't think I fully pass, but I look at the floor to avoid eye contact and so I think I'm ignored most of the time. I'm sure if I went to crowded bars with long lines I would get some shit.
only to poop
>>44675538Why....?
>>44675516Most people clock trannys and carry on with their day
>>44675354no you pass
>>44675404men would get confused and think they had gone into the women's by mistake, so they would apologise and leave>>44675516i have gotten myself into enough bad situations by assuming that i don't pass, that it has become obvious that i actually do. I have klinefelters, 7 yrs hrt and post ffs/vfs, so really it should be obvious that I do pass at this point but still i was retarded and brainwormed for too long
it's just in and out for me. i try not to make eye contact, don't say a word and leave asap. even if something was to go awry for whatever reason i'd already be out of the bathroom by then. t. i'd get asked why i'm in the mens bathroom pretransition
>>44677001giwtwm
i frequently get into convos in club bathroomsone time some foid psycho-analysed me for having 10million sh scars, havent been clocked anywhere in like 5 years
>>44675268The only person that's given me shit was some boomer in a Wendy's and the women defended me. It was very dumb because it was a one-seater.
>>44675268Live in the UK and it still isnt an issue.
>>44675268Live in the UK and I dont leave my house so it isn't an issue
>>44676976>>44677001I've had men literally walk out and check the sign and a little kid stared at me intently and wouldn't use the urinal until i was leaving... i'm pre hrt!!!
>>44675268once years ago while travelling through blood red Nebraska, i was forcibly told by an attendant at a gas station that the woman's room was the other way, and I mumbled "oh sorry" and have been using the women's room since. i've never been stared at or confronted, whether in line or not. before that, i had a father and his child come in the men's room, see me, start to say, "oh god, i'm sorry, i thought this was-" and i cut him off to say it was. he didnt say anything else, and my family called me retarded in so many words for not just using the women's.t. 6 years hrt mtf
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njZRXRLnV_s>"Do you think I feel unsafe with you here? I feel unsafe in a country full of narcos, murderers, kidnappers, and rapists, not with a trans woman like you.">"You look masculine, sure, but just by looking at you, I know you’re an ally. I keep my thoughts about trans people to myself, but I understand, so don’t feel bad; it’s fine.">t. a stranger from Monterrey
>>44675591Probably because men's pee will be all over the toilet seats since we don't sit to pee. Even if it's dry, you know pee has hit that seat.t. knower
>>44675268Yes, since 2021 (after ffs).Never gotten shit for it. Also use women's locker rooms since I had SRS.Never gotten shit for it the other way either, just a few surprise stares and a "sorry" from guys who thought they were in the wrong room.
>>44680236who the fuck stands up to pee in the women's
>>44675268I don't use ANY public bathrooms for my own safety.
>>44681466Rapehons
>>44675268>Womanmoders, do you use the women's restroom?i use the woman's room because i am not walking across my entire chem department to use the only gender-neutral bathrooms. I will not use locker rooms though, i'd rather change at home or in a gender-neutral bathroom than use a women's or men's locker room.Granted, I basically used women's rooms ever since a guy at costco told me I was in the wrong bathroom while I was boymoding.> Are people okay with it or have you gotten shit for it?I have never gotten shit for it, and people are suprised when i told them i'm a tranny. I can't assume I no longer pass anymore.>boymoding (with parents or where my legal identity is known)Men's room always, when im boymoding i'm typically depressed and let myself go so I pass as male-ish. I can stand and pee in men's rooms which I rarely do now, mostly cause I hate cleaning piss that's gotten all over my toilet.
>>44681466i do if it's really gross.
>>44683736good point
