so i'm mtf, and i'm dating a cis girl right now, but idk, it's weird as fuck?for context, i usually try not to date cis women, only do t4t and go out with some male chasers sometimes. But she asked me out and i accepted 'cause, "why not?"and okay, maybe she finds me cute because i have the appearance of an alt twink/feminine boy, but she's also very interested in my transition, and that's why i'm starting to wonder if she's a chaser or some kind of fetishist (or maybe a ftm repper?!)like:she follows and likes almost every trans-related account/content on the internetshe asks me about my dysphoria, what it feels like, etc.she frequently asks me details about my transition: how did i know, how did i tell my parents, was it hard, am i depressed, etc.she asks me how i got my estrogen, what treatment i'm on, if i want to get surgerywe've been out together five or six times so far. I gave her flowers, she sewed little hearts onto my clothes, draws me some silly little things and yeah, it's cute and all, but everything else makes me feel weird.what do you guys think?
>>44778852They do, but they aren’t this nice. It sounds like you just have a sweet girlfriend who cares about yout. ftm repper/chaser
>>44778852sounds like they genuinely interested and just want to know more, whether its from wanting to be supportive or theyre a repper is the question.t. another ftm repper/chaser..
>>44778852idk maybe she really loves you and everything about you
>>44778852or maybe she just likes you, fucking retardcant a cisoid be interested in your life and feelings?
>>44778852I think she just loves you nona, try to be less insecure
>>44778852She wants liberal clout.
>>44781001bitches will find any excuse to justify the mental gymnastics they go through in order to not accept being loved by cis women
>>44778914>>44780453>>44781087>>44778909yeah maybe you're right, sorry, it's true that i'm insecure, i'll try my best to not fuck this up, made me realize i was being avoidant and weird abt this just because i don't like myself
>>44778852Ma'am, le crumb o pusse perhaps?
>>44778874>>44778909>>44778852>h-heckin' ftm repper..!!>look inside>women who think they're special for having insecurites about feminitySeems like more cisfoid co-opting, sucks that people are actually falling for it. Pretty similar to they/hefabs if you think about it.Privledged women expecting validation of a self-inflcted emotional victimhood complex in order to fit in with a crowd they have no reason being in, all without having to put in any actual effort or change into themselves. Ironically this is just proving them to be even more insufferably fembrained than the louder ones.
>>44781597>Pretty similar to they/hefabs if you think about it.No, because I have dysphoria and don’t try to stick out in public>Expecting validation of a self-inflicted emotional victimhood complexI don’t expect that nor do I claim victimhood>all without having to put in any actual effort or change into themselves.Reppers have been here the whole timeWhat’s actually your problem?
I'd break up with her if I were you. Following or liking any trans-related shit is a huge red flag
>>44781597how the fuck did i get included with the ftm here ?
>>44782034can't break up if nothing is official sorry, but true lol
>>44778852There are 5 known c4t couples in >>44770036
>>44782280>(or maybe a ftm repper?!)>sucks that people are actually falling for itThere you are. Your girlfriend might just be interested in your experience, slim chance she's getting off to it but modern women can be pretty perverted so you never know.Good on you for overthinking how she might be feeling though, fitting feminine mindset for an trans woman.>>44781996>I don’t expect that nor do I claim victimhood>I have dysphoriaCase in point, thanks. Why say it if you don't expect others to believe it? You even challenged the fact that this isn't an issue you actually struggle with.As said, insecurity with feminity isn't dysphoric, it's common. Not taking the initative to transition proves that, and your only excuses being mental gymnastics summed up to "muh bad feelings/lived experience" show how in touch you are with the avoidaint female nature.>Reppers have been here the whole timeMtFs. Repression is feminine behaviour, so it'd make sense for them. "FtM" repressors are an oxymoron.They even have to specify being female instead of just saying repressor, shows how included they must've been this whole time rather than just an influx of non-normie women.>What’s actually your problem?Not much, just pointing out a pattern. If you want to prove my point more that's fine.
>>44782771Mentioning I have dysphoria isn’t claiming victimhood any more than any other trans person doing the same. It’s not “insecurity with femininity” either, it’s dysphoria, and I’m not talking about ‘muh bad feelings” at all. Also, why is repression “female behavior”? I think accepting circumstances and making the best of it is a pretty normal trait in men. Everything you’re saying is just ad hoc explanations for what I’m saying working backwards from the assumption that it must confirm my “female nature"
>>44782359all of them are terrible people sadly
>>44778852yeah and they are usually psychos
>>44778852The following trans accounts is a little weird but could be her just trying to learn how to be supportive
