I'm sorry that happened to you anon, that's awful

>>44741459
It's okay I don't feel much anymore anyway

>>44741453
I'm so sorry op. Are there any hotlines u could talk to? This is horrible to say and I'm sorry but u need to get tested for STDs asap in case u can prevent at least a little bit of harm from this
hugs

>>44741453
i’ll take shit that didn’t happen for 100$ please

oh noooo the passoid had a positive sexual experience, i feel soooo sorry for you

>>44741505
>>44741509
man, this please really is heartless, do you think twice before you comment?

>>44741453
grindr sounds more and more like just a rape factory. i hope you can press charges.

>>44741528
I doubt anything would come of it. The initial interaction was consensual but at some point I told him to stop three times and he was just like "in a minute" and I'm an enormous people-pleaser so I just went limp and let him use me like a human fleshlight. I could've done more to stop it. But at the same time he blatantly ignored me and then basically told me he's not stopping and I feel like I can't excuse that.

>>44741453
Dont have sex with strangers next time then sis. Then maybe you won't get raped.

>>44741453
You should know better than to use an app that sells your face data to the feds

victim blaming the thread

>>44741553
this same thing has happened to me before, i felt really disgusting for a while after and have been a lot more careful about who i get with since. don’t let that experience strip you of your worth, you deserve better than to be mistreated by randos. sorry and i hope you can find some ways to feel comfortable until any weirdness is shaken off.

>>44741453
grindr is such a terrible idea holy fuck
>just let total strangers slide into your dms with absolutely no filtration, bro
get PEP immediately btw

>>44741453
the eyes always tell. dont get hurt dolls <3

>>44741694
So many evil people on there, a guy raped me and gave me an antibiotic resistant infection

OP please get sti checked, the mental trauna can heal but physical trauma can be forever, please get help

>>44741553
So...he was already fucking you consensually and he just didnt finish fast enough for your liking...by that metric just about every women who has ever had sex has been raped.

>>44743274
Wow what a retarded thing to say. Kill yourself

>>44743274
I told him to stop because he was hurting me..

>>44743274
you are so close. you are on the precipice of the foid misandrist agenda

>>44741453
why did u rape him anon

>>44741553
U need a premature ejaculator bf it sounds like.

>>44741553
Also you definitely got raped as far as i understand the ethics of consent.
Ur partner is supposed to cease INSTANTLY as soon as a no is spoken.
It probably wouldve helped if you were more explicit but based on everything u said it does seem like you you got raped fr.

Which also completely co firms all of my opinions on women.

>>44744497
Which opinions would those be?

>>44744222
check'd and underrated post

>>44741516
At least you get sexual contact

stop using that word until it loses all meaning.
dont get fucked by randoms dudes on grindr if you cant take it.
if your gonna be a slut at least be a good one

>>44741453
You don't meet people on hookup apps and then say
>AH WUZ RAPE
This is all part of the larp. In fact, it sounds more like you got rejected and now you gotta start a lie to cope.

OPs porn addiction convinced him he could take Tyrones 9in bbc like butter, then calls it rape when he gets ass fucked like a slut

>>44746756
what an awful thing to say

>>44741553
Ugh, I had a boyfriend who did that. None of this is your fault.

>>44746810
If your boyfriend used you as a sex object then he never loved you too begin with.

>>44743274
Walked right into the point while missing it. When a woman retracts consent, you are supposed to stop. If you don't, that's rape.

And yes, a lot of women have been raped. God, why are some men so desperately intent on being the worst?

>>44746836
all of hookup culture is manipulating 2 digit IQ women into using them as sex objects.
if you have so low self respect to fall for it, then im sorry im not gonna have empathy for you.

>>44746832
No, it's complicated. He did love me. He also wanted sex, and he took it. He was nice a lot of the time, basically a wonderful guy. What he did was wrong, but it wasn't really his fault that society didn't teach him to understand consent.

You can see how a lot of guys don't understand in this thread. IDK. I wish men were taught consent. I sometimes feel guilty for not giving him more chances.

>>44746868
How do men not understand why women don't trust them after saying stuff like that?

Also, IQ is a shit metric of intelligence. Trust me, I scored in the 130+ range, and I still fall for it. Mostly, I just want to believe people are good.

>>44746882
no he did not, a man who loves a women puts her well being and happiness above his own.
you where just the weekend tranny that he fucked and hang out with.

>>44741453
whats crazy is how this doesnt happen if youre a Silverback Gorilla of a tranny. maybe being a passoid or small isnt so great.

>>44746906
You just reminded me of the silverback I used to talk to. She was 6'0 and thick, had to fight a off a few guys who got violent with her from the post nut regret. We flirted back and forth for a few months and went on a date. She was an amazing hugger, absolutely enveloped me with how soft she was, but I was so in my shell that I got cold feet planning a second and eventually fumbled her. That was almost three years ago. She has been in a relationship for a while now and disappeared from the scene so I am very happy for her.

>>44746897
lmao, i used IQ as just an example also the point still stands, love isnt raw dogging a girl you meet in bar, if as a women you feel comfortable in that dynamic then you are seen by that man and any other man, good or bad, as worthless and loveless

>>44746901
IDK, I really think he did love me. I just also couldn't handle the trauma of what he did to me. He was with me nearly every day; we cuddled, kissed, watched movies, and he was sweet. He just... Didn't want to take no for an answer.