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i'm a cis lesbian chaser. how do i humanely find a transbian to date? not in it for her cock, as she'd be getting pegged. is my only option joining discord servers?
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>>44738561
Hey, so what do you actually chase after? Like, why do you specifically want a trans woman?
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>>44738561
Literally just make a post like this and the transbians will fall over themselves to confess their love.
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>>44738561
just get on dating apps they're literally everywhere. put in your profile that you're a top and they will come to you.
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>>44738561
In the extremely rare chance that this isn't a larp, why? What exactly is the appeal?
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>>44738561
mossad D&C thread
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>>44738561
here at c4tgen: >>44735431
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>>44738643
can confirm this is a good place for chasing if you're a lesbian and attracted to trans women
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>>44738561
You're a straight woman.
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>>44738561
>>44738572
I am still curious about your reason for casing; why do you specifically want trans women?
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>>44738561
I'm a mycelium chaser looking for same
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>>44738655
Well, she's likely bi.
That's like the actual female factory default (it's a type of bi/autosexual) but you might get "top" bi females and it turns out very, very, very few lesbians are actual lesbians.

They just ideologically hate most men (unless he's a harmless, nonthreatening boy... weird) and need a "thing" they can use to repel men as an easy "not interested" excuse.
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>>44740578
women don't actually like men at all we just like your wallets. everyone is gynephilic by default. testosterone makes moids ugly so they can provide harder
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I don't want to sound rude but I cannot imagine it's that hard. Most trans women are too scared to make the first move so if you do they'll fall right into the palm of your hand.

Source: Myself

Literally just start talking to one. Start with some light teasing, gauge her reactions. Do a little bit more, build up to flirting with her.

Transwomen are more afraid of you than you are of them, show that you are not a threat and they will melt like butter.
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are you euro
>>44738597
this desu
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>>44741055
>Transwomen
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transgender women are males
females that have sex with males are heterosexual
it is impossible for a cislesbian to have a transgender gf
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Just use the her app it’s so easy
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>>44741070
You forgot the reaction image.

But no, it's true: if you want a trans woman, we will pretty much never make the first move except with other trans women, and usually not even that. Like, the only way to date one of us is to be the one to ask the trans woman out.
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>>44738561
when i saw the OP pic i thought it was a skull not a rabbit
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>>44738561
You should ask this in >>44735431
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>>44740745
brutal
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>>44738617
>What exactly is the appeal?
There's no appeal to trans women except for the fact that they have boobs and cock.
Women will date a clocky trans girl because they can pretend it's their feminine boyfriend, while men will date a possibly more passing trans girl so that they can be pegged or fuck someone with lower standards.
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>>44742258
I would like to hear from the OP.
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I’m a cute cis girl, i rly want trans gf pls drop ur discord or whatevr
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>>44742453
i don't believe you
i'm not falling for a transbian psyop again
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>>44742466
mhm give me a chance
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>>44742474
fine, i feel generous today
hato08153
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>>44742323
i'm not op but i'm a cis lesbian primarily attracted to trans women. we just tend to have more in common, and they are often more purposeful with how they date than cis women. plus they have no problem with just doing what i want to do sexually, which is cool. in my experience they are kinkier than cis women on average.
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>>44742453
i was about to post mine and dream of a second cute cis girl reading thread but it felt too pathetic even for me and im probably too early in transition to be worth it anyway

rooting for u hato & nona xox
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>>44738561
What is it with cis lesbian chasers and rabbits?
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>>44742719
that's how you get cute twinks to follow you to the club according the matrix movie
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>>44741070
Ciswomen
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>>44738561
Your other option is sharing your handle and sliding into my DMs ;)
but also
>>44738561
>>44742453
American or European?
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>>44742453
fuck it. mine is kagaki. if any other cis girls here want a loser euro tgirl why not
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>>44742786
The matrix: a guide to chasing trans women.

Seems about right.
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Go to some raves or concerts like Health . Underground music . Or cosplay/gaming conventions
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>>44741070
>trannies are a type of woman!!
mmm
nah
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>>44743863
I mean... You are welcome not to date us if you feel that way.
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>>44741055
I don't think it's so much that we're afraid. We're just stupid. I've had cis women try to flirt with me before and I only realized it was happening later.
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>>44743966
> I don't think it's so much that we're afraid. We're just stupid.
Ok, I have a bone to pick with this logic: studies show that humans- all humans, even non-autistic humans of all genders are terrible at differentiating flirting from banter. This is because the line between flirting and banter does not exist: one person's flirting is another person's exchanging witty lines for fun.

In fact, people who are "good at picking up on flirting" are just as bad at it. They just tend to make the wrong assumption in the other direction, assuming that chatting is flirting. The difference between the two cohorts seems to be confidence and willingness to risk making the other person uncomfortable.

Trans women and girls, especially sapphic trans women, usually process flirting through a high-bar filter without realizing it. This is true for all lesbians, but especially trans women.

Why?

1. We are often told that lesbians are predatory in nature. This applies to all lesbians.
2. We are constantly told that trans women are predatory, even towards men!
3. We are constantly told that just sharing space with a cis woman makes her feel unsafe. Even if we don't believe that consciously, it still affects us.
4. We are specifically told that lesbian trans women are predatory, even towards other trans women! Again, that stuff gets internalized even if you don't believe it consciously.
5. TERFs and some lesbians regularly tell us that no lesbian would ever date us, and that we are creepy men just for asking.

After all that, the bar to clear for flirting in the moment gets so high, primarily because our brain interprets the risk of hurting someone by asking as overwhelming. Some of us could literally hear, "Wow, you are really attractive, we get along really well, and I would literally like to take you on a romantic date because I am madly attracted to you!" And our brains are just like, "Haha, she is so sweet" or worse, "Why is she mocking me? I am worthless trash".



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