whats the cope for not getting to be a mother? i gaslight myself into thinking i have a uterus and worry about settling down with a husband before i turn 35. every time i see media with children in it i get really sad. i even had a dream where i had a kid...
>>44676022I simply live with the pain. It's mostly okay, but it gets a lot worse when my parents say shit like:>Oh yeah anon is so great with kids.>Anon all your nieces and nephews love you.>Anon, they said you're their favorite uncle! (I'm a repper so 'uncle' makes this one double hurt)>Anon, why don't you have any kids yet?>Hey anon, remember when you were little and you always said you wanted to have ten kids?Yeah bitch I remember, too bad I ended up in the wrong body to ever be a mom like I wanted.
>>44676022i just avoid how much it bothers me just like everything else
>>44676022I cope by thinking that I would be a terrible mother so its better that I can't be.
id be a terrible mother and theres enough miserable trannys that want a surrogate mother to dote on that it only hurts a little bit. also the worlds pretty scary rn i dont want to bring a child into that.
>>44676022Is that the baby she lost after getting vaxxed or did she get knocked up again?
>>44676022disclaimer: I'm aware my experiences aren't the only ones.what is it with some transfems and wanting to be a mom? it's cute I get it, but doesn't seem all that.
>>44676302Same reasons cis women want to be moms? For a lot of people it's this nurturing, maternal instinct that's hard to really express. Have you ever wanted to take care of something?
>>44676022>Came out at 28>hormones 31>become a mom 32>35 now, struggling a lot because life is really hard right now but how can I not be happy when I pick up my daughter after work and hear "mommy's here!!!!!"Remember to bank sperm girls and marry a bi/pan woman that dates trannies
>>44676022>KHAZAR MILKERS
>>44676156when has the world ever not been scary? think of the height of WWII--the world seemed to be falling apart, but if you were born during that time in America, you got to experience the subsequent boom.
>>44676022Just adopt, gee wiz.
>>44676108>having a child as a transbian, siring with your defining male gametes>plapping the cunt of a woman and spawning someone who will have a "transmother"yeeee hheeeeeeeee IKES, DAWG
>>44676022i just hope me and my pooner husband get well off enough to have biokids one day and hope i dont have to go gary plauche on a nigga.
>>44676302i used to not care until i started estrogen. then as ive gotten a little older, i started thinking about it a lot more and now i have baby fever. whenever i see kids and parents i get sad>>44677920disgusting, i would rather kms than be a father>>44678298its not easy. there are waiting lists etc. its very expensive in America. also some countries, trannies cant adopt>>44676108cant be worse than my mother lol. i know that i would be very coddling
>>44676022sorry i'm vain and selfish and if i were a cis woman, i wouldn't want to literally lose teeth and control over my bowels in exchange for bringing into this world a depressed anxious (they're genetic) kid that has to suffer through existence in a world that's dangerous and cruel. I would like to adopt someday, maybe. But there's a reason I didn't bother saving my sperm or whatever before cutting my testicles off
your children would probably piss in the drawer
>>44678345I hate seeing mothers in public.They all have like 5 maximum teeth and they're just... shitting themselves... they smell and look like shit!Mothers are horrible!! There's so many gaptoothed poopsharters in public!!!
>>44678382lol ok. Have you literally never heard of the very common complications that happen postpartum? maybe it's not talked about, but shoving a 5-10lbs sack of flesh through your body isnt something that everybody snaps back from like normal
>>44676022I don't need to cope. Just feel the sadness wash over me, cry, let my mind break for a bit, maybe cut if I need to. It is what it is. I'll make it through the suffering and then it stays off me for a while.There is no fix, so there is nothing to be done.Talking with an infertile cis woman friend about her feelings did help both of us though, but whenever I say that a TERF pops out of nowhere to get pissed off at me for comparing my situation to the tragedy of an infertile cis woman.But hay my friend benefited, I benefited, we grew closer as friends, TERFs can spend their time being angry about that for all I care.
>>44678315>some countries trannies can't adoptI will vote for you.
>>44677920> Remember to bank sperm girls and marry a bi/pan woman that dates tranniesI'm glad it worked out for you, but that doesn't work for me. I would rather never, not ever, let my sperm exist. I am not impregnating someone else. Zero chance, not happening, nope.
>>44678298> Just be on a wait list forever, what's so hard about that?Do you enjoy making an ass of yourself?
>>44678493Do you enjoy being bitter?
>>44678315>>44678461I find it utterly bizarre to look at it like thatI hope some of you find peace when it becomes normalized to use skin or other cells to impregnate an egg.
>>44676302Never imagined I'd ever have the chance to raise kids, but now I understand why some people want them, they are so cute and you never get bored, and they learn from you, then they make up their own words and tell you about their little life.
>>44679558what is utterly bizarre? you are fathering a child, you are genetically contributing as a male. whether you are fine with it or not is a different thingalso, what is being investigated is the creation of gametes, sperm or eggs, using other cells
>>44679863I just see it as providing genetic material I really dont get too hung up about it>fatheringIts really hard to sell me on language like this when I was already on hormones before she was born and she has only known me as mom (momma to be exactly my wife is mommy)
>>44680520Yeah, that's cool, I am not judging you.But the idea of a different woman having to go through the process of getting a fetus that I just contributed genetic material to makes me.... Really fucking uncomfortable.
>>44676022tulpamaney, unironically, being tulpa pregnant helped me a lot.
>>44676022>worry about settling down with a husband before i turn 35kike media REALLY have women thinking they can be mid thirties and thats the time to settle down when it should be 25 at mostAnd they wonder why so many couples have fertility issues and autism rates are up
>>44676022help raise your siblings' kids so there will still be people who love you when you get old
>>44678415Why wouldn't it have costs?You're just a vain faggot anyway coping with sour grapes
>>44676052This hits hard cuz I also wanted 10 kids :c
>>44684781It's funny that it was always specifically ten kids. No idea why I settled on that so hard.
>>44676022cringe schizo shit. get over it. don't talk about it with people in real life.
>>44676022Heroine is a great cope to numb unfathomable pain
>>44685033If you work quickly, you can capture and plap 10 women, chain them up, and await 10 babies all at once!!
