kill yourself

is she your parents' girlfriend? why does she care if they know? why do you care?

>>44679791
thanks for your consolation words, anon, i really appreciate this.
>>44679794
>why do you care?
Because I depend on them to have a roof over my head and food on my table.

>>44679755
they'll think you're gay, probably best to dump her for a cis girl to avoid them thinking that forever

>>44679957
I'll not do that

>>44679755
idgi r u hiding her or just pretending she's cis

>>44679995
i am hiding her. she has a nice crate in my closet that she has to sleep in. she's a little annoyed that she has to be quiet all the time but my parents can't find out about her.

>>44679755
if your parents aren't performatively progressive or liberal then i wouldn't chance it unless you want to live in shame or get kicked out of the house

>>44680007
lol thats like a comedy movie plot haha guy hides tranny gf in his room in his parents house pfft lmfao this is gold i love it

>>44679815
step one: since you're an adult, stop relying on your parents. and take her out of that fucking crate!

>>44679995
hiding her, but for now.

>>44679815
You really need to man up and get a job

my parents failed to give me a decent upbringing where I could've had a cis gf at least once.
that bit of spite made it easy as hell, shit was so cash

>>44680349
how is not having a girlfriend your parents' fault?
seriously, what could they have possibly done that makes you attribute your failure to them

>>44680334
>You really need to man up and get a job
I'm in college.

>>44680404
AND? what the hell is going on with the next generation? do you mofos not have jobs in college?

>>44680422
>AND? what the hell is going on with the next generation? do you mofos not have jobs in college?
I'm trying to tutor elementary school students to earn some income, but I haven't been able to yet..

>>44680385
>seriously, what could they have possibly done that makes you attribute your failure to them
- divorce
- dad doesn't pay child support for some reason
- get moved to new school literally every year
- get blamed for every inconvenience in life because of their internalized regret

inb4 saying I could've built myself self-esteem through sheer effort, i've heard it before

>>44680565
all that stuff happened to me plus my dad fucked off to south america and then my mother kicked me out of her apartment when I was 17. I still don't get what that has to do with getting a girlfriend though, that seems totally unrelated

>>44680334
fuck you

>>44679815
Just explain that your parents will react violently if they figure out you're dating a trans girl. I'm in a similar situation except my dad will probably have a really bad reaction if he finds out that i'm a pooner and my " best friend" is actually my gf of 5 years.

>>44679755
If they've seen her picture, they already know.
If they haven't then show them her picture, and wait for them to bring it up.

>>44680007
>she has a nice crate in my closet that she has to sleep in.
what?
Is that for sleep overs or she actually lives with you in a literal closet?

>>44680422
boomer faggot kys

>>44679755
Yeah dude go and destroy your relationship with your family for a tranny that'll definitely work out for you

>>44680726
>fuck you let me be a useless leech
Be one, but know that nobody will feel pity for your bad decisions.

>>44680849
I owe nothing to a life that gave me nothing

Have you noticed how they expect you to upheave your whole life for them? You're barely in college and they want you to provide for them full time. Listen to your instinct and keep things the way they are but you can't fuck things up with the people you literally depend on. Once you get your own shit it's your choice but don't make shit impossible for yourself because some random retard here told you so.

>>44680883
You're getting tuition and living expenses for free.
Is that not enough?

>>44680897
not OP retard
I got all that and still empty handed life is a bad joke

>>44680804
>Yeah dude go and destroy your relationship with your family for a tranny that'll definitely work out for you
I just wish things weren't so complicated.

>>44679755
just be honest with her about why and how you feel about it instead of brushing it off to her like it doesn't matter

>>44684005
>just be honest with her about why and how you feel about it instead of brushing it off to her like it doesn't matter
i already did this, but her don't understand.

>>44686084
I feel bad for her. Not you. I don't feel bad for you, let me make that clear. You're a coward. It's your right to be a coward, and to make the choice you're making, but if you're on here looking for sympathy or advice besides "don't be a coward," you don't deserve it any more than you deserve the gf you have.

I'd say she should leave you but if she's content to date someone that keeps her a secret her self-esteem is too low. Hopefully she'll find her courage faster than you do.


You're no kind of man at all. Thankfully cowards live small dreary lives so the universe will sort you out.