>Fuck the living daylights out of my partner>Correct them and even show up at their house for a hardcore session after getting me jealous>Cater to all their fantasies and even get them a collar and dog bowl>They keep acting out after going too far and will get angry if called out>Insults what they like so doesn't get it anymore, throws fits after actually insulting me just to cause a problem This isn't fun, all they do is complain now and somehow I was supposed to know they only get off with anal. They don't communicate yet want everything not knowing people give it up for way less and would appreciate the absolute railing I give them. Who wants to work 3-5x harder for the same thing? Going that far, do you want to be fucked or not? Not everyone wants to bang the attitude out if it just pops up 24/7 after being ridiculed, mocked and insulted past a certain point. At a level too, some praise for the top in all they do should be praised, like God damn going through the trouble of putting up with all this. Anyone have anything similar to share?
>>44682440just ghost her nona
>>44682440Kink people are so lame omg
Total kinkkike death.
>>44682527It's wild because I started off being fully whole with them sharing everything but they're spoiled rotten now. She's my first trans gf and I've been with her before to now, all she does is care about what she sees online and that's about it
>>44682440a lot of this admittedly seems like fairly standard brat kink territory, but it's also clear your girlfriend hasn't properly communicated how she wants this dynamic to play out, so that much is on her. I can admit myself that resonating with this kink can often come from a place of genuine entitlement. I think that's what's happening here, she gets off on what you provide her and thinks that the dynamic you two have means she doesn't have to consider you in return. I'd be all "just communicate better!" but it seems like you've tried that without much success. sorry this has become such a hassle for you, nonaT. also a brat
>>44682563Kink is fueled by fantasy and novelty. Sadly a common end state. Dog catches car.
>>44682440>>44682563she's being an annoying brat on purpose because she wants to get you angry and give her hardcore raging kinky bdsm pet play sex
>>44682440ANON DELETE THREAD BEFORE THEY CATCH YOU POSTING PONY OUTSIDE OF /MLP/ PLEASE IM BEGGING YOU THEY BANNED ME FOR 3 DAYS FOR AN APPLEJACK PICREL PLEASE
>>44682440anyways real yeah no i dated a girl like that and it genuinely drained the life outta me just give up on them atp
Just hit her
>>44682563yes... i had a trans gf who would rail the shit out of me and i became super ungrateful and bpd so we have eachother blocked now. i think id just stop speaking to her for a few days or tell her i need a break because i dont feel considered. i wish i had been more considerate. a lot of it is also outside stressors, she should be in therapy instead of using kink as her entire coping mechanism
>>44683147mine has bpd too and narcissim but throughout all their splits I've always been there for them, they know no one else put up with their nonsense and the lack of appreciation sometimes will get to you. Maybe I'll suggest therapy again thankyou
>>44682943aW no way really? whots wrong with twilight sparkle she's the best one
>>44682864Yeah everytime I try communication they usually see it as accusatory even when neutral and somewhat trying to be understanding but nope, somehow they became completely spoiled by it. I've had 0 complaints with everyone else I've been with it's just her, she just sees herself first with her narcissim but hoping all brats and tops alike do find a ground just the way they like, without insults, thanky
>>44682563lol she sounds exactly like my cis ex. >>44682864>hasn't properly communicatedyeah nah thats part of being a brat(retarded) they want cnc without ocmmunication lmao, want u to guess. and think a written contract stating that is a turn offlmao NOPE
>>44683931it's interesting you mention that, because bluntly speaking I'm also pretty spoiled and narcissistic just as a person. personally I find channelling that brattiness sexually gives me an outlet and helps me function like a more mature adult the rest of the time. maybe with therapy or something she could learn to process it in the same way? not that I'm saying that makes you obligated to stay with her to do so, this is her problem to solve if she wants healthier relationships
>>44682440The only brats are stupid spoiled children. Find someone to engage in brat roleplay, not an actual retard, you retard.
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For some reason I seem to attract brats and they're the actual worst. I've had brats do very extreme things towards me that would be considered wildly inappropriate if coming from dominants because teehee bottom. Such as randomly hurting me or touching me sexually with no clear indication, refusing to clearly express desires (instead just doing them or expecting me to mind-read about it), telling me directly that they didn't see me as having boundaries worth respecting, repeatedly asking for the same thing until I agreed, and retaliating for not putting out. I know these latter things are infact rape and not just toxic brattiness, but they all go hand in hand at this point because smaller, disrespectful things are red flags of greater, rapier things to come. My current partner is also a brat and she's been a lot less violent towards me than other partners have been, but there's been a few things she's done that give me pause as well.
