were any of you in a relationship with a woman when you came out as mtf? how did it go?
>>44782342Whoa slow down there buddy
>>44782308cis woman being transphobic wow what a surprise
>>44782308I am on the said of the girlfriends on this. Good thing I am a kissless virgin who will never know love so this can't happen to me. I would probably kill myself if I had to go through that.>t. straight mtf
who tf eats mashed potatoes and a muffin together
>>44783798it's kitchencels it's all just cringe larping
>>44783798those are grits you clown
>>44783820You dont eat grits with a fork nigger
>>44783832don't tell me how to eat grits, faggot
>>44783719wow a transgirl would also be transphobic in this scenario... what a surprise
>>44784013yea because i was going into a relationship with dating a man and i would never put that expectation on another woman to guide my transition and lock me into a relationship built on a lie
>>44784030Transphobic much? They were always a girl.
>>44784070uh no its not transphobic
>>44782308If you get a gf but come out as trans does that make you a hon
>>44782308My best friend married her wife before deciding to transition. They're incredibly happy looking, though the fact they both travel for work a lot leads to occasional communication troubles. Cis wife said that her mother was okay with the ltrans part but not the lesbian part, which is kinda funny to me for some reason.
>>44783798it could be mashed parsnips
>>44784070>>44784089EVERYTHING IS TRANSPHOBIC!!!TRANSPHOOOOOOOBES!
>>44782308i am and my partner is more okay with it than i ever was which is fucky. she just kinda went "oh so that explains a lot" and went on with her day
>>44782308it was fine but eventually i left my partner because despite being supportive, the way they viewed me was kind of limiting my self actualisation. they saw me as someone with some sort of gender disability that needed sympathy and pity rather than just... a person. i am much more self confident since leaving them
>>44782308No because they can always tell
>>44784089Yeah nah, fuck you. You're a piece of shit.
>>44784070>uhh being trans means you were always the opposite sex, even when you weren't is there a bigger optics nuke than spouting this bullshit?
>>44782308I'm a giga AGP incel, so no.
>>44782308>were any of you in a relationship with a woman when you came out as mtf? how did it go?It ended very, very badly. Think the worst way a relationship can end. I lost absolute everything. Literally everything.
>>44783798A psycopath
>>44782308yes, but she's trans and she's the one who helped me stop repressingshe's also transbian which i didn't know at the time so i guess her dating me when i was still saying im a dude was just preordering lol
>>44782308>screencap from the woman L-posting subredditcringe. no i didn't date anyone pre-trans precisely to avoid these situations.
>>44782308Still am. I didn't come out in the traditional sense. I started testing gendered boundaries (painting nails, wearing leggings around the house, etc.). My wife ended up asking if I had ever had any trans thoughts. I wasn't consciously thinking about trooning out, at the time, but I admitted I had figured I was likely trans since I was young, but didn't think I could ever transition. Ended up tripping on mushrooms that weekend and realized just how much mental energy I used up while repressing. Trooned out not long after at 32. She's been supportive, though it hasn't been without grief. We're best friends though and very codependent. Overall it's went pretty well. Our relationship hasn't really changed. We still spend most of our time together. It probably helps that I was never the picture of masculinity. Prior to meeting her, I had only ever had sex with my exbf--always as the bottom. I lost my piv card to her when I was 26. I wasn't really feminine though, just kind of a weeb obsessed with retro anime, film, and video games. Pretty typical repper.
>>44782308I came out to my girlfriend after a few years together. It was hard at first for both of us, but she's been really supportive and we're both way happier now than ever. She told me that even if she had known I was trans from the start, she still would have chosen to be with me.
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>>44782308No, however, I was in a relationship with a man who trooned out mid-way. You can imagine how that went.
>>44789847That seems surprisingly common.
>>44789877Yeah. In this case, it was an instance of "I can do better / I'm redefining myself / Grass is greener." Of course, she comes crying back after two months. Told her to go fuck herself.
I broke up with my girlfriend but didnt tell her I was trans just a gay/queer/cuck/sissy, I hoped if I made it cringe enough she would leave.She basically tried to stay with me for almost a year after that despite the relationship being over.She eventually started fucking other guys and stopped caring. Which was really good for me. I had insane guilt about the whole thing.
>>44791217>gay/queer/cuck/sissy,Wow.
