is /lgbt/ planning on getting married one day? i’m killing myself if i’m not married by 35 which leaves me with 9 more years
>>44780937I will never meet anyone who is sane enough to marry especially bc I'm trans which limits my pool to the strange and insane.
>>44780937Marriage is an oppresive system of the patriarchy. Its sick that you want to support you and be apart of it
>>44780937experiencing romantic interest is an entirely foreign concept to me; i've resigned myself to staying single for as long as i can remember, and at this point, i'm more or less okay with it. would be simply too uncomfortable to actually try.>t. probable avpd haver
no
>>44780937Don't kill yourself babe
>>44780957>t. loveless transbian
>>44780957I wish patriarchy was real
>>44780957Oppression is good.
>>44780937I used to plan for it but I'm at the killing myself stage now
>>44780957this was the case until it became legal for two women to marry. I'm not sure why some people seem to insist that marriage as a concept is bad as opposed to the way it's been used to historically commodify women being the problem
>>44780937Already got married, lasted a year.Not eager to try again, I got my stamp leave me alone.
>>44780974Fuck off you evil disgusting moid. This is why your still a virgin>>44780986Its still conforming to patriarchal traditions and upholding them.
>>44781029if you believe women have to entirely abstain from anything invented by men to be free of patriarchy, then I have some very bad news for you. I can't see any reason why an initially patriarchal tradition should continue to be seen that way once it no longer exists solely for the benefit of men
>>44780937Yes and having kids hopefully!!!
>>44780957Oddly enough marriage benefits female mating strategies most in terms of ability to secure a long term mate to take care of young but the way it has been institutionalized has historically been for the benefit of men.
>>44780937I want to be married with kids someday, but I don't have much hope left of it happening. I'm 31 and a transbian but cis women into us only want hookup sex and then split they don't want children or a stable relationship. My only other option is other trans women but most of us are too mentally ill for marriage, a stable family, or parenthood, let's be totally honest. I'm basically looking for a needle in an entire field of hay, and half of the hay is infected with something I really don't want to touch.
>>44780965Me and my 3 loving girlfriends would disagree! Stay mad and keep projecting your sad loveless life onto me though>>44781048Then you are very uneducated. You cant see how conforming to patriarchal traditions inherently reinforce the patriarchy, even if the individual marriage itself doesnt benefit a man.>>44781098>female mating strategiesEw, stop talking about us like we are animals. We are women, we are humans, we arent some animal in a nature documentary. We dont have mating strategies and dont call us females.
>>44781136mad cus i struck a nerve lel
>>44781136oh, you're just doing a bit to try and make women look bad. well, now I just feel silly for trying to engage in a real argument with you
>>44781145It didnt strike a nerve. You are just jealous i get 3x the amount of love a normal partnered person gets, and that im happy in my poly relationship without silly sexist things like marriages to signify my love
>>44780957I want a stable relationship to raise kids with a partner who isn't a revolving door of abusive poly nobodies from grindr. Sorry, not sorry.
>>44781154>a revolving door of abusive poly nobodies from grindrYouve never even tried being in a poly relationship, they are almost never abusive. Stop believing in the hateful propaganda spread about poly people please
>>44780937Yeah i'm getting married later this year to my gf
>>44781152the fact that you had to tell everyone that you have multiple gfs and in a poly relationship in such a manner tells me that, yes, i did strike a nerve with you
>>44781184How did u meet her Nona I love hearing love stories
>>44781194I'm a tman and the short version of it is that met her off discord when we were younger teenagers, because we both just happened to live nearby. I can't tell the whole thing without doxxing myself
>>44781187you are just projecting your own unhappiness onto me. You are mad and trying not to act mad, thus you see anger in other people who are truly calm. Im happy with my life, fuck you incel
>>44781272Oh sorry for calling you a nona, sir...Fair enough :) have a nice life together
>>44780937i dont see the point tbdesu
My gf and I talk about getting married but I think we'd have to move in together first. One issue is that I want kids and she doesn't, but I can just become a teacher or something if it comes to that
>>44781276>y-you’re projecting!!!!!it’s literally only you who has been bringing that up and acting like a sperg because i insulted you lol. transbians rly aren’t beating the allegations
>>44781307are YOU in a fucking relationship? have you EVER had any partners? Tell me, because let me guess its probably zero
>>44780937>>44780957what a potentially nice thread that was immediately ruined by a fucking groomer
>>44780937I hope I'm getting asked soon, my bf and I have been together for 5 years now and I have been leaving hints!We're taking dance lessons together this year too so I hope that warms him up to the idea too :)
>>44782199certified transbian moment (tm)
I already got married directly out of high school. It was fun to play house together for a while I guess but I'm not really in a rush to do it again.
>>44782199Please learn what the word groomer actually means before you throw it around, you transmisogynist pig
>>44780937Yes, I am waiting for the right man to fuck me into being a submissive wife for him
