my best friend (who had, and probably still has, a crush on me) told me a few months after i came out that he was happy when i came out because he loved trans porn. i could never look at him the same lol

>>44779549
HAHAHAHA
Is he autistic?

>>44779563
There's a retarded genius in those maneuvers sometimes.
If you lead with weird and they reciprocate you have the potential for a very comfortable relationship. Odds are atrocious though.

>>44779756
Right, but this is her best friend we're talking about. Not a stranger or an acquaintance where your tactic could pay off

Please help

>>44779769
It's a bad example I admit.

suzuki mighty boy mentioned

>>44779365
congratulations fembrain

What should she do?

>>44779365
im in a similar situation expect im on the chaser side. were in a weird middle ground of intimacy, so i find it frustrating she doesnt want to take the relationship further but wants to maintain intimacy. ive given up hope of that happening

>>44779365
I hope you'll be miserable for the rest of your life <3

>>44780506
Why do you say this

>>44780625
Leading people on is incredibly shitty behaviour

>>44779365
Oh right, I should kill myself

>>44781339
Why

>>44781538
>start talking to this girl
>we both flirt a lot
>"oh but I'm not in to guys"
>she starts dating guys
>"no what I meant was I'm not in to guys like you, also think of the distance"
>starts e-dating a yank that is a guy like me
>even goes as far as showing me pics of him and saying "now THIS is a guy I'd date"
>she starts dating local girls again
>"oh, anon, but she has the same hair colour as you and the first two letters of your names are the same, so it's kind of like you're dating me"
>all this time she keeps flirting with me even though I've pulled back
>she floats the idea of dating again
>"I just don't think I can because I'm just not in to guys"
>keeps flirting with me
>gets a long term gf
>comes to me, twice, about how she's upset because she's also been talking to this guy and it was getting more serious than she wanted
>"oh but anon when I said I wasn't in to guys, I just meant guys like you"
>barely replies to me anymore
>after this has gone on long enough I ask her what happened, she used to call me her best friend and that I was the only one that really understood her
>"I simply don't need your attention anymore"
I'm still desperately trying to talk to her even though it's been years now

>>44781814
Oh yeah kys

>>44781814
almost sounds like she wanted you to troon out
and what the hell does "guys like you" entail?

>>44779365
>Boy takes hrt
>Has 1 admirer
>Suddenly acts like he's a popular Stacy in school twirling men with his finger
Shrug

>>44781963
I doubt that, I just think I was a safe option that she knew would stick around regardless, and she wasn't wrong
>what the hell does "guys like you" entail?
I think she described her taste in guys as faggy

>>44781814
I can relate to this on a platonic level but holy fuck it might be over for you

>>44782075
you have to cut her loose. or at the very least, put the relationship in your favor; interact with her on your terms. this method soothes me but i cant sustain it for long i'll admit

>>44782126
Yeah no I actually mean it when I say I'm going to kill myself. I'll hang myself this winter unless I can get a gun
>>44782135
That's easy because she only talks to me once every 2-3 weeks
It just was nice having someone pretend to be interested in me again

Does anyone else want to chime in?

>>44779365
>i know this guy likes me
>i don't like him
>but i love the attention he gives me
soulpassing TRVtrans

>>44783358
What do you want, advice? Like many other women they like to keep a plan b guy around and feed him the smallest amounts of interest and he will remember you for life.

>>44783358
You're a cunt and when you hit the wall and have no one interested in you that's what you'll deserve.